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WHEN will this fuckin bullshit end

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When will the pain stop! God damn it it's been two months. And im sick of thinking about her. I have tried everything.

Going out, partying, laughing, roadtrips throwing out the old pictures. And yet it still lingers, like a bad ghost. Maybe it will be good to go home, get away from school. But then again home is her, will that be anybetter. How do you deal with your best friend, the person you got closer to then anyone on this earth, just destroying you.

Austin hit it right, im only happy in the gym. Everything else is temporary happiness...How long will this last, it was never this bad with the others...but then again the others were not her.
 
Have you ceased all attempts to communicate with her?

How long were you together? Now, how long apart? When is the last time you talked?
 
to rehash would bore the fuck out of elite

but quick rundown,

3 and change years-together

last talked for six hours on the phone, two weeks ago- that was the only contact in two months

Broke up two months ago, basically after an increadible relationship she fucked me really bad, but then again thats why im not right in the head these days.

thanks Bitchizer
 
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Just keep your chin up. Im not having probelms at your leval

Just think about it this way though, at elast you don't have cancer or anything, or watching a friend or family member go through it (I watched that movie Brians Song tonight)
 
true Austin...wish I could have sceen that movie, looked good.

My aunt died of cancer three years ago, terrible for any human to experience that horror...

God rest her soul.
 
yeah, what Austin said. at least you have got yer health, and a full fridge. when I get depressed, I EAT. be satisfied with what you have: YOU! do what makes you smile...
 
It changed my mood. I was in a rage, then I watched it and :bawling: , so I went from mad to sad. But I did start thinking about how petty my problems are
 
Champ im the opposite...got a full cafeteria...but din't eat for a while...

went from 195 to 171

now im back up 2 180
 
Just went through tough break up . .. . .

I had to focus me . . . numero uno.

Ran in mornings, worked out in afternoon. Scheduled day full with dieting and exercise. All of that bulids self. Many things were self destructive, which only set me back.

You need to love your self at least as much or more than you ever began to care about your relationship. Not until you reach that level will you feel free . . .

Face the rough feelings head-on. You grow from all of them, as long as you keep to yourself. Eventually, you will become someone much bolder and stronger than ever before.

Keep your days busy, and fall in love with yourself.

Push the weight with the hate. If you focus on her, focus on her flaws . . . you know what they were.
 
Keep your ass in the gym...get big and RIPPEDDDDDDDDD....then come around her way in a few months with a hot girl on your arm...let her know that she let a good thing go

yeah it's shallow but hey it will make you feel better :D
 
B-

Good words my friend...

I started a knew program a month after. Its a killer, but im loveing it...pushing my body to the limits. Down to 5% B/F

Im also going to hit a cycle very soon...

I know all her flaws, I would never want her back after this bullshit. Just want to know how after everything we had, and I did for her. How she could turn her back on me...start dateing another guy without even breaking up with me...keep me on hold for a month...and let this fucker Instant messege me "how he took me out" and wrecked my home.

Im still clueless...she was nothing but sweet and totally in love for three years.
 
PinK233 said:
Keep your ass in the gym...get big and RIPPEDDDDDDDDD....then come around her way in a few months with a hot girl on your arm...let her know that she let a good thing go

yeah it's shallow but hey it will make you feel better :D
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I LIKE THE WAY YOU THINK GIRL!!! I LIKE ANYONE WHO THINKS LIKE ME!!! HEHE THAT IS WHAT I DID. SHE GOT FAT ALSO. SHOULDNT HAVE BIT THE HAND THAT FED HER.


KAYNE
 
BITCHIZER said:
Just went through tough break up . .. . .


You need to love your self at least as much or more than you ever began to care about your relationship. Not until you reach that level will you feel free . . .
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Words to live by, Thats the very explanation I give when asked why I don't have a gf. Although if the right girl came along that made me feel good about myself....
 
PinK233-

hardest part of this whole thing...when I talked to her. She was telling me this Knew kid had nothing on me.

She said ill never find someone better looking or as special as you "you were the only one who truely loved me"...blah blah blah

and yea im killing it in the gym...ripped as shit...the cycle should give me back my size and more...
 
KAYNE said:



I LIKE THE WAY YOU THINK GIRL!!! I LIKE ANYONE WHO THINKS LIKE ME!!! HEHE THAT IS WHAT I DID. SHE GOT FAT ALSO. SHOULDNT HAVE BIT THE HAND THAT FED HER.


KAYNE
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She got fat huh? Sweet revenge!!
 
People come in and out of our lives at times with no warnings. It takes time to get over a loved on trust me but IT WILL BE DONE. Its called time and mine took almost a year even though I was with someone else. That said I am now with a wonderful person that makes me very happy. My life at this very moment is the best its ever been. Time really does heal wounds and when you focus on YOU there will be someone who will appear out of nowhere and sweep you off your feet. Keep your chin up it will get easier.
 
thanks you guys "there is some history between us." that is 2 personal 2 discuss...that makes it only tougher...

But time will heal...even though I was sure she was the one
 
HighIntensity said:
PinK233-

hardest part of this whole thing...when I talked to her. She was telling me this Knew kid had nothing on me.

She said ill never find someone better looking or as special as you "you were the only one who truely loved me"...blah blah blah

and yea im killing it in the gym...ripped as shit...the cycle should give me back my size and more...
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No offense buddy...but from the sounds of it this chick is an idiot...if I had a "good looking guy who truly loved me" I wouldn't dump him and move on to someone who was way below my ex's level...I would want to keep a relationship like that going, not end it!...

sounds like you're better off without someone like that
 
Pink, yes thats the one. Its unreal how it is with somone you click with as a friend. High anybody who dumps ya and moves on with someone else right away was not the person you thought. Sometimes love really is blind.
 
PinK233 said:


She got fat huh? Sweet revenge!!
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HELL YEAH SHE DID.........SHE HAD D'S THEN DECIDED TO GO BUY SOME DOUBLE D'S JUST AFTER WE BROKE UP. SHE WAS ALWAYS THE TYPE OF GIRL WHO QUIT TAKING CARE OFHERSELF (EVEN FOR A FEW WEEKS) SHE WOULD FALL BY THE WAYSIDE. SHE DID, SO SHE DID. HAHA.


KAYNE
 
HI

ONE WAY FOR THIS BULLSHIT TO END IS FOR YOU TO STOP TALKING ABOUT IT AND POSTING ABOUT IT. I DONT MEAN THAT TO BE MEAN, I'M SERIOUS. THE LESS YOU TALK/THINK ABOUT IT, THE FASTER YOU WILL GET OVER HER. IT TOOK ME OVER A YEAR TO REALIZE THAT. ONCE I DID, IT ENDED. SLOWLY BUT SURELY.


KAYNE
 
hey man.. i got a paddle too.. seems we are in the same boat, but i LIVE WITH mine. try that one on and see how fucking sane you can be... i already am a bit fucked up in the head, this CANNOT BE GOOD!
 
are flexed1 & high intensity a couple now or something.


i tried cutting myself off from a girl. and it worked. i don't think about her that much or really care about what happens to her. but i talked to her today, and ever since then i've had this weird hollow balloon feeling in my chest. i hope that this is going away. what a mistake on my part.
 
K-

2 things I have tried really hard to do that...not think about her ex.

One for 2 months she still contacted me...I did not respond...until one day she wrote

"I guess the ones who you thought cared about you most, din't after all"

Killer man, I loved this girl with all my heart...I knew she cheated but I had to call...we talk for six hours...shes telling me how she reads my poems everyday, looks at my pictures, can't let me go...
Real hard stuff to here...ends it by saying well take it slow...then emails me a week later goodby

2nd Im here in limbo, down at school...in a week ill be home...At the gym where I work...were we met...that will be hell, including the memories that are everywhere

sorry third these fuckers who stole her away IM ME, bullshit about being Osama BIN LAden and takeing me out

tell me how to deal with that
 
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And nord...while im sure Flexed is a great guy...i am more than strait...but then again look at all the bullshit it has caused
 
you should stop all contact with her. when my woman from a few years ago and I split(she dumped me on my ass) she kept calling like once a month saying she loved me and was sorry for hurting me but she needed to "find herself". The only way I was able to get over it( a three year and some change just as you) was to stop talking to her all together I stopped taking her calls etc.

Got to see her my last trip to cleveland at my buddies bar. She is my age 30 and got to see me with my the woman I am gonna marry who is 21 and smokin hot while the ex had gained about 25 pounds just to her ass.

Felt very good.

Just stop talking about her. Turn the pain to anger and use it in the gym bro. She played you and deserves no sympathy in your heart. She fucked with your head and still wants to do so cause she can. Take that pain and turn it into your gym fuel. Make a commitment to yourself no to shed another tear. Not to feel another moment of sorrow. Use all the messed up shit she put on you to your advantage.
 
If I was single I would play the come over my house and lets talk all about it and comfort HighIntsnsity and console him, and oh never mind this was in a movie I saw. (lol)
 
If I was single I would play the come over my house and lets talk all about it and comfort HighIntsnsity and console him, and oh never mind this was in a movie I saw. (lol)
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Suddenly High Intensity is uncomfortable with this post.lol
 
going to bed High.... but I got a good story and some sounnd advice for you my friend. I will talk to you about it tomorow.

hasta
 
The reason your ex's call you guys is because they need a "back up plan" just incase their new guy doesn't work out...

the truth hurts...some women are evil
 
PinK233 said:
The reason your ex's call you guys is because they need a "back up plan" just incase their new guy doesn't work out...

the truth hurts...some women are evil
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you seem to know too much about this type of thing. :dodgy:

to be fair, i'm kinda doing that iwth the girl i'm trying to cut off. i don't want her as a friend or lover, but she has info on college & career planning that i can use. so i never say 'get the fuck away from me' or anything.
 
nordstrom said:



you seem to know too much about this type of thing. :dodgy:

to be fair, i'm kinda doing that iwth the girl i'm trying to cut off. i don't want her as a friend or lover, but she has info on college & career planning that i can use. so i never say 'get the fuck away from me' or anything.
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I know this because I'm a woman...I have friends that do these sorts of things...shady
 
PinK233 said:
The reason your ex's call you guys is because they need a "back up plan" just incase their new guy doesn't work out...

the truth hurts...some women are evil
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Women are so fuckin' screwed up. That's why I hardly ever hang out with them...
 
Night Fly said:


Women are so fuckin' screwed up. That's why I hardly ever hang out with them...
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I agree!!

Cattiness....jealousy....some women can be annoying...guys are much easier to hang with...at least when theyre not trying to get in your pants....;)
 
PinK233 said:


I agree!!

Cattiness....jealousy....some women can be annoying...guys are much easier to hang with...at least when theyre not trying to get in your pants....;)
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Hell yeah, girl. I think you would be one of the few that I could actually hang with! You are cool...karma to you! :)
 
DYNAMIC DUO

Now this looks like a scary alliance :p
 
PinK233 said:
Heyy Hannibal...how was Daytona?
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Awesome...the gym was right across from the beach. Walked out there under the full moon. It was cool. Did see lotsa ugly women tryin to make up for it with fake breasts though:(
 
Hannibal said:


Awesome...the gym was right across from the beach. Walked out there under the full moon. It was cool. Did see lotsa ugly women tryin to make up for it with fake breasts though:(
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:FRlol:

Yeah I see alot of that around here...they figure that guys will stare at their boobies instead of their messed up faces
 
PinK233 said:


:FRlol:

Yeah I see alot of that around here...they figure that guys will stare at their boobies instead of their messed up faces
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Yes well unlike some "guys" I start at the eyes and work my way down. So if they have a "butter face"** I might not even make it to her falsies.

**a butter face is a term to mean...she had a grrreat body "but her" face was terrible
 
HighIntensity said:
K-


sorry third these fuckers who stole her away IM ME, bullshit about being Osama BIN LAden and takeing me out

tell me how to deal with that
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what do you mean "these"? was it more than one guy? any motherfucker that would talk shit like that knowing what had happened deserves an ass beating. i'm not for violence against some guy that just happens to be dating your ex, but if he is talking shit, you need to break his jaw.

or mabye your girl really did break up with you for osama bin laden. j/k
 
I was in a similar situation to yours and it sucks. honestly though time is the only way you can get through it. People can say don't think about it, don't talk about it because it will help you move on faster, but you need to realize that with in yourself before you can take anyone else's advice.
You have to remember one thing though - there was a loss of trust in your relationship, and relationships can't evolve without trust. If you did get back together with this girl I guarantee you that it could never go back to the way it was. You will always remember what she did and nothing can change that. Like I said i was in a similar situation and eventually that person and I tried things again, but it just was not the same. I still have not found a relationship like the one i was in before, and it's been awhile, but the more time goes on the more I realize about how it can't work out rather than wishing it would
 
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