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I snuck into a bar with a friend using fake ID. I met this cute guy there who was 28. I told him i was 19 and in college, instead of highschool...
we started dating. i thought he was so cool cause he owned a house, a car, and a motorcycle.. the guys i dated didn't even always have their licenses.
anyway, i had to keep lying about college and about why i didn't drive, why i didn't want him meeting my parents, etc.
he started turning into an ass- we'd go to the beach on his motorcycle and he'd make fun of my hair when i got off the bike.
then he said he wished i wore heels to the beach like all the other hot women (to the BEACH??). He said i should wear my hair up and grow my nails long... all things i may have done if i wasn't FIFTEEN.
anyway, one weekend i tell my parents i'm going away with a friend or something and instead, this guy and i got a cabin he has in the woods. We're there for a while and he's just being such an ass so i say "i think i should tell you something... I'm not 19. i lied".
he said, "18?"
nope.
"17?????"
uh... nope.
"OMG, you're 16?????"
not yet.
he THREW me my clothes and dragged me outside, and drove us home like a madman. Dropped me off and never spoke to me again.
so tonight, i'm shopping and i see him. i recognized him right away (i'm 37 now).
the wierd thing is, although my hair wasn't up, i was wearing heels and of course, my nails are always long. he saw me and smiled and tried to coyly say hi so i thought he recognized me too. i said, "i'm surprised you recognized me"
he actually DIDN"T. he was just flirting. i walked away without telling him how he knew me, just to annoy him, but 22 years later and his taste in women is the exact same.
 
becoming's avatar said:
I snuck into a bar with a friend using fake ID. I met this cute guy there who was 28. I told him i was 19 and in college, instead of highschool...
we started dating. i thought he was so cool cause he owned a house, a car, and a motorcycle.. the guys i dated didn't even always have their licenses.
anyway, i had to keep lying about college and about why i didn't drive, why i didn't want him meeting my parents, etc.
he started turning into an ass- we'd go to the beach on his motorcycle and he'd make fun of my hair when i got off the bike.
then he said he wished i wore heels to the beach like all the other hot women (to the BEACH??). He said i should wear my hair up and grow my nails long... all things i may have done if i wasn't FIFTEEN.
anyway, one weekend i tell my parents i'm going away with a friend or something and instead, this guy and i got a cabin he has in the woods. We're there for a while and he's just being such an ass so i say "i think i should tell you something... I'm not 19. i lied".
he said, "18?"
nope.
"17?????"
uh... nope.
"OMG, you're 16?????"
not yet.
he THREW me my clothes and dragged me outside, and drove us home like a madman. Dropped me off and never spoke to me again.
so tonight, i'm shopping and i see him. i recognized him right away (i'm 37 now).
the wierd thing is, although my hair wasn't up, i was wearing heels and of course, my nails are always long. he saw me and smiled and tried to coyly say hi so i thought he recognized me too. i said, "i'm surprised you recognized me"
he actually DIDN"T. he was just flirting. i walked away without telling him how he knew me, just to annoy him, but 22 years later and his taste in women is the exact same.

LOL, pwned
 
jenscats5 said:
LOL, pwned

lol.. he probably looked at me and thought i look a lot like that teenage girl he once screwed.
 
WTF????

Gee you showed that guy that was such an ass to you. But, maybe he was being an ass to you, bc you were acting like a 15 yr old girl when he thought you were older. Or, maybe he knew something was up bc you had to keep LYING!!!

He sure did act like an ass by throwing your clothes in the car and driving you home like a mad man. He did this bc you lied and entrapped him into having sex w/a minor!!!!!! He could have went to jail lost his job and motorcycle that impressed that 15yr old girl. But, you got him back 22 yrs later for being an ass. Congratulations!


BTW
I always thought you were a man posing as a woman. But, after reading this post only a woman could look at this from that point of view.
 
becoming's avatar said:
I snuck into a bar with a friend using fake ID. I met this cute guy there who was 28. I told him i was 19 and in college, instead of highschool...
we started dating. i thought he was so cool cause he owned a house, a car, and a motorcycle.. the guys i dated didn't even always have their licenses.
anyway, i had to keep lying about college and about why i didn't drive, why i didn't want him meeting my parents, etc.
he started turning into an ass- we'd go to the beach on his motorcycle and he'd make fun of my hair when i got off the bike.
then he said he wished i wore heels to the beach like all the other hot women (to the BEACH??). He said i should wear my hair up and grow my nails long... all things i may have done if i wasn't FIFTEEN.
anyway, one weekend i tell my parents i'm going away with a friend or something and instead, this guy and i got a cabin he has in the woods. We're there for a while and he's just being such an ass so i say "i think i should tell you something... I'm not 19. i lied".
he said, "18?"
nope.
"17?????"
uh... nope.
"OMG, you're 16?????"
not yet.
he THREW me my clothes and dragged me outside, and drove us home like a madman. Dropped me off and never spoke to me again.
so tonight, i'm shopping and i see him. i recognized him right away (i'm 37 now).
the wierd thing is, although my hair wasn't up, i was wearing heels and of course, my nails are always long. he saw me and smiled and tried to coyly say hi so i thought he recognized me too. i said, "i'm surprised you recognized me"
he actually DIDN"T. he was just flirting. i walked away without telling him how he knew me, just to annoy him, but 22 years later and his taste in women is the exact same.



I THOUGHT THAT KINDA STUFF WAS ALLOWED BACK IN THE 60'S :evil:
 
Well he didn't do anything wrong... after all you were the one lying back then...

Also I think long nails and wearing heels at the beach is unnecessary and inpractical regardless of age.

I always hear these stories and I find them so hard to believe from the guys perspective... I really can't believe any 15 yr old girl could ever pull off being 19 to me. I imagine you guys had very few conversations. Then again you are a smart woman maybe that gave you an edge, but still.
 
Robert Jan said:
Well he didn't do anything wrong... after all you were the one lying back then...

Also I think long nails and wearing heels at the beach is unnecessary and inpractical regardless of age.

I always hear these stories and I find them so hard to believe from the guys perspective... I really can't believe any 15 yr old girl could ever pull off being 19 to me. I imagine you guys had very few conversations. Then again you are a smart woman maybe that gave you an edge, but still.
errr i was at this modelling show once upon a time, and one of the girls modelling (stunning!) was 14, i though she was 20. and i know some 15-16 year old girls who are more mature than some guys taht are 25. why not?
 
I haven't really experienced that. My gf is about to turn 17 and she is probably the most mature amongst the girls in her class but the age difference is still quite apparent between us.

Did you really talk to these 14 yr old models? Or did you just watch their faked facial expression and walk and listen to their conditioned modelchatter?
 
awittyusername said:
WTF????

Gee you showed that guy that was such an ass to you. But, maybe he was being an ass to you, bc you were acting like a 15 yr old girl when he thought you were older. Or, maybe he knew something was up bc you had to keep LYING!!!

He sure did act like an ass by throwing your clothes in the car and driving you home like a mad man. He did this bc you lied and entrapped him into having sex w/a minor!!!!!! He could have went to jail lost his job and motorcycle that impressed that 15yr old girl. But, you got him back 22 yrs later for being an ass. Congratulations!


BTW
I always thought you were a man posing as a woman. But, after reading this post only a woman could look at this from that point of view.

i never said he was a jerk for driving me home- he just treated me really poorly- making FUN of me, criticizing me constantly, etc.
I don't think i really did very much wrong to him 22 years later either- my worst thing was not telling him how he knew me... wow... how horrible.
don't get your panties in a knot boy... nobody was harmed.
 
Robert Jan said:
Well he didn't do anything wrong... after all you were the one lying back then...

Also I think long nails and wearing heels at the beach is unnecessary and inpractical regardless of age.

I always hear these stories and I find them so hard to believe from the guys perspective... I really can't believe any 15 yr old girl could ever pull off being 19 to me. I imagine you guys had very few conversations. Then again you are a smart woman maybe that gave you an edge, but still.

he didn't do anything wrong, other than treating me really badly when we were dating. I guess i should have elaborated on that for awittyusername's sake. I was mature for my age- i started college the next year and could carry a conversation just fine. even if i WAS 19 or 29 or 39- he had still been a jerk to me constantly. I was just willing to put up with it because at 15 i didn't know any better, but then i couldn't take it.
 
becoming's avatar said:
he didn't do anything wrong, other than treating me really badly when we were dating. I guess i should have elaborated on that for awittyusername's sake. I was mature for my age- i started college the next year and could carry a conversation just fine. even if i WAS 19 or 29 or 39- he had still been a jerk to me constantly. I was just willing to put up with it because at 15 i didn't know any better, but then i couldn't take it.

Just out of curiousity, did you "learn" from this at the time? did you ever let a man mistreat you again? did you lie about your age again?
 
Robert Jan, girls will lie about that shit. I never thought it could happen to me until fall of last year, right before I met Elizabeth (that has been posted on to death already). She told me she was 20, went to A&M etc. She had me going for about 2 weeks, an I never go a chance to see her house she always talked about, until one day I asked her for directions because I was coming by and she fessed up over the phone. She was 16 (with a fake ID so she could get into clubs), lived with her parents, then over the phone she tells me "Well... I didn't lie about going to A&M....I didn't say TEXAS A&M... I go to A&M Consolidated High School....". I meet her at a park an hour later to talk to her about this, and let her know that I was pissed about her lying, and that it was not going to work out, and asked her to not ever do anything like that again. She cried and apologised, and said she knew she would never get to have me now becuase she lied... etc. I was nice about it, and explained that yes her lying was an issue, but the fact that she was 16 would have been an issue even if she had told the truth. I talked to her one time a few weeks later on the phone, was nice to her, and have not talked to her again.

Pretty fucked up.
 
Robert Jan said:
Just out of curiousity, did you "learn" from this at the time? did you ever let a man mistreat you again? did you lie about your age again?

I didn't lie again- i started college shortly after that and became proud of my age, even though i was too young to date most of the guys there.
as far as how a guy treated me- hard to say. i've had winners and losers.
 
No offense, but messing with him years later because he was an asshole when he found out the truth is wrong. You are the one in the wrong here. You lied to this guy abotu who you were, played with his emotions AND tricked him into commiting a felony. If anything you owe him an apology still.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
No offense, but messing with him years later because he was an asshole when he found out the truth is wrong. You are the one in the wrong here. You lied to this guy abotu who you were, played with his emotions AND tricked him into commiting a felony. If anything you owe him an apology still.

i didn't 'mess' with him, all i did was not tell him where he knew me from. he's not ancient- he'll figure it out.
and robertjan is right- the guy was an ass long before i told him my age. i didn't trick him into THAT.
 
becoming's avatar said:
i didn't 'mess' with him, all i did was not tell him where he knew me from. he's not ancient- he'll figure it out.
and robertjan is right- the guy was an ass long before i told him my age. i didn't trick him into THAT.

I may know why the guy was an ass to you.

When I was about 22yrs old. I met a skinny hot chick w/firm D breast. She told me she was 19. I remember thinking damn these breast and her body feel firm like a 15 -16 yr old. (from what I remembered from High School) Anyways, she was always acting a little immature and lying to me. I knew she was up to something. But, she kept denying it. So, I was like, you a re treating me like a chump lying and denying it, so I was an ass to her. (not to get back at her just out of frustration and starting to not like her bc she was treating me like a chump.

I found out she was junior in HS, so I was Seacrest Out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
awittyusername said:
I may know why the guy was an ass to you.

When I was about 22yrs old. I met a skinny hot chick w/firm D breast. She told me she was 19. I remember thinking damn these breast and her body feel firm like a 15 -16 yr old. (from what I remembered from High School) Anyways, she was always acting a little immature and lying to me. I knew she was up to something. But, she kept denying it. So, I was like, you a re treating me like a chump lying and denying it, so I was an ass to her. (not to get back at her just out of frustration and starting to not like her bc she was treating me like a chump.

I found out she was junior in HS, so I was Seacrest Out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well... there is a chance i only thought i was acting maturely- i may have been too young to really know. Even if i was 19, or even his age- blatently making fun of your date about stupid stuff is just wrong. I didn't know how to speak up for myself yet- i just took it cause i thought he was so cool and older.
 
Even if he was an ass, you chose to remain with him, and perhaps as stated some of it was perhaps due to your imaturity.

Now, does being an ass equal tricking someone into commiting a felony? No. Granted you were young and immature, but still in the wrong here. To do talk to him, "just to mess with him" for what happened all of those years ago, seems a bit vengeful, and in all honesty you have no right to seek vengance. He was the one wronged here. My God, think about it for a second.

You lied to someone you were dating about your very identity, and did something, unknown to him, that could have had him put in prison. I'm not trying to make you feel bad, just to realize that you have not looked at this from all points of view. The original post comes across, and I could be very wrong here, as though you got a poke in at him for being an ass... however you don't seem to realize taht you already way outdid him. You already had the last laugh.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Even if he was an ass, you chose to remain with him, and perhaps as stated some of it was perhaps due to your imaturity.

Now, does being an ass equal tricking someone into commiting a felony? No. Granted you were young and immature, but still in the wrong here. To do talk to him, "just to mess with him" for what happened all of those years ago, seems a bit vengeful, and in all honesty you have no right to seek vengance. He was the one wronged here. My God, think about it for a second.

You lied to someone you were dating about your very identity, and did something, unknown to him, that could have had him put in prison. I'm not trying to make you feel bad, just to realize that you have not looked at this from all points of view. The original post comes across, and I could be very wrong here, as though you got a poke in at him for being an ass... however you don't seem to realize taht you already way outdid him. You already had the last laugh.

I didn't try to mess with him!!
i was buying socks! he held up his palm and waved his fingers at me and coyly said "hiiiiii".
I said, "i'm surprised you recognized me"
he asked if he knew me, i said you did a long time ago. He said WHEN?? i'd remember a beauty like you.
I just laughed and said "its not important but have a good day"
and walked away.
I know i did something wrong back then- i remember when i first told him how old i was- i thought i had to lie cause i was in a bar and if i told him i was 15 he'd have me kicked out. I didn't care about consequences later and even though he was a MAJOR jerk to me, he did the right thing by taking me home.
My point of this wasn't that i got in another last laugh- i don't need one... my point was that 22 years later and he's still flirting with the exact same type of woman.
 
If he was such a jerk how come you gave up the kitten to him? :)
 
Dial_tone said:
If he was such a jerk how come you gave up the kitten to him? :)

WHy do girls always give up the kitty to jerks? :rolleyes:
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
WHy do girls always give up the kitty to jerks? :rolleyes:

You tell us............lmao, j/k orboni.
 
Dial_tone said:
If he was such a jerk how come you gave up the kitten to him? :)

cause i was a naive 15 year old who thought a guy with his own credit card and a full time job was SOOO cool. i was kinda a wild teen.
 
awittyusername said:
What "exact same type of woman"?

Hot?
You still look 19?
deceptful?

uh... no... i'm not deceiptful now, but even if i was- all he saw was a woman buying socks.
and hot? not really. not then, not now.
same type of woman... i thought thats kind of obvious, since i AM the same person...
was that hard to understand?
 
becoming's avatar said:
uh... no... i'm not deceiptful now, but even if i was- all he saw was a woman buying socks.
and hot? not really. not then, not now.
same type of woman... i thought thats kind of obvious, since i AM the same person...
was that hard to understand?

Yes, since the same women at 15 and 37 usually look and act very different. Thus it would appear that he is NOT going for the same type of women. I too was having some difficulty understanding this point.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Yes, since the same women at 15 and 37 usually look and act very different. Thus it would appear that he is NOT going for the same type of women. I too was having some difficulty understanding this point.

ok, i guess it was only clear to me. i obviously don't look the same as i did at 15, but i AM the same person.
 
becoming's avatar said:
ok, i guess it was only clear to me. i obviously don't look the same as i did at 15, but i AM the same person.

In theory. Legally at least, but you also do not act the same by any means. So he would be attracted to a very different type of woman.
 
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