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This is fuckin depressing.
What's the hardest thing you have had to endure in life?
- Thread starter wootoom
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Several years ago I had a long time GF/fiancé just take off on me.
After dating for years and preparing to buy a house and get married after she graduated she tells me the day before Christmas eve that she is leaving, her family pulls up and helps her pack every thing while I'm at work and is gone by the time I get home.
I have no Family and I always thought of hers as mine so it was devastating that they would do that to me.
I was given no explanation, she was as cold as ice to me ans I sat in an almost empty apt. by myself through the holidays with an engagement ring staring at me on the counter, nobody from her family even called to see if I was ok.
This was at a point in my life where pretty much all of my close life long friends had all gotten married and moved off and I was lied to about a job that had me making half of what I making, effectively making me fall deeper and deeper into debt and eventually I was forced to file for bankruptcy.
To this day I still have no idea why she did that to me(I treated her very well and she was happy).
After dating for years and preparing to buy a house and get married after she graduated she tells me the day before Christmas eve that she is leaving, her family pulls up and helps her pack every thing while I'm at work and is gone by the time I get home.
I have no Family and I always thought of hers as mine so it was devastating that they would do that to me.
I was given no explanation, she was as cold as ice to me ans I sat in an almost empty apt. by myself through the holidays with an engagement ring staring at me on the counter, nobody from her family even called to see if I was ok.
This was at a point in my life where pretty much all of my close life long friends had all gotten married and moved off and I was lied to about a job that had me making half of what I making, effectively making me fall deeper and deeper into debt and eventually I was forced to file for bankruptcy.
To this day I still have no idea why she did that to me(I treated her very well and she was happy).
JDid23
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no doubt dude... which is why reading this makes it that much more depressing lol
I was very ill in 2008 and no one knew the reason after hundreds of medical tests.
I thought I was going to die but my body fought hard during the 1.3 yrs of pain. Had to stop exercising for about 12 months which made me gain some fat but now I am back into the gym getting fit again.
I thought I was going to die but my body fought hard during the 1.3 yrs of pain. Had to stop exercising for about 12 months which made me gain some fat but now I am back into the gym getting fit again.
bant? lol
seems pretty harsh
I would of thought that you would be happy. Could you imagine if you got married, had kids, and then this happened?
The part that I find hard is when I take anything too seriously. I've always liked to believe that I can always turn myself around and see the bright / funny side of things. This was especially tough when during divorce proceedings or during funerals. Not impossible, but very tough (at least for me).
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