what's goin on here? (chick)

[hanselthecaretaker]

I met this chick at a concert who goes to my college that seemed to be into me, laying her hands on my shoulders every so often, so I got her # and called a couple days later, everything's fine, she's happy sounding, and she says to call her again whenever. Then spring break came and she went home and i stayed in town, I didn't call again til like a week later(probly not a good idea) and got her voicemail, told her I've been busy (which I was)but want to talk to her again. A few days later I call (and get her voicemail)and say me and mine are going to a club and that she should come. she calls me back but gets my voicemail(as you can see, neither one of us can answer our phones) and says sorry she hasn't called but she's busy with school etc, and that she can't go to the club cause she's at a concert. ok fine, well I call again a couple days later and get, yup, her voicemail and tell her to call me. Well, finally, I answered when she did call and we talked for a bit, although she wasn't in town and went home for something. Well she says we should do something that weekend. Great well I call the night she says she's getting back to school and get her voicemail. I tell her to call me back so we can have a game plan for the night. And she didn't call that nigth or the next day.

Does she think I'm stringing her along and is following suit or what? I'm not one to call a girl I barely know yet every day, especially if I keep getting her voicemail. A little intuition reveals a communication problem. I just want some feedback here, as I haven't had this situation before.

Karma for good ones.

 

[DcupSheepNipples]

Move on! Your wasting your time!

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I'm not waiting on her for anything, but she's hot and I'd like to get with her sometime.

 

[DcupSheepNipples]

I'm not waiting on her for anything, but she's hot and I'd like to get with her sometime.

Then make a move! I don't sense any chemistry from your post, but I may be wrong! If your just looking for a booty call better to find out now then later! Playing phone tag is not going to draw her to you! It makes you sound like a "NICE GUY" wich is the kiss of death!

 

[TerraNoble]

I met this chick at a concert who goes to my college that seemed to be into me, laying her hands on my shoulders every so often, so I got her # and called a couple days later, everything's fine, she's happy sounding, and she says to call her again whenever. Then spring break came and she went home and i stayed in town, I didn't call again til like a week later(probly not a good idea) and got her voicemail, told her I've been busy (which I was)but want to talk to her again. A few days later I call (and get her voicemail)and say me and mine are going to a club and that she should come. she calls me back but gets my voicemail(as you can see, neither one of us can answer our phones) and says sorry she hasn't called but she's busy with school etc, and that she can't go to the club cause she's at a concert. ok fine, well I call again a couple days later and get, yup, her voicemail and tell her to call me. Well, finally, I answered when she did call and we talked for a bit, although she wasn't in town and went home for something. Well she says we should do something that weekend. Great well I call the night she says she's getting back to school and get her voicemail. I tell her to call me back so we can have a game plan for the night. And she didn't call that nigth or the next day.

Does she think I'm stringing her along and is following suit or what? I'm not one to call a girl I barely know yet every day, especially if I keep getting her voicemail. A little intuition reveals a communication problem. I just want some feedback here, as I haven't had this situation before.

Karma for good ones.

Karma for good ones

last sentence makes me smile...

 

[jnuts]

Hit It or Quit It.........

 

[AAP]

She is just getting off on playing with you and seeing the "power" she has on you. If she were serious or mature, you would know it.

If you think you are wasting time, you are.

 

[rjl296]

She is just getting off on playing with you and seeing the "power" she has on you. If she were serious or mature, you would know it.

If you think you are wasting time, you are.

wis ein the ways of the women

 

[velvett]

Well, for what it's worth...

A few years ago, 2 maybe(?) I went on a blind date and it took just over two months for us to finally get together.

It had been worth the wait.


So, situations differ - see what happens but don't let it weigh on your mind either.

 

[beefybull]

wis ein the ways of the women

Funny post, since AAP stands for "Anal AssPlorer", who just happens to be gay. Still his advice holds true.

 

[AAP]

Funny post, since AAP stands for "Anal AssPlorer", who just happens to be gay. Still his advice holds true.

gay men try the same bullshit too

 

[TxArmyGuy]

Sounds like she will make a good backup if she ever comes around 2 seeing u...b nonchalant about it...if u see her cool, but if not oh well...

sounds like she's playing the fuckaround...I got 5 bucks that says shes in the bag when yall finally hangout...damn I miss college now

 

[AAP]

Ignore her and that will drive her crazy. She will be ringing your phone off the hook.

 

[notoriousQQ]

You are officially chasing the cat. She has contorl of the situation and you will never get laid that way. You need to shift control of the situation back your way and put the emotional burden of feeling the need to chase and wanting more back on her. And, then make her work for it.

 

[HULKSTER]

Bro, it sounds like she has a boyfriend back at school, and only wants to consider "getting" with you when she is not at school. Otherwise, I've never known a girl who was really into me who would just blow off gettin' a piece unless she had another of equal or greater "hotness" available to her. Bottom line is, she's getting it from someone, AND IT ISN'T YOU! You should have struck while the iron was hot!

 

[rjl296]

Funny post, since AAP stands for "Anal AssPlorer", who just happens to be gay. Still his advice holds true.

i know hes gay.

but its still true

 

[sigweed]

ahhh women... can't live with them, can't bury them in the backyard without the neighbours seeing.