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What would you do???

dating on the internet is creepy. So aside from the obvious wrongs in the action, I would leave them for being lurky
 
a creed said:
<------ask them about it
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hahaha but what if you know the answer already? like know username and passwords to the sites and all and have already checked all the e-mails and everything?? hahahahaha
 
Well, if we were supposed to be exclusive and he was actively pursuing others on the internet, I would break up with him. If we were not yet exclusive, I would just give him his privacy and certainly wouldn't read his emails.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
hahaha but what if you know the answer already? like know username and passwords to the sites and all and have already checked all the e-mails and everything?? hahahahaha
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If the S.O. wasn't just "checking out one of his buddies dorky profile" - and there was proof of "any" chat with other women, - I would authorize you to beat the shit out of him, .......................then leave his ass.
 
a creed said:
If the S.O. wasn't just "checking out one of his buddies dorky profile" - and there was proof of "any" chat with other women, - I would authorize you to beat the shit out of him, .......................then leave his ass.
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Thats the bestest answer yet! hahahaha


Proof of chat! Read all received, sent and trash on 3 different websites and e-mails. I specifically told this dumb ass, "Don't do anything on the computer that you don't want me to know about!" Well DUH!!! Stupid fucking men. I am going to turn lez or become a fucking nun! Thats it! I am done with this shit.
 
ZKaudio said:
dating on the internet is creepy. So aside from the obvious wrongs in the action, I would leave them for being lurky
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I met my guy on a dating site and he turned out to be the most amazing person.....better than all the other dudes I met.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
If you were seeing someone and found them on dating sites and shit??


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I would dump them.....This was done to me and I caught the dude, he cried and pleaded, then did it again. Sooooooooooo if he is on a singles site, he is not that into the relationship.
 
Wulfgar said:
Fiesty
ur a monster for snooping
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If its in front of my damn face, then I am gonna look at it. If a womans tit is hanging out of her shirt, you are gonna look aren't you? sure you are. Well, kinda the same crap for me. I went to type in a website and all this crap came up so I started snooping. I could definitely be a PI!!! I wonder if they make good money. hahaha
 
FEISTY11975 said:
hahaha but what if you know the answer already? like know username and passwords to the sites and all and have already checked all the e-mails and everything?? hahahahaha
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psycho
 
bwahahahahahahahahahahahaha


oh god, I am sooo sorry for that outburst. Fiesty I will pm you hun
 
I've done 99% of my dating on the net.

Once I had become involved with a guy I dont bother to chech his profile or ask about it. Funny, I had a guy "check up" on me once. We were supposed to be sort of exclusive yet the guy LIVED online and had the balls to ask me about my activity!

We all know how THAT ended as I am now happily engaged to a wonderful man and said dude is busy going, "WTF just happened here?"

Point is if you have to "check" on a guy then you shouldnt be with him. Not necessarily because of what HE is doing either... could be issues within you. In other words what is driving YOU to want to check?
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Point is if you have to "check" on a guy then you shouldnt be with him. Not necessarily because of what HE is doing either... could be issues within you. In other words what is driving YOU to want to check?
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Honestly never felt the need to check on him till I was inputting a website and the history revealed itself. That would be my reasoning.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
Honestly never felt the need to check on him till I was inputting a website and the history revealed itself. That would be my reasoning.
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Fair enough...

How did it make you feel when you saw it?
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Fair enough...

How did it make you feel when you saw it?
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Like an evil person ready and willing to do whatever I had to just to get into the accounts. hahaha

I am pissed but laffing at the same time. I specifically told this idiot not to do anything on the puter that he did not want for me to find out about.


makes me feel like I am a bad person or something. I don't fucking deserve this shit. Fuck him! lol
 
FEISTY11975 said:
Honestly never felt the need to check on him till I was inputting a website and the history revealed itself. That would be my reasoning.
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exactly. I tend to agree. then of course once you see a little you wanna see the rest! Well you think you do, until you get so damned sick to your stomach that you wish the fucker would die in his fuckin sleep!

Ok may be too extreme!
 
FEISTY11975 said:
Like an evil person ready and willing to do whatever I had to just to get into the accounts. hahaha

I am pissed but laffing at the same time. I specifically told this idiot not to do anything on the puter that he did not want for me to find out about.


makes me feel like I am a bad person or something. I don't fucking deserve this shit. Fuck him! lol
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Then you've answered your own question.
 
Angel said:
exactly. I tend to agree. then of course once you see a little you wanna see the rest! Well you think you do, until you get so damned sick to your stomach that you wish the fucker would die in his fuckin sleep!

Ok may be too extreme!
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exactly! I was shaking when I was reading this crap. Its sickening.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
exactly! I was shaking when I was reading this crap. Its sickening.
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:( sorry there, better to find out now than later...I guess it depends on the nature of his actions...attention seeking or active engagement, you need to find out the "truth".
 
my fella recently bought a platinum membership on here and searched for all my posts and read probably everything that I have ever written. Instead of being mad, he was pretty happy with me.

However, I feel like now I can't ever bitch about him or the kids or anything really without him reading it. It is a little like a woman listening in on her hubby's Monday night poker game. Sometimes couples should just give the other person a little space and privacy.

I'm not saying that is the case with you feisty. I would dump that guy, post haste.
 
heatherrae said:
my fella recently bought a platinum membership on here and searched for all my posts and read probably everything that I have ever written. Instead of being mad, he was pretty happy with me.

However, I feel like now I can't ever bitch about him or the kids or anything really without him reading it. It is a little like a woman listening in on her hubby's Monday night poker game. Sometimes couples should just give the other person a little space and privacy.

I'm not saying that is the case with you feisty. I would dump that guy, post haste.
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The only space a man like that should deserve is the space between him and his coffin walls. Plain and simple.
 
heatherrae said:
my fella recently bought a platinum membership on here and searched for all my posts and read probably everything that I have ever written. Instead of being mad, he was pretty happy with me.

However, I feel like now I can't ever bitch about him or the kids or anything really without him reading it. It is a little like a woman listening in on her hubby's Monday night poker game. Sometimes couples should just give the other person a little space and privacy.

I'm not saying that is the case with you feisty. I would dump that guy, post haste.
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You should dump your State Trooper BF (cause that's what he really looks like) too and tell him that EF is thankful for the money he spent here.
 
sounds like your fucking spying on him already. nice. suspicious the whole time, weren't you? but you'll still be there when he calls, you always are....
 
I'd prolly put laxative in his food, but thats just me ;)

When the hell do I get that call?
 
my beau knows I post here, and is welcome to every post i put up. I've nada damn thing to hide. He knew I was here when I met him and he's fine with it.
 
Frisky said:
my beau knows I post here, and is welcome to every post i put up. I've nada damn thing to hide. He knew I was here when I met him and he's fine with it.
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He is probably afraid of you after reading half of the shit you say :evil:
 
Angel said:
The only space a man like that should deserve is the space between him and his coffin walls. Plain and simple.
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Damn, you are a harsh little thing...lol. I like that about you. lol.
 
Frisky said:
my beau knows I post here, and is welcome to every post i put up. I've nada damn thing to hide. He knew I was here when I met him and he's fine with it.
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who took the ball gag out of ur mouth?
 
Frisky said:
I'd prolly put laxative in his food, but thats just me ;)

When the hell do I get that call?
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I will call you afterwhile. Don't think I'd be able to do much talking right now. A lil too pissed to talk. Now you know thats bad...me, too pissed to talk??? hahahahhaha
 
FEISTY11975 said:
I will call you afterwhile. Don't think I'd be able to do much talking right now. A lil too pissed to talk. Now you know thats bad...me, too pissed to talk??? hahahahhaha
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then will ya get off the phone with me
 
Angel said:
He is probably afraid of you after reading half of the shit you say :evil:
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lol

I'm an evil lil biatch... but such a softy with him :verygood:
 
He is done with you, but too insecure to move one. He is weak like most of the people who bounce from relationship to relationship. They are afraid to be alone.

Also, he is stupid for thinking his girl will not check up on his ass.lol
 
it wouldn't matter really, because if I felt like I needed to snoop on someone I was dating, I wouldn't bother snooping, I'd just end it.

Because what if I did snoop and find something? I'd never trust them.

If I snooped and didn't find anything, I'd feel like an ass for not having any faith in my partner.
 
Super glue his penis to his belly while he is sleeping.....better? lol

Put nair on his head while sleeping
 
ouuuu ouuuuuuu

Put saran wrap on the toilet... when he awakens to go chat and decides to take a sleepy midnight piss it will spray all over him...

teehee
 
Lestat said:
it wouldn't matter really, because if I felt like I needed to snoop on someone I was dating, I wouldn't bother snooping, I'd just end it.

Because what if I did snoop and find something? I'd never trust them.

If I snooped and didn't find anything, I'd feel like an ass for not having any faith in my partner.
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but i did not just snoop cause I wanted to...I had reason to snoop! And I did find something so no I don't feel like an ass for it.
 
Lestat said:
it wouldn't matter really, because if I felt like I needed to snoop on someone I was dating, I wouldn't bother snooping, I'd just end it.

Because what if I did snoop and find something? I'd never trust them.

If I snooped and didn't find anything, I'd feel like an ass for not having any faith in my partner.
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I don't snoop, just don't have the energy to do so... BUT,

yea... damn But.. LOL

In feisty's defense, she just made a commitment, moved in with this guy, I SUPPOSED to be living a healthy commited life and he (though you may just not know the whole story) left all of this out for her to see.... ?

So what is she to do? Ignore it? turn a blind eye because she shouldn't be snooping? What would you do if the shoe were on your foot?
 
Frisky said:
I don't snoop, just don't have the energy to do so... BUT,

yea... damn But.. LOL

In feisty's defense, she just made a commitment, moved in with this guy, I SUPPOSED to be living a healthy commited life and he (though you may just not know the whole story) left all of this out for her to see.... ?

So what is she to do? Ignore it? turn a blind eye because she shouldn't be snooping? What would you do if the shoe were on your foot?
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Thank you ma'am!!! Love ya tuts! I will call you later!
 
FEISTY11975 said:
but i did not just snoop cause I wanted to...I had reason to snoop! And I did find something so no I don't feel like an ass for it.
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If you had a reason to snoop, do the respectable thing and talk to him first.

In both of my past serious relationships, I had email passwords, that type of thing. In the first one I was young and stupid and snooped. I made a promise to myself then that I would always show those that I loved and respected the same courtesy, privacy, and respect that I enjoy.

Now its not even an issue, I'm never even tempted to go snooping around. If I ever felt the need to, I'd talk to them or just end it.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
I am thinking about making a profile on these sites and luring him in


good idea or not???
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not, don't waste your energy. If the mistrust is already there, it's time to move on....! Seriously, this sort of thing will make you crazy.
 
Frisky said:
I don't snoop, just don't have the energy to do so... BUT,

yea... damn But.. LOL

In feisty's defense, she just made a commitment, moved in with this guy, I SUPPOSED to be living a healthy commited life and he (though you may just not know the whole story) left all of this out for her to see.... ?

So what is she to do? Ignore it? turn a blind eye because she shouldn't be snooping? What would you do if the shoe were on your foot?
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If I was in her shoes I'd think twice about moving in with someone who i cannot trust enough to stay out of their private business.
 
blueta2 said:
not, don't waste your energy. If the mistrust is already there, it's time to move on....! Seriously, this sort of thing will make you crazy.
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I think I would really REALLY enjoy it though. lol
 
If I ever were to cheat and get busted for it, I would actually like it if the woman I was with found out by snooping. It would make things easier for me because I'd know that was not someone I wanted to be with anyway.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
I think I would really REALLY enjoy it though. lol
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If it hurts, it won't be enjoyable. If you don't care about him, then have fun ;-)
I just think it's a total waste of your energy. Use that energy to find a nice guy who treats you well
 
Lestat said:
If I was in her shoes I'd think twice about moving in with someone who i cannot trust enough to stay out of their private business.
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Ok... so cheating (or well... looking around on dating sites) is private business?

I hate a snoop... first to say how much I hate it. I hate a jealous person even more. But when you have it all lied out infront of you, and its clear as day, not much work at all to be done... what do you do? Ignore it.
 
Lestat said:
If I ever were to cheat and get busted for it, I would actually like it if the woman I was with found out by snooping. It would make things easier for me because I'd know that was not someone I wanted to be with anyway.
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dude...need I say more? Just the dude part said it all! You are thinking like a typical male! Put yourself in my shoes hun...I did not snoop till I found things that I felt I needed to find out about. Thats all! Nothing more..nothing less. I never distrusted him..thats why I checked it out. Cause I did not believe what I saw. WEll, now I believe it and I will hang him by his balls! hehehehe
 
Frisky said:
Ok... so cheating (or well... looking around on dating sites) is private business?

I hate a snoop... first to say how much I hate it. I hate a jealous person even more. But when you have it all lied out infront of you, and its clear as day, not much work at all to be done... what do you do? Ignore it.
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if he's smart he's going to say i luv u and whip out his cawk

neither u or feisty can't say no or be made at a cawk when its staring at u
 
Frisky said:
Ok... so cheating (or well... looking around on dating sites) is private business?

I hate a snoop... first to say how much I hate it. I hate a jealous person even more. But when you have it all lied out infront of you, and its clear as day, not much work at all to be done... what do you do? Ignore it.
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if she just "happened" to come across something, that is entirely different. Its like finding lipstick on a collar, tell tale signs.

The private business is people's emails, computer use, etc.

Parents monitor their kids internet activity. I don't think grown adults should police each other, unless they feel they have a reason too, and if that is the case it goes back to my original point, talk to them about it. If you feel they are lying to you, then leave them. Don't go snoop to prove if they were lying, because if you snoop and find out they were truthful, you've still broken their trust and there is no going back.
 
mrdeeznuts said:
if he's smart he's going to say i luv u and whip out his cawk

neither u or feisty can't say no or be made at a cawk when its staring at u
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I have cawk in my drawer who does not cheat, lie nor drool over other women. :p
 
Lestat said:
if she just "happened" to come across something, that is entirely different. Its like finding lipstick on a collar, tell tale signs.

The private business is people's emails, computer use, etc.

Parents monitor their kids internet activity. I don't think grown adults should police each other, unless they feel they have a reason too, and if that is the case it goes back to my original point, talk to them about it. If you feel they are lying to you, then leave them. Don't go snoop to prove if they were lying, because if you snoop and find out they were truthful, you've still broken their trust and there is no going back.
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In this situation... It was his own issue, he failed to cover his ass and got busted, which lead to suspicion. Correct me if im wrong Feisty... but she DIDN'T SNOOP, it was right there infront of her.

I promise you I know the whole issues with snoops, I've been there on that other end and been accused false of things, and it ruined alot of trust. I've had my cel phone stolen, to check and see whom I called... he knew every damn article of clothes I owned and gosh forbid if I bought something new... then I was fucking around. Even after we split he would dig in my garbage to see what he could find.

I believe this whole situation with feisty is completely different.
 
If I saw that my guy went to dating sites because it was in the history, I would go look, and I am notoriously not a snoop or very jealous in a relationship. I think anyone would look.
 
Frisky said:
In this situation... It was his own issue, he failed to cover his ass and got busted, which lead to suspicion. Correct me if im wrong Feisty... but she DIDN'T SNOOP, it was right there infront of her.

I promise you I know the whole issues with snoops, I've been there on that other end and been accused false of things, and it ruined alot of trust. I've had my cel phone stolen, to check and see whom I called... he knew every damn article of clothes I owned and gosh forbid if I bought something new... then I was fucking around. Even after we split he would dig in my garbage to see what he could find.

I believe this whole situation with feisty is completely different.
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well at this point i'd say its best to scrap the whole deal and start over fresh with someone you can fully trust.
 
Frisky said:
In this situation... It was his own issue, he failed to cover his ass and got busted, which lead to suspicion. Correct me if im wrong Feisty... but she DIDN'T SNOOP, it was right there infront of her.

I promise you I know the whole issues with snoops, I've been there on that other end and been accused false of things, and it ruined alot of trust. I've had my cel phone stolen, to check and see whom I called... he knew every damn article of clothes I owned and gosh forbid if I bought something new... then I was fucking around. Even after we split he would dig in my garbage to see what he could find.

I believe this whole situation with feisty is completely different.
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I DID NOT SNOOP!! It just fell into my lap. He left his messenger open and while I was online, a message popped up.
 
Lestat said:
well at this point i'd say its best to scrap the whole deal and start over fresh with someone you can fully trust.
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I did ;)
 
HumanTarget said:
women don't belong on the internets. go fold some clothes.
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and make me a damn sammich biatch! ;)
 
this is probably why I am not married and only have lived with one person. I need to know that I can fully trust them before I open up my life to that degree to them. it takes a long time to build up that level of trust with me.
 
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