What would you do?

[The_Eviscerator]

OK.. My fiance just called and told me that some guy who she had sex with once or twice last summer called her today to see when they are going to get together. She told him she was back with me and that she has no interest in seeing him ever again... of course the prick tried to say... "just as friends." I asked her for the guys number. I know that he knows she is back with me although I have never met the skinny prick.

She and I have been together off and on for 5 years and this February we got back together permanently.

Should I call the little weasel prick to scare his little faggoty (no offense to out gay friends) ass... or just blow it off?

 

[flex123]

tell your girl that she shouldn't need an ex who she hasn't seen in awhile as a friend.

What does he really plan to accomplish? Just catch up with her and try and establish a relationship? I don't think anyone would be comfortable with there spouse sparking up a friendship with an old ex.

 

[The_Eviscerator]

tell your girl that she shouldn't need an ex who she hasn't seen in awhile as a friend.

Well, the guy never calls her... but he still has her cell number. She never talks to him and she found it strange that he called out of the blue. She told me about it right away.

 

[PHATchik]

Let her handle it. SHe can handle him and the situation. Jealous current boyfriends can often cause more harm than good.

 

[The_Eviscerator]

Let her handle it. SHe can handle him and the situation. Jealous current boyfriends can often cause more harm than good.

You are probably right... I want to call this little faggot ass, but I think I will just hold off and restrain myself.

 

[c3bodybuilding]

Exactly. Theres plenty of people out there to be friends with. If she's made her peace with him, theres no need for them to talk now.

I wouldn't call him, I am sure she took care of the problem. If she keeps calling, or she ends up having a fight with you about it, I would say it's time to take a good, long look at the relationship. Right now though, it doesn't seem as theres anything to worry about.

 

[the nature boy]

tell her how you feel. if she respects you then she'll handle it.

 

[c3bodybuilding]

Opps, meant, if HE keeps calling. Just read your others posts, from what you put, she handled it well. No need to waste your time on this loser.

 

[The_Eviscerator]

Opps, meant, if HE keeps calling. Just read your others posts, from what you put, she handled it well. No need to waste your time on this loser.

Yeah... you are right. No need to engage in this bullshit. The last thing I need is another misdemeanor assault charge ( I think my next one will be a felony).

 

[PHATchik]

You are probably right... I want to call this little faggot ass, but I think I will just hold off and restrain myself.

By all means, tell her how you feel. But by letting her handle it, it shows you respect her and her abilities as a grown woman. She can get rid of this loser just fine. Now if she asks for your help, then feel free.

 

[flex123]

I was just thinking about this and when I thought about it the best way to handle it is to let her handle it.

I usually get worked up when stuff like that happens to me, and I end up handling it the wrong way. Such as getting worried and question my girl constantly about it.

Whatever you do don't put it on your girl like she is doing something wrong, remember that he called her.

 

[The_Eviscerator]

By all means, tell her how you feel. But by letting her handle it, it shows you respect her and her abilities as a grown woman. She can get rid of this loser just fine. Now if she asks for your help, then feel free.

It hasn't come to that, and I know with her it won't. I think what pisses me off is these men who do not know the code of manhood. If you know a woman is with another man, you respect that and move on. You don't act like a weasel and try to call and set up dates with a woman who has repeatedly told you to buzz off. This same asshole called her back in early March and she told him the same thing. I just hope our paths don't cross, because I may just split his fucking skull.

 

[white boy]

Am I the only one who would call him back and put some fear in him?
most guys are not going to respect the fact that my gf has a bf, so if a guy calls and I find out I call him back, just to let him know and how I feel about guys hitting on my gf

 

[PHATchik]

It hasn't come to that, and I know with her it won't. I think what pisses me off is these men who do not know the code of manhood. If you know a woman is with another man, you respect that and move on. You don't act like a weasel and try to call and set up dates with a woman who has repeatedly told you to buzz off. This same asshole called her back in early March and she told him the same thing. I just hope our paths don't cross, because I may just split his fucking skull.

You sound like a guy who can keep a cool head. That's what is most important right now. I definitely think ex's should know their bounds. Apparently, this guy doesn't. But like I said, if you get jealous and possessive, you're only going to annoy her. Just show her that you have faith in her to tell this loser where to go, and I think all will turn out just fine. She sounds a lot like me in the fact that she won't come to you to take care of it. I'm pretty independant when it comes to matters like that.

 

[Imakarum_Mirabilis]

I let her handle it. It's usually semi-amusing when it happens.

 

[big_bad_buff]

my ex-girlfriend started emailing me for no reason, so I emailed her back a few times, then I get an emailing from her saying that it is her fiance, and I better stop emailing her(he had her password or something) she found out and broke up with the guy because he was talkin shit to me. He has never seen me so i didn't take it personal

 

[lucidblue]

tell her how you feel. if she respects you then she'll handle it.

Exactly.

 

[The_Eviscerator]

Re: Re: What would you do?

Not to sound stupid, but do you trust your fiance to handle this situation? Do you honestly think she will see this guy again?

If yes, then definitely let her handle the situation unless she asks for your help.

I totally trust her... it is just my irresistable urge to split this weasel cocksuckers head open that makes me want to intervene. On two other occasions she has told this weasel about our relationship and he called her again... she made it clear to him she is not interested and she gave me his phone number if I want to call him...

I will not do a thing unless he calls again... then it is weasel bashing time!

 

[bds20002002]

give her enough rope to hang herself.

monitor the situation. this is an opportunity for you to see what she is about.

Let her do whatever she wants. it will make your life much better.

 

[PHATchik]

give her enough rope to hang herself.

monitor the situation. this is an opportunity for you to see what she is about.

Let her do whatever she wants. it will make your life much better.

Gee, we're not assuming the worst, now are we?

 

[The_Eviscerator]

UPDATE

Well, last night my fiance gets home from the gym (it was my day off) and she gives me her phone and tells me to call the skinny prick and tell him to leave her alone. She has told him on three seperate occasions not to call her any longer and she is fed up and doesn't want this asshole bothering her anymore.

So I called and unfortunately he did not pick up... so I left a message to "lose the phone number if you don't want you stick figure ass to sustain permanent damage." She thought it was hilarious.

Well, anyway.. it was probably the wrong thing to do, but since when have I ever made the right choices anyway?

 

[Y_lifter]

Have you ever seen those ads where the skinny guy gets sand kicked in his face ?

Then he works out, and comes back to Kick Ass ?

 

[The_Eviscerator]

Have you ever seen those ads where the skinny guy gets sand kicked in his face ?

Then he works out, and comes back to Kick Ass ?

lol... I guess I better watch out if he gets Charles Atlas's program I am screwed..

 

[Determined Girl]

Am I the only one who would call him back and put some fear in him?
most guys are not going to respect the fact that my gf has a bf, so if a guy calls and I find out I call him back, just to let him know and how I feel about guys hitting on my gf

Exactly. I am a girl and I agree with you 100%..If she told the bastard that she was back with him, then that should be it. There is no "as friends" bullshit. All women should be on to that scheme. That is the oldest trick in the book. I going to tell you what he is going to do. What he is going to do is talk about all the old good times they had, and pretend that he is interested in the life of her and her new boyfriend, but in reality he is just trying to steer her in another direction.

Out of respect he should not want to go to dinner with her. It is total bullshit. Here is the question of the day: what else is there for them to talk about? It is over. There is no reason. He is going to say the usual bullshit women hear from thier ex's. "I am sorry for the way I treated you when we were together".....yadda, yadda, yadda, "I did'nt know what I had when I had it"...yadda, yadda, yadda, "you were the best woman I have ever had" yadda, yadda, yadda.

I dont think she would be too thrilled if the situation were reversed and you were seeing an ex girlfriend.

just my .02

 

[Determined Girl]

Re: UPDATE

Well, last night my fiance gets home from the gym (it was my day off) and she gives me her phone and tells me to call the skinny prick and tell him to leave her alone. She has told him on three seperate occasions not to call her any longer and she is fed up and doesn't want this asshole bothering her anymore.

So I called and unfortunately he did not pick up... so I left a message to "lose the phone number if you don't want you stick figure ass to sustain permanent damage." She thought it was hilarious.

Well, anyway.. it was probably the wrong thing to do, but since when have I ever made the right choices anyway?

good. I would have said worse. But that's good.

 

[biteme]

Now I feel like shit and probably should, I don't know. I called my ex girlfriend from highschool recently because I always loved her, I just want to be friends because you never know what will happen in the future. I was at the college which is right across from where she works. I asked to see her, and she said that it wasn't a good idea. She is married.

 

[The_Eviscerator]

Now I feel like shit and probably should, I don't know. I called my ex girlfriend from highschool recently because I always loved her, I just want to be friends because you never know what will happen in the future. I was at the college which is right across from where she works. I asked to see her, and she said that it wasn't a good idea. She is married.

Yeah... let it go man... Once a woman is out of circulation be respectful of the situation. I am no angel and I have messed with married women long in the past and I will never do that shit again. It is a slimy thing to engage in and now if a woman is taken... even just a boyfriend... I wouldn't even consider it.

 

[PHATchik]

Re: UPDATE

Well, last night my fiance gets home from the gym (it was my day off) and she gives me her phone and tells me to call the skinny prick and tell him to leave her alone. She has told him on three seperate occasions not to call her any longer and she is fed up and doesn't want this asshole bothering her anymore.

So I called and unfortunately he did not pick up... so I left a message to "lose the phone number if you don't want you stick figure ass to sustain permanent damage." She thought it was hilarious.

Well, anyway.. it was probably the wrong thing to do, but since when have I ever made the right choices anyway?

I'm not really sure it was the wrong thing to do. She asked you to step in because, obviously, this guy wasn't going to listen to you. I probably would have been tempted to just hang up and call him back later so that I could actually talk to him. Don't second guess it. If it works, then just let it go. I'm just proud of you for letting her control the situation. Good for you.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Let her do whatever she wants. it will make your life much better.

What he said.

Love is trust. No trust, no love. Trust broken, no love.

 

[Austin316]

you could always take the direct approach and punch a hole through his head with your fist I like that one haha

 

[Crazy Ivan]

Easy, change her cell number.

 

[The_Eviscerator]

The situation is more than resolved... one well placed phone call and the stick figure shit his pants. He knows who I am and his friends have seen me... and surely alerted him to how perilous his phone calls can be to his health.