What Would You Do If You Found Out or Caught Your SO Cheating on You?

[big4life]

It would be over. You don't do that to someone you're supposed to love.

Ive had a girlfriend that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with cheat on me. That turned out to be the best thing that could happen though. I found out later that she lied to me about so many other things. If there is not trust there is no chance for a real relationship. I don't miss her one bit.

 

[Boach]

Mr Bill, you don't make sense cuz you haven't been cheated on.

Keep trying to explain it off but if you saw some guy pumping your girl in YOUR bed, the guy is the first person you want to kill. Everything else is secondary. It may not be logical, but it's what pops into most peoples' minds at that very unexpected moment.

Dballer is 100% right...as usual.

 

[Longhorn85]

Plain and simple. If I ever caught my girl in the act with another guy, I'd kill them both with my bare hands. I'm a good person but evil lurks in everyone.

Do you think OJ caught Nicole in the act with Ron Goldman?

 

[Boach]

Do you think OJ caught Nicole in the act with Ron Goldman?

Irrelevant. They weren't a couple.

 

[dballer]

Dballer is 100% right...as usual.

Thank You Boach.

I will take that on this one. It has happened to ME!!! ME of all people... I have NEVER cheated on a girlfriend. I almost killed the punk she fucked.. but instead I made him beg and cry in front of a bar full of his customers.. which is worse. Her.... I just let her go. I wanted to kick her ass.. but.. no.. I did not want to make myself look bad to her mother.. I told her everything. Her father cheated on her mother.. so now this girls mom thinks REAL highly of her.

I wish her the worst!!

 

[polarpixie]

Irrelevant. They weren't a couple.

I thought they were?

 

[Jimsbbc]

This is why wrath is one of the seven deadly sins

 

[velvett]

What's that saying?

"I've got a shotgun and a shovel - and no one will miss you."


I've been cheated on - while I was on vacation with my family. I called him up and the girl he was in bed with told me in no certain terms that he no longer loved me and I could go fuck myself. Then she hung up without letting him on the phone.

Upon my return I went to his house, gather my things and walked away. Well, that was after I had to throw the current pillow fuck slut down the stairs because all of a sudden it was *her* house. The ex-beau just sat in the kitchen like the coward he is and probably will always remain.


I was much younger then so I would have to say I've become rather perverse and I would want to hunt them down, film them in the act and gratiously build them a memorial movie website to with all our friends and go on with my life.



Curling -

That "oh I drank too much and it just happened..." Is the biggest load of bullcrap anyone can use as an excuse. The person was stupid and careless enough to get caught or not cold enough to not break down into guilty confessions. I would have to leave them for their basic stupidity and for insulting, embarrassing disrespecting me.

 

[dballer]

It is a sad event that you can let someone have the most sacred part of your heart and they betray you like that. If they told you that they no longer loved you.. that would hurt. But the whole cheating thing is way over the line. But hey.. this is 2002.. thats what we do now.. Remember I think it was our parents back in the 60's who began flushing our morals down the toilet.

What scares me the most is this...
What if I do have kids? What kind of sick world will they grow up in? People are too busy watching filth on TV to look at their family and thank God for what they have around them.

 

[Boach]

It is a sad event that you can let someone have the most sacred part of your heart and they betray you like that. If they told you that they no longer loved you.. that would hurt. But the whole cheating thing is way over the line. But hey.. this is 2002.. thats what we do now.. Remember I think it was our parents back in the 60's who began flushing our morals down the toilet.

What scares me the most is this...
What if I do have kids? What kind of sick world will they grow up in? People are too busy watching filth on TV to look at their family and thank God for what they have around them.

Amen.

I should've known better before entering a relationship with a woman who lacked morals to begin with. It was rediculous that I could instill morals through my own actions. I gave her my heart and unquestioning trust and I was repaid with regret and betrayal.

Ladies and gentlemen--infidelity resides in both genders. All you can do is have faith and use your better judgement. If it happens, try your best to let the crime against you end there. Don't wind up in jail or worse over some cheating mate and his/her immoral lover. I know it's easier said than done. This experience has left me extremely protective and wary. For all of you hurt by another like i have been, god bless and may you find true love again.