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What would you do (chick problems)

NJjuice22

NJjuice22

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what would you do guys, if you were messing with this girl who you felt could be "the one" but she had a long distance relationship(boyfriend of 8 years moved to cali for work 2 years ago) she was involved in. everytime i bring it up she basically says the same bullshit "she doesnt know what is going to happen"...now i can do two things, i can keep hanging out with her with hope she eventually dump her boyfriend or I can end this non-sense and save myself the grief. i dont get her, when we hang out its crazy how much fun we have, we get along so good, she is all over me , kissing, huggin. last night she was practically crying when i told her i dont know if i can deal with this anymore. I know she;ll dump him for me eventually but my pride is getting hurt hanging out with her knowing she has a boyfriend.what the hell should i do?
 
let's see, girl with bf of 8 years starts hooking up with you only two weeks after bf splits...calling a spade a spade, that gal is a trick who will eventually fuck you over.
 
let's see, girl with bf of 8 years starts hooking up with you only two weeks after bf splits...calling a spade a spade, that gal is a trick who will eventually fuck you over.
 
Gambino said:
let's see, girl with bf of 8 years starts hooking up with you only two weeks after bf splits...calling a spade a spade, that gal is a trick who will eventually fuck you over.
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2 years not 2 weeks , and i have known her for 2 years also as a friend and im also the only other guy she has kissed in 8 years.
 
2 years my bad bor...anyway, I stand by what I say...if she is willing to cheat on homeboy, than she will be willing to cheat on you.
 
Y_Lifter said:
How HOT is she ?
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extremely hot...i have no problem meeting women, i would never let one get me by the balls unless she was smokin. she is like 5'9 long dark hair, olive complexion, thin but has a nice round butt. every guy that meets this girl falls in love with her. she is so down to earth and cool its ridiculous, my friends that have met her were just like "oh my god" i gotta find me a girl like that.
 
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Gambino said:
2 years my bad bor...anyway, I stand by what I say...if she is willing to cheat on homeboy, than she will be willing to cheat on you.
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i know where your coming from and I would normally never mess with a girl with a boyfriend, but this dude left her for 2 years...she is only human.
 
NJjuice22 said:
i know where your coming from, but this dude left her for 2 years...she is only human.
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Why didn't she move with him?

Put yourself in the shoes of her booyfriend (not you - you're just the lover) and if she is not happy with the long distance relationship why does she still have him as "the boyfriend" but fuck around behind his back (oh THAT's very healthy)?
 
NJjuice22 said:
extremely hot... every guy that meets this girl falls in love with her. , my friends that have met her were just like "oh my god" i gotta find me a girl like that.
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Exactly.. She knows she is super hot, high demand and every guy wants her.. Hence she is keeping her Free Agency options open..
Nothing personal against you..

Are you ready to settle down ?
If so I say move on as she obviously is not..

Are you not ready, then enjoy her till both of you are ready to settle
down. This will probably when she looses her luster a bit..
 
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NJjuice22 said:
translation please?
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When you're not around she's cheat on you too.

You only good for her because you're there, if she had any backbone she's break off her relationship before "messing" around with you.

You're just setting yourself you to be dumped on, why do you think she avoids your direct question?

It's hard to think with your mind when you are thinking with your heart - it's normal we all do it.
 
velvett said:
When you're not around she's cheat on you too.

You only good for her because you're there, if she had any backbone she's break off her relationship before "messing" around with you.

You're just setting yourself you to be dumped on, why do you think she avoids your direct question?

It's hard to think with your mind when you are thinking with your heart - it's normal we all do it.
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i dont judge her as being a cheat considering the circumstances..i mean 2 guys in 8 years is pretty damn good if you ask me ( we havent had sex by the way , when i say messing around, i just mean kissing and stuff)..but you are right , if she had any backbone she would drop this guy, i dont understand how she can kiss me, call me 24/7, get all upset when i avoid her and still call this guy her "boyfriend"
 
NJjuice22 said:
i dont judge her as being a cheat considering the circumstances..i mean 2 guys in 8 years is pretty damn good if you ask me ( we havent had sex by the way , when i say messing around, i just mean kissing and stuff)..but you are right , if she had any backbone she would drop this guy, i dont understand how she can kiss me, call me 24/7, get all upset when i avoid her and still call this guy her "boyfriend"
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Because she is giving you the JACKASS test. This is a test to see how much shit you will put up with from a hot babe. You will put up with a lot and she knows it, thats why she dragging this crap out. If you dont put up with it(i.e. act like she is no big deal and that you have other things going on in your life, or if you two have become involved then you make her choose between you and her BF, or tell her she can hit the road) she will respect you and see that you are different from all the other limp dicks that fall in love with her at the drop of a hat.
 
NJjuice22 said:
i dont judge her as being a cheat considering the circumstances..i mean 2 guys in 8 years is pretty damn good if you ask me ( we havent had sex by the way , when i say messing around, i just mean kissing and stuff)..but you are right , if she had any backbone she would drop this guy, i dont understand how she can kiss me, call me 24/7, get all upset when i avoid her and still call this guy her "boyfriend"
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You're in some serious denial.

:worried:
 
#1, she's involved with this guy but she's messing around with you behind his back. Sounds like a definite winner. How long before she would find someone to replace you too?

#2, she says she doesn't know what to do. So she's get to drag you online for the ride (literally) while he is none the wiser. She's got the best of both worlds.

Bottom line, you deserve better.
 
Maybe this other dude is violent and protective, and she's afraid to tell him off..

Been there, done that, got in the fight with the supposedly ex Boyfriend..
 
Y_Lifter said:
Maybe this other dude is violent and protective, and she's afraid to tell him off..

Been there, done that, got in the fight with the supposedly ex Boyfriend..
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That's still no reason to cheat on him. You find a way to resolve the situation. You don't simply avoid it and find some other guy to keep you warm at night.
 
If she is going to cheat on this guy with you, that she has been in a serious relationship for 8+ years, why would you believe her to be faithful to you? Physical attraction for some, can be very powerful, and make you do nutty things. All things aside,...I would just cutt this off. You should feel for the other guy. Most people whould just say, "screw em,"...I know, but in my old age (28) I myself have learned to be more respectful and understanding. Think of it this way,...who knows, if you did choose to persue this relationship, you could be that guy someday on the other end without a clue on what's going on w/ your girl on some other dude. That would not be something I would want sticking in the back of my mind. Plenty of other girl out there without boyfriends to choose from for you to date.


Good Luck in whatever you do tho...



BT
 
NJjuice22 said:
what would you do guys, if you were messing with this girl who you felt could be "the one" but she had a long distance relationship(boyfriend of 8 years moved to cali for work 2 years ago) she was involved in. everytime i bring it up she basically says the same bullshit "she doesnt know what is going to happen"...now i can do two things, i can keep hanging out with her with hope she eventually dump her boyfriend or I can end this non-sense and save myself the grief. i dont get her, when we hang out its crazy how much fun we have, we get along so good, she is all over me , kissing, huggin. last night she was practically crying when i told her i dont know if i can deal with this anymore. I know she;ll dump him for me eventually but my pride is getting hurt hanging out with her knowing she has a boyfriend.what the hell should i do?
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if she is cheating on him, she'll cheat on you. bang her and move on, broly.






oh yeah - take pics and post em, sizzletits.
 
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