What is wrong with young Girls these day's?

[covergrl80]

I am sure you guys have seen online diary's. Well lets just say was was reading few and could not get over this crap. What the hell is going on these days? I never in my life thought about doing this crap when I was younger or even now.




One Girls Diary entry: WTF??


"lifes just grand isnt it?"


hello everyone,im tiffany. i am 15 years old and i am anorexic and cut. my best friend is so worried about me, but i love it. i weigh 95 pounds and when i cut, i feel great! it is the greatest feeling in the world and my best friend missy, tells me that its not good for me, and i should stop. i want to listen to her, but i cant. i need to be skinny! everyone always tells me, o tiff, u have a great shape! i love ur figure! omg, ur so skinny! im like umm.. whats ur definition of skinny? because its certainly not the same as mine. i NEED to loose weight! i hate being fat and i feel that cutting makes me feel good and skiny, but DEEP DOWN (literally) i dont. missy, thinks that i am gonna die and she sat there and watched me almost commit suicide with my razor blade. she stopped me and i got so mad at her. i tried again, but i couldnt do it. i love missy, but she needs to just let me do what i need to do. she doesnt understand but i dont know what to do! how should i help my best freind? does ne 1 here have a best friend that wants u 2 stop and tells u that cutting hurts? or hates the fact that ur anorexic? please, leave comments. i wanna get better and i want missy to b happy, but i NEED to do this!
luv tiff

 

[KillahBee]

young girls have always been fucked up in the head. no two ways around it. hell, young guys too. no surprises there

 

[javaguru]

Anorexic girls just didn't have a public forum, they kept it hidden. My ex-wife's best friend suffered from anorexia athletica, 98 pounds @ 5'7" and she ran cross country for the University of Toledo(1995). The sister of my college roomate, who is five years older than me, had fought anorexia for years and she is incapable of getting pregnant(that was 1992). Finally, I'm sure the popularity of coke whores like Paris Hilton doesn't help things either.

 

[*MissFit*]

Everyone is fuked up

 

[musclemom]

One Girls Diary entry: WTF??


"lifes just grand isnt it?"

hello everyone,im tiffany. i am 15 years old and i am anorexic and cut. my best friend is so worried about me, but i love it. i weigh 95 pounds and when i cut, i feel great! it is the greatest feeling in the world and my best friend missy
...

I know cutting is like this little subculture, they even have their own special color bracelets they wear ... same thing with anorexia, bulimia, all those EDs.

But I just don't understand how pediatricians cannot see this stuff. Okay, maybe the kids don't have a reason to go to the doctor ... but how can teachers not notice the kids are skin and bones or constantly wearing bandages ... alright, the kids wear baggy clothes and keep the injuries covered up ... HELLO, how can the parents not see the kids are underweight or not notice new scars? I'm gonna make me some enemies but SH*T, if I felt that something was up with my kid I'd make up an excuse to see the little bugger half stripped if they go slumping around in layers of big, baggy clothes all the time and look drawn in the face, and if that means I have to tell her I'm getting her something custom made and have to measure her for it so be it If that doesn't fly, then, oops, walk in when she's changing, showering, whatever ... I powdered that butt, she ain't got nuthing I ain't never seen.

My philosophy is that being a good parent sometimes means you have to invade your child's space if your guts tell you something's wrong. If its for their own good, whatever is necessary. I know there are people that don't agree with me -- but when it comes to your children you gotta do what you gotta do. If they're cutting themselves with razors, puking every meal up, not eating at all, their lives are at risk, you get in their space and save them from themselves. When they turn 18, rules change, but until then, like I still tell my kids, this NOT a democracy, it's a dictatorship.

 

[covergrl80]

I know cutting is like this little subculture, they even have their own special color bracelets they wear ... same thing with anorexia, bulimia, all those EDs.

But I just don't understand how pediatricians cannot see this stuff. Okay, maybe the kids don't have a reason to go to the doctor ... but how can teachers not notice the kids are skin and bones or constantly wearing bandages ... alright, the kids wear baggy clothes and keep the injuries covered up ... HELLO, how can the parents not see the kids are underweight or not notice new scars? I'm gonna make me some enemies but SH*T, if I felt that something was up with my kid I'd make up an excuse to see the little bugger half stripped if they go slumping around in layers of big, baggy clothes all the time and look drawn in the face, and if that means I have to tell her I'm getting her something custom made and have to measure her for it so be it If that doesn't fly, then, oops, walk in when she's changing, showering, whatever ... I powdered that butt, she ain't got nuthing I ain't never seen.

My philosophy is that being a good parent sometimes means you have to invade your child's space if your guts tell you something's wrong. If its for their own good, whatever is necessary. I know there are people that don't agree with me -- but when it comes to your children you gotta do what you gotta do. If they're cutting themselves with razors, puking every meal up, not eating at all, their lives are at risk, you get in their space and save them from themselves. When they turn 18, rules change, but until then, like I still tell my kids, this NOT a democracy, it's a dictatorship.

I agree 100%. My little girl is going to a teen before I know it. I will be all in her buisness if I think anything is is going on. She may not like for a while but she will soon get over it.

 

[Y_lifter]

I like some Meat on my Woman...

They have a word for men that like tiny skinny chicks.
Pedophile.

 

[slat1]

That girl will date older men or become a lesbian in the near future!

 

[stilleto]

Everyone is fuked up

true.
plus, i wouldn't be the least bit surprised if once in a while you find a "hi, i'm tyffany" who looks like this in real life:

 

[Sassy69]

The one bad thing about the internet is that it becomes a forum where people can find some sort of justification for whatever they do, good or bad. And its the bad stuff like that & probably the support this girl is going to find from other people that will screw up her ability to recover from it. Hopefully she will hit a point of maturity before she kills herself where she will see how stupid & destructive it is and do something about it.

 

[Tytan]

The relationships w/ their mothers seems to non-existant. These girls don`t do anything in the home w/ their moms like they did in the old days and now they have no skilled tasks to fill their time. Poor self esteem is happening because they don`t get their parents approval or attention is my guess....

 

[Sub-Zero]

i th ought this was going to be about 8th graders taking it up the butt in school bathrooms.

cause that happens too