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What is the "right" age to get married/settle down?

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Curious what you guys think.

As I get older I see people getting married and starting to have kids. To be honest I don't really want that. Someday but not now at all. However, people start to look down on you when you're a single guy and starting to get older. Maybe I'm just selfish but I'm just not anywhere NEAR looking for that or wanting that now or for the near future.
 
you should marry the first person to give you a handjob out of high school.

haha jk man..

honestly if you are a guy wait till your late 30's/early 40's.. focus on education/gaining knowledge in your 20's.. focus on your career in your 30's and then worry about getting married in your 40's and having kids if you want. just don't get serious with anyone till later in life.. there are so many single professional women in their 30's (unless you live in rural america) that you can lineup and have your pick of if you are a successful healthy guy in his late 30's/early 40's and they are looking for you.

those same people you are watching get married and have kids will probably be divorced in 5 years and be paying child support for the next 18 years. and all the while you would have been saving money and have 6 figs sitting in the bank with a great career. move to south florida, NY, or any large metro area.. even Atlanta, Philly, DC... and there are ample single people in their early 30's... you would fit in much better there with your view of life.
 
Steve that Alpacka in your AVI is eye fucking the shit out of me. And what kinda dumb ass stupid question is this. Never is a got damn golden age to get married and settle the fuck down.

And I have no fucking idea how to spell alpacka, that lil lama looking creature that's tounge fucking that women in the ear is what I'm talking about
 
stevesmi said:
you should marry the first person to give you a handjob out of high school.

haha jk man..

honestly if you are a guy wait till your late 30's/early 40's.. focus on education/gaining knowledge in your 20's.. focus on your career in your 30's and then worry about getting married in your 40's and having kids if you want. just don't get serious with anyone till later in life.. there are so many single professional women in their 30's (unless you live in rural america) that you can lineup and have your pick of if you are a successful healthy guy in his late 30's/early 40's and they are looking for you.

those same people you are watching get married and have kids will probably be divorced in 5 years and be paying child support for the next 18 years. and all the while you would have been saving money and have 6 figs sitting in the bank with a great career. move to south florida, NY, or any large metro area.. even Atlanta, Philly, DC... and there are ample single people in their early 30's... you would fit in much better there with your view of life.
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This. There is so much strange walking around this city.
 
Strongbow said:
Steve that Alpacka in your AVI is eye fucking the shit out of me. And what kinda dumb ass stupid question is this. Never is a got damn golden age to get married and settle the fuck down.

And I have no fucking idea how to spell alpacka, that lil lama looking creature that's tounge fucking that women in the ear is what I'm talking about
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Lolololol
 
Strongbow said:
Steve that Alpacka in your AVI is eye fucking the shit out of me. And what kinda dumb ass stupid question is this. Never is a got damn golden age to get married and settle the fuck down.

And I have no fucking idea how to spell alpacka, that lil lama looking creature that's tounge fucking that women in the ear is what I'm talking about
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*alpaca
*llama
*tongue


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I dated a chick for 6 yrs and she lived with me for most of that and I learned pretty quick that I wasn't ready for married life. Now I'm 38 and what Steve said is correct. I'm still way off. EVERYONE I work with is married and the new marriages are all happy go fuckin lucky fun couples but about that 4 - 6 yr mark shit starts getting old reeeeel quick and they're spending more time at work and love going on trips. I just went on a trip with a guy that's supposedly happily married for ten yrs. He spent more damn time talking back with the office to set up somethin and go check out some issues out of town for the next week. I asked him about always trying to travel and he said he loves being on the road and do what ever the fuck he wants.


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Well I guess I am not of the norm then because yes I waited until my 30's to get married, I knew my wife was the one for me, been married 8 years, and am continuing to fall in love with my wife day after day...I hope that most will find what I have found.

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muscleaddiction said:
Well I guess I am not of the norm then because yes I waited until my 30's to get married, I knew my wife was the one for me, been married 8 years, and am continuing to fall in love with my wife day after day...I hope that most will find what I have found.

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she's cheating on you bro.
 
I dated a man over forty and decided that there were very many good reasons he was single.


I've dated 20 y/o's that were more mature.

Maybe men (or people) shouldn't get married (or have kids) in their 20's due to lack of life experience. And I don't see anything wrong with waiting for the most part.
 
muscleaddiction said:
One of the things in my life that you don't talk shit about is my wife, the other is my daughter...I will leave it at that.

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lol

Chill bro. No one is really talking about your wife. That's the default response when someone talks about a good relationship in c&c.
 
muscleaddiction said:
One of the things in my life that you don't talk shit about is my wife, the other is my daughter...I will leave it at that.

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Lol that is a common joke on here, Darlin, not necessarily shit talk.


Need a tampon? You seem a little hormonal ;)
 
zwhit said:
lol

Chill bro. No one is really talking about your wife. That's the default response when someone talks about a good relationship in c&c.
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Thanks z...I know better than this, on cycle right now...aggressive, yeah a little bit.

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muscleaddiction said:
Well I guess I am not of the norm then because yes I waited until my 30's to get married, I knew my wife was the one for me, been married 8 years, and am continuing to fall in love with my wife day after day...I hope that most will find what I have found.

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Seriously, can we clone you 100 times over!! xoxox

And a man who has his wife's back....you are rare! You're a good man
 
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smurf2 said:
Look down on you how? What the fk are you talking about?
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Probably talking about how tradition is getting married and having kids, and you're a loser if you don't. Problem is, this is just that, traditional. Some of the greatest minds who've given us some of the biggest advances in civilization have been perpetually single. What I don't understand is why everyone else has to give such a damn about someone else's life. How insecure are people that they have to try and dictate how someone else should live their life.

Some people are meant for marriage and kids, and to others it's just a nuisance distracting them from other goals in life. Proof is the whole "he's always working (making bank) and never spends any time with me, hmmmph!! I might as well bang this other dude to show him!!" Who in their right mind needs that.

I think being an only child might have something to do with it too. How much bullshit you're willing to put up with could be partly dependent upon how high your tolerance for it was growing up.
 
just...v said:
Lol that is a common joke on here, Darlin, not necessarily shit talk.


Need a tampon? You seem a little hormonal ;)
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Damn V there is no need to be mean to her... ;)

@ the OP, there is no defined age, some people get married young and it works, some people get old and it doesnt, there are different ways to view it, if you get married young you kinda "grow" together and get used to each other as opposed to starting once you are older and set in your ways, I've seen a lot of 30+ peeps not find relationships because they are very demanding, they already financially stable, probably even have their own house so they demand a lot out of their partners because they dont "need" them, yet at the same time if you settle down older then A. you get partying and such out of your system and B. you know what you want and what you dont want from a relationship as opposed to younger people who may want different things as they mature.

So as you can see there are pros and cons of each stage of life so it's up to you to decide what you want at what age, I'd say you are ready when you feel you are ready and you are economically able to provide for a home.
 
just...v said:
He's awesome. I gave him a little good humor K ;)
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Awwe thanks girl...you too ;). Mom just had hip replacement surgery Tuesday, was discharged home yesterday, all she has is me, the wife, grandkids, and in home therapists...so caring for her, taking care of my family, and going a little nuts...yes was a little edgy yesterday due to being a tad overwhelmed...thanks for the gentle touch! There are some good women here on EF, and you, blueta, shirlene, musclemama, and psizzle are at the top of the list...thanks!

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Never if you don't want to. Who gives a rat's ass what people think. I don't ever plan on getting married or having kids. Fuck all that shit. I saw my dad get fucked over twice. Went from 6 figures in savings and stocks to barely being able to pay the bills. That's what 2 bad marriages can do to you.

"After divorce a man is left with two things, his cock and his soul."
 
Jesse_Stillwell said:
Never if you don't want to. Who gives a rat's ass what people think. I don't ever plan on getting married or having kids. Fuck all that shit. I saw my dad get fucked over twice. Went from 6 figures in savings and stocks to barely being able to pay the bills. That's what 2 bad marriages can do to you.

"After divorce a man is left with two things, his cock and his soul."
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I would like the names if his ex-wives divorce lawyers. Cause I'm divorced and my bitch assed ex is sitting pretty.
 
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