that is as tragic as it is traumatic.HumorMe said:My father 2 years ago. Choked to death on a piece of meat at the supper table.
people are cruel. and it makes me want to be cruel right back at them.theoak01 said:for people is say a friend of or family who rented the basement apartment from my grandparents,he was always like family,as his own left him, we were like his kids,I respected that man more then any other, he always bought me nascar stuff and really got me into it. then when he was getting sick he moved out and let himself die alone with pride.
I miss him everyday. and loathe his family for being vultures upon his death taking full advantage of him having no will
well, i hope they found pride in living off of the bodies of others.theoak01 said:my grandfather was there when these pieces of shit showed up and cleaned out his stuff,id have been taken away in cuffs,noway in hell people who havent talked to him in over 30 years deserved a dime.
he verbally told me the nascar stuff was mine as it was our special thing together,but i wasnt gonna challange it in court,im not greedy like she was
theoak01 said:my grandfather was there when these pieces of shit showed up and cleaned out his stuff,id have been taken away in cuffs,noway in hell people who havent talked to him in over 30 years deserved a dime.
he verbally told me the nascar stuff was mine as it was our special thing together,but i wasnt gonna challange it in court,im not greedy like she was
HumanTarget said:that is as tragic as it is traumatic.
i can't believe how fucking evil some people can be. over a little bit of money.....jenscats5 said:My half-sister did the same thing to me when my dad was sick & passed away.....talked him into leaving me out of his will due to his reduced mental state & I now have no clue where my mom's & dad's ashes are, etc etc....
jenscats5 said:My half-sister did the same thing to me when my dad was sick & passed away.....talked him into leaving me out of his will due to his reduced mental state & I now have no clue where my mom's & dad's ashes are, etc etc....
HumanTarget said:i can't believe how fucking evil some people can be. over a little bit of money.....
this happened to me during my first week of high school. i was labeled a "weirdo" because i shut down and never wanted to talk to anyone...HumorMe said:Yes both.
I can't imagine losing a sibling. Young people dying is always tragic no matter what. So much is lost.
my Ex's Dad died on 9-11. her family never told her, she's a Canadian girl living with me here and she had to find out from a third party. to not be able to say good bye. or even see the grave. Evil.jenscats5 said:Exactly!! I don't even care about the money - but I lost a lot of personal things from when I was a child, things of my grandmother's (who meant a lot to me) and things of my mom's I would have liked just to remember her by....
She never bothered to even CALL me to tell me my dad passed away.... Hope she likes the spot in hell reserved for her.....c*nt...
HumanTarget said:my Ex's Dad died on 9-11. her family never told her, she's a Canadian girl living with me here and she had to find out from a third party. to not be able to say good bye. or even see the grave. Evil.
it's so hard not to want to give it right back, twice as hard. but i have to think that there is something seriously fucking wrong with someone who would do something like that. a bad wiring job. sociopaths.jenscats5 said:OMG that's horrible....people can be mean....shame...
jenscats5 said:Exactly!! I don't even care about the money - but I lost a lot of personal things from when I was a child, things of my grandmother's (who meant a lot to me) and things of my mom's I would have liked just to remember her by....
She never bothered to even CALL me to tell me my dad passed away.... Hope she likes the spot in hell reserved for her.....c*nt...
biteme said:Hell hath no furry like a woman's anger!
jenscats5 said:Well there's nothing I can do about it now, but it was very hurtful at the time.....
She'll get hers......
Wow.That sux.Mr. dB said:Lost my mom, my cat, and my brother all in a span of 18 months. Didn't help anything that my dad remarried eight months after my mom died.

myway said:Wow.That sux.![]()
Sometimes families are repugnant, aren't they?HumanTarget said:people are cruel. and it makes me want to be cruel right back at them.
she was 27. my older sis. my idol.HiDnGoD said:Sometimes families are repugnant, aren't they?
Sorry to hear about yer sis. That's such a young age (14) to lose someone that close to you. How old was she?
Sorry. That is so terrible. I lost my mother and my grandfather within a two week period. I tell you, that just begins to feel surreal when you lose person after person in such a short time.Mr. dB said:Lost my mom, my cat, and my brother all in a span of 18 months. Didn't help anything that my dad remarried eight months after my mom died.
i was never right again after Val died....HeatherRae said:My mother. You ever hurt so much that you can't cry? I walked around like a robot arranging the funeral, etc. I barely even cried at the funeral because I had to give the eulogy. I had to be in control and in charge. Now I cry all the time. I think about every little detail of the care that I gave her while she was dying and beat myself up that I could have done more, could have made it better, etc.
I doubt I will ever be the same. My mom lived in a tiny little house behind my grandparents and took care of my ailing grandfather until she got sick, when she came to live with me. My grandfather died shortly after she did. I can't bear to go see my grandmother, because I have to see my mom's house sitting behind my grandmother's house. I can't bear not being able to walk back there and see her. I need to go visit my grandmother, though.HumanTarget said:i was never right again after Val died....
Ah, that is sad. I'm sorry. =-(HiDnGoD said:My Mom was sick for years. she kept going in the hospital, & we kept getting "the call", but she always pulled through. Well the last time we got the call, I was working late (again), & by the time I got home & picked up my wife& drove 1 1/2 hrs to the hospital she was gone. I always felt guilty about not being there. I can't believe I still cry when I think about that, 17 yrs later.
That is terrible. =-(eat big said:I grew up with a kid for my whole life, decided to go to Iraq and was killed on Jan. 25th 2005 at 20.
That is my biggest fear is a loss of freedom.needtogetas said:my freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeddddddddddddddddom
HeatherRae said:Sorry. That is so terrible. I lost my mother and my grandfather within a two week period. I tell you, that just begins to feel surreal when you lose person after person in such a short time.
i will completely strip you of any freedom. total power exchange.HeatherRae said:That is my biggest fear is a loss of freedom.
wtf. sorry, wrong thread. HR is a bad fucking influence and invokes filth with her lascivious, innuendo filled posts.HumanTarget said:i will completely strip you of any freedom. total power exchange.
well, insensitive. i dunno. i'm an asshole myself, but i've talked to HumorMe about this before. he was close to his father.mr.jones said:i really didnt think it was rude....oh well, im sorry for that
I have a friend. ( Believe it or not) He went in the hospital today to have an ankle fused. He's disabled & facing a ton of health issues that would have probably overwhelmed me. His Mom forgot to pick him up after the operation. This is the second time she's done that. She lives at the friggin casino. How do people do that?HumanTarget said:you know what i heard today? i have this fellow named Sam at my place. he's been living in a group home for almost 19 years. he's an extremely sensitive man, if he says hello to someone and they ignore him, he runs to me and demands an explanation. well, today, i was helping him try and contact his family. i assumed he spoke to them often, seeing as how he talks about them everyday , leaving no aspect of family life omitted. well, i find out he hasn't heard from them in 17 years. 17 fucking years and not one Christmas card, one birthday card, not one phone call. talk about a rude awakening. i'm still trying to comprehend the concept of abandonment....
i don't even know how to reply to that post. i'm sorry is the best i can do.FEISTY11975 said:I would have to say the loss of my mom when I was 5 years old. I totally missed out on the mother/daughter relationship that I would have loved to have had. When I see people disrespecting their parents I just wonder if they ever think of how it would be to not have them in their lives. I would give anything for my mom to be here with me!
ROFL...I didn't understand what you were talking about HT, but I got a giggle out of it anyway.HumanTarget said:wtf. sorry, wrong thread. HR is a bad fucking influence and invokes filth with her lascivious, innuendo filled posts.
I'm sorry Feisty. I can't imagine. You will get to be with her one day, though.FEISTY11975 said:I would have to say the loss of my mom when I was 5 years old. I totally missed out on the mother/daughter relationship that I would have loved to have had. When I see people disrespecting their parents I just wonder if they ever think of how it would be to not have them in their lives. I would give anything for my mom to be here with me!
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