Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below
napsgear
genezapharmateuticals
domestic-supply
puritysourcelabs
UGL OZ
UGFREAK
napsgeargenezapharmateuticals domestic-supplypuritysourcelabsUGL OZUGFREAK

What Is The Most Significant......

H_T_

Da Pope
Platinum
Loss in your lifetime so far?
Mine was my Sister dying when i was 14. She was the only girl to have a positive impact on me and one of only 2 girls i ever loved. think about her every day......
 
for people is say a friend of or family who rented the basement apartment from my grandparents,he was always like family,as his own left him, we were like his kids,I respected that man more then any other, he always bought me nascar stuff and really got me into it. then when he was getting sick he moved out and let himself die alone with pride.

I miss him everyday. and loathe his family for being vultures upon his death taking full advantage of him having no will
 
theoak01 said:
for people is say a friend of or family who rented the basement apartment from my grandparents,he was always like family,as his own left him, we were like his kids,I respected that man more then any other, he always bought me nascar stuff and really got me into it. then when he was getting sick he moved out and let himself die alone with pride.

I miss him everyday. and loathe his family for being vultures upon his death taking full advantage of him having no will
people are cruel. and it makes me want to be cruel right back at them.
 
my grandfather was there when these pieces of shit showed up and cleaned out his stuff,id have been taken away in cuffs,noway in hell people who havent talked to him in over 30 years deserved a dime.

he verbally told me the nascar stuff was mine as it was our special thing together,but i wasnt gonna challange it in court,im not greedy like she was
 
theoak01 said:
my grandfather was there when these pieces of shit showed up and cleaned out his stuff,id have been taken away in cuffs,noway in hell people who havent talked to him in over 30 years deserved a dime.

he verbally told me the nascar stuff was mine as it was our special thing together,but i wasnt gonna challange it in court,im not greedy like she was
well, i hope they found pride in living off of the bodies of others.
 
theoak01 said:
my grandfather was there when these pieces of shit showed up and cleaned out his stuff,id have been taken away in cuffs,noway in hell people who havent talked to him in over 30 years deserved a dime.

he verbally told me the nascar stuff was mine as it was our special thing together,but i wasnt gonna challange it in court,im not greedy like she was

My half-sister did the same thing to me when my dad was sick & passed away.....talked him into leaving me out of his will due to his reduced mental state & I now have no clue where my mom's & dad's ashes are, etc etc....
 
Haven't lost a close family member yet,but have lost friends.

My greatest loss that makes my heart ache daily is the loss of my soul mate.(No,it wasn't my ex-wife.lol)
 
jenscats5 said:
My half-sister did the same thing to me when my dad was sick & passed away.....talked him into leaving me out of his will due to his reduced mental state & I now have no clue where my mom's & dad's ashes are, etc etc....
i can't believe how fucking evil some people can be. over a little bit of money.....
 
jenscats5 said:
My half-sister did the same thing to me when my dad was sick & passed away.....talked him into leaving me out of his will due to his reduced mental state & I now have no clue where my mom's & dad's ashes are, etc etc....


thats horrible to hear,im so sorry for your loss. she will get hers,I firmly believe that,just keep your cool.

my grandfather has an assault charge over this type of business
 
HumanTarget said:
i can't believe how fucking evil some people can be. over a little bit of money.....

Exactly!! I don't even care about the money - but I lost a lot of personal things from when I was a child, things of my grandmother's (who meant a lot to me) and things of my mom's I would have liked just to remember her by....

She never bothered to even CALL me to tell me my dad passed away.... Hope she likes the spot in hell reserved for her.....c*nt...
 
HumorMe said:
Yes both.

I can't imagine losing a sibling. Young people dying is always tragic no matter what. So much is lost.
this happened to me during my first week of high school. i was labeled a "weirdo" because i shut down and never wanted to talk to anyone...
 
jenscats5 said:
Exactly!! I don't even care about the money - but I lost a lot of personal things from when I was a child, things of my grandmother's (who meant a lot to me) and things of my mom's I would have liked just to remember her by....

She never bothered to even CALL me to tell me my dad passed away.... Hope she likes the spot in hell reserved for her.....c*nt...
my Ex's Dad died on 9-11. her family never told her, she's a Canadian girl living with me here and she had to find out from a third party. to not be able to say good bye. or even see the grave. Evil.
 
HumanTarget said:
my Ex's Dad died on 9-11. her family never told her, she's a Canadian girl living with me here and she had to find out from a third party. to not be able to say good bye. or even see the grave. Evil.

OMG that's horrible....people can be mean....shame...
 
jenscats5 said:
OMG that's horrible....people can be mean....shame...
it's so hard not to want to give it right back, twice as hard. but i have to think that there is something seriously fucking wrong with someone who would do something like that. a bad wiring job. sociopaths.
 
My mother, two years ago. She was 67 but in terrific health, she collapsed at work from a leaking cerebral aneurysm, took us 3 weeks to convince her to go to the hospital, they operated on her 24 hours later, after three weeks she was recovering and about to be transferred to a rehab facility, the aneurysm reopened. I had to tell the doctors to withdraw life support. She hadn't left a will or written instructions, that made things really, really hard.

Of course, one year later my husband's mother AND father both died (within 12 hours of each other, after being divorced for 35+ years). Again, no written instructions ...

I'm a fucking pro at funerals on the fly.
 
Personal loss, I'd have to say the dissolution of my marriage. I took that shit serious.
 
jenscats5 said:
Exactly!! I don't even care about the money - but I lost a lot of personal things from when I was a child, things of my grandmother's (who meant a lot to me) and things of my mom's I would have liked just to remember her by....

She never bothered to even CALL me to tell me my dad passed away.... Hope she likes the spot in hell reserved for her.....c*nt...

Hell hath no furry like a woman's anger!
 
biteme said:
Hell hath no furry like a woman's anger!

Well there's nothing I can do about it now, but it was very hurtful at the time.....

She'll get hers......
 
jenscats5 said:
Well there's nothing I can do about it now, but it was very hurtful at the time.....

She'll get hers......

That was a terrible thing to do. I wonder what her logic behind the action was? Nevermind
 
Lost my mom, my cat, and my brother all in a span of 18 months. Didn't help anything that my dad remarried eight months after my mom died.
 
HumanTarget said:
people are cruel. and it makes me want to be cruel right back at them.
Sometimes families are repugnant, aren't they?

Sorry to hear about yer sis. That's such a young age (14) to lose someone that close to you. How old was she?
 
HiDnGoD said:
Sometimes families are repugnant, aren't they?

Sorry to hear about yer sis. That's such a young age (14) to lose someone that close to you. How old was she?
she was 27. my older sis. my idol.
 
My mother in law....she died when I was 7 months preg with our first child....I was heartbroken....
 
My mother. You ever hurt so much that you can't cry? I walked around like a robot arranging the funeral, etc. I barely even cried at the funeral because I had to give the eulogy. I had to be in control and in charge. Now I cry all the time. I think about every little detail of the care that I gave her while she was dying and beat myself up that I could have done more, could have made it better, etc.
 
My father.

we weren't on speaking terms when he died.
 
Mr. dB said:
Lost my mom, my cat, and my brother all in a span of 18 months. Didn't help anything that my dad remarried eight months after my mom died.
Sorry. That is so terrible. I lost my mother and my grandfather within a two week period. I tell you, that just begins to feel surreal when you lose person after person in such a short time.
 
HeatherRae said:
My mother. You ever hurt so much that you can't cry? I walked around like a robot arranging the funeral, etc. I barely even cried at the funeral because I had to give the eulogy. I had to be in control and in charge. Now I cry all the time. I think about every little detail of the care that I gave her while she was dying and beat myself up that I could have done more, could have made it better, etc.
i was never right again after Val died....
 
My uncle killed himself at 39 years
I never thought he would do that, it made me realize that depression is nothing to mess around with
also when my grandfather died, i saw him still in his wheelchair. I didnt want to remember the last time seeing him like that, instead i want to remember him laughing and making silly jokes and giggling hehe
 
HumanTarget said:
i was never right again after Val died....
I doubt I will ever be the same. My mom lived in a tiny little house behind my grandparents and took care of my ailing grandfather until she got sick, when she came to live with me. My grandfather died shortly after she did. I can't bear to go see my grandmother, because I have to see my mom's house sitting behind my grandmother's house. I can't bear not being able to walk back there and see her. I need to go visit my grandmother, though.
 
My Mom was sick for years. she kept going in the hospital, & we kept getting "the call", but she always pulled through. Well the last time we got the call, I was working late (again), & by the time I got home & picked up my wife& drove 1 1/2 hrs to the hospital she was gone. I always felt guilty about not being there. I can't believe I still cry when I think about that, 17 yrs later.
 
HiDnGoD said:
My Mom was sick for years. she kept going in the hospital, & we kept getting "the call", but she always pulled through. Well the last time we got the call, I was working late (again), & by the time I got home & picked up my wife& drove 1 1/2 hrs to the hospital she was gone. I always felt guilty about not being there. I can't believe I still cry when I think about that, 17 yrs later.
Ah, that is sad. I'm sorry. =-(
 
eat big said:
I grew up with a kid for my whole life, decided to go to Iraq and was killed on Jan. 25th 2005 at 20.
That is terrible. =-(
 
Well I guess they are trying to get you to learn something Need2. But it is hard to stay home...
 
HeatherRae said:
Sorry. That is so terrible. I lost my mother and my grandfather within a two week period. I tell you, that just begins to feel surreal when you lose person after person in such a short time.

Surreal and numb.

We found out later that my great aunt died the same day as my mother. No one bothered to tell us for several weeks because they thought we had enough to deal with. We had lost touch with her because she'd gone stone deaf and communication was impossible. It's sad when people grow apart just because it's inconvenient.
 
Last edited:
HumanTarget said:
i will completely strip you of any freedom. total power exchange.
wtf. sorry, wrong thread. HR is a bad fucking influence and invokes filth with her lascivious, innuendo filled posts.
 
you know what i heard today? i have this fellow named Sam at my place. he's been living in a group home for almost 19 years. he's an extremely sensitive man, if he says hello to someone and they ignore him, he runs to me and demands an explanation. well, today, i was helping him try and contact his family. i assumed he spoke to them often, seeing as how he talks about them everyday , leaving no aspect of family life omitted. well, i find out he hasn't heard from them in 17 years. 17 fucking years and not one Christmas card, one birthday card, not one phone call. talk about a rude awakening. i'm still trying to comprehend the concept of abandonment....
 
mr.jones said:
i really didnt think it was rude....oh well, im sorry for that
well, insensitive. i dunno. i'm an asshole myself, but i've talked to HumorMe about this before. he was close to his father.
 
HumanTarget said:
you know what i heard today? i have this fellow named Sam at my place. he's been living in a group home for almost 19 years. he's an extremely sensitive man, if he says hello to someone and they ignore him, he runs to me and demands an explanation. well, today, i was helping him try and contact his family. i assumed he spoke to them often, seeing as how he talks about them everyday , leaving no aspect of family life omitted. well, i find out he hasn't heard from them in 17 years. 17 fucking years and not one Christmas card, one birthday card, not one phone call. talk about a rude awakening. i'm still trying to comprehend the concept of abandonment....
I have a friend. ( Believe it or not) He went in the hospital today to have an ankle fused. He's disabled & facing a ton of health issues that would have probably overwhelmed me. His Mom forgot to pick him up after the operation. This is the second time she's done that. She lives at the friggin casino. How do people do that?
 
I would have to say the loss of my mom when I was 5 years old. I totally missed out on the mother/daughter relationship that I would have loved to have had. When I see people disrespecting their parents I just wonder if they ever think of how it would be to not have them in their lives. I would give anything for my mom to be here with me!
 
FEISTY11975 said:
I would have to say the loss of my mom when I was 5 years old. I totally missed out on the mother/daughter relationship that I would have loved to have had. When I see people disrespecting their parents I just wonder if they ever think of how it would be to not have them in their lives. I would give anything for my mom to be here with me!
i don't even know how to reply to that post. i'm sorry is the best i can do.
 
The one thing we all share as humans, is loss. The myriad ways of losing parents, siblings, & children is something that joins all social, economic, & racial boundaries.
 
HumanTarget said:
wtf. sorry, wrong thread. HR is a bad fucking influence and invokes filth with her lascivious, innuendo filled posts.
ROFL...I didn't understand what you were talking about HT, but I got a giggle out of it anyway.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
I would have to say the loss of my mom when I was 5 years old. I totally missed out on the mother/daughter relationship that I would have loved to have had. When I see people disrespecting their parents I just wonder if they ever think of how it would be to not have them in their lives. I would give anything for my mom to be here with me!
I'm sorry Feisty. I can't imagine. You will get to be with her one day, though.
 
Top Bottom