fat people get treated like shit by everyone. how many times have you made a fat joke with someone with a weight problem in proximity?? you prolly didn't care if you did. now if you were making jokesQUOTE]
That's so true.
I was teased by kids at school and my brothers.
Was a chubby kid and yo-yo'd up and down till I got educated w/proper nutrition, cycling cardio, etc. I am 5'3". At my fattest (not to be confused with heaviest) I was like 140# a size 8 to 10 or so. God, was I miserable. <---- NEVER see those days again.
At my HEAVIEST I was 145# at say 19% bf... cut down to like 138# at 12%. What I wouldn't give to be like that again.
*sigh*
It's sad how differently people treat you when you are fat or even average from the way they treat you when you are "attractive". When I tell people that I have only had this body since early 30's and I struggled my whole life with weight and body image issues they think I exaggerate.
Now because of my health issues I will never be fat again, but fight to not go the opposite direction. At my most ill I was sub 100#. I fight daily not to go back to that.
At my sexiest (in MY opinion because I am the only one that matters as I have to live in my own skin 24/7) I was 138# at 12% bf - 14" arms, 24" quads and a 25+" waist (never had a tiny waist). I was 36 - 25 - 36.
My bone structure is very small. And yes, it matters. I have very narrow shoulders and though not tiny, not the widest hips either.