What do you do to make the pain go away?

[plifter]

And the square jaw and bull sperm comment....IS THAT THE BEST YOU CAN DO?! HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHahahahahaaaa

I have a BEAUTIFUL jaw line. It has ALWAYS BEEN THAT WAY. A/S USE DOES NOT MAKE YOUR JAW GROW .....DUH!!!!

The problem YOU BOTH have is that I am the girl that you think would NEVER give you the time of day because YOU THINK that I THINK I am all that.....nothing could be further from the truth. I just don't give ASSHOLES the time of day. See I already HAVE one of those in my pants....don't think there's room for anymore!

Since you're saying both of you, I'm going to assume you're talking to me. Have your kids seen the pictures of their mommy dressed in a slutty Catholic schoolgirl outfit? You do seem to think you're ALL THAT by trying to sell pictures of yourself on the internet. How many people have purchased the "Bikinimom workout video"? You need to be brought back to reality. Most men will not find you attractive. You likely have an enlarged clit by now. In fact you're probably sprouting something that looks similar to a penis. Your face is ugly as well and you probably have to shave it daily. Finally, you look like a transexual in those pics on your website.

Someone as ugly as you has no business making fun of me for dressing as a Chippendale dancer for Halloween.

BTW. since you're such a bodybuilding celebrity can I have an autographed picture?

 

[Revenant]

For someone to come in a thread where real problems are being expressed and vent their Internet frustrations, quite frankly, is ignorant and childish.

plifter, you most likely do not know one half of what you think you know about this woman. Nor does it seem like you care to by the way you act. For your own saving of face it might be a wise choice to back off some.

There is a time and a place, and this surely is not it. I don't know you, so I cannot make any judgement comments other than; Grow up. Please.

You have an Internet conflict with her.

She has a real life conflict, and she is genuinely asking for help and guidance. Not for further pain and frustration to be inflicted.

Maybe it sounds cheesy. And maybe you're thinking, "So what? I have no compassion..." for whatever reason. If that's the case then I feel sorry. What's it like to not have a conscience or heart?

I'm not flaming you. Just pointing out how you are coming across, man. Please just let it go. Be a man.

 

[plifter]

That's odd, when I post about my problems everyone else on this board turns it into a joke. She hurt my feelings. I suffer from manic depression and what she did to me was completely out of line.

Treat others the way you want to be treated.

 

[Revenant]

I'm sorry that happened... I don't know the details or who did what, so I can't say. I can say anyone turning someone's real problems into a joke is pretty shallow, and IMO shows their true intellect. Or lack thereof. That goes for anyone, and unbiased.

But you know how it feels then. And if nobody decides to be the bigger person and bite the bullet, it's nothing but a vicious circle bro. There's really nothing to be won from it is there?

I mean, like I said... you know how bad it hurts. Why would that make you feel better to do that to someone else? You look down on them for doing it, and rightly so... what would you stoop down to that for?

Cliche, but two wrongs don't make a right.

Remember man, show compassion, receive compassion. Everywhere you go, expect to have people that will strive for nothing but causing pain. There are those of us who notice though... and we're the ones that are going to offer the compassion and advice.

 

[plifter]

She made me want to kill myself.

 

[Bikini Mod]

OK this has gone far enough.... This is THE ONLY reply I will make about this - you all can read Plifter's words and decide what is up.

I have tried like the dickens to ignore Plifter but you just do not know when to quit.

This is the thread that Plifter was refering to:
http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=65723

Madbomber was asking how he could get his girl to drop a few pounds. I initially ignored the thread until I saw the harsh comment that Plifter made and thought that he was waaay out of line. He PM’d me calling me bikinibitch and told me “to take a midol” …yes, he truly sounded like I hurt his feelings and wanted to take his life because of a comment that I had made.

He engaged in a flame fest shortly beforehand with Satanic Goatslayer and after he got his head handed to him for calling SG out he proceeded to PM ALL THE MODS that he had received “harrassing phone calls from another elite board member” …which we all ignored, of course.

He then posted a this thread:

“Does anyone know how I can broadcast it over the internet? I have one of those webcams.
I just can't take it anymore. I'm fat, ugly, and I have a small penis. Plus everyone's always so mean to me! Even Bikinimom hates me! I didn't mean to hurt that fictitous fat girl's feelings. I just want to be good looking and strong, is that so much to ask? On top of my small penis I have panic attacks, social anxiety, manic depression, flat feet, I still have some amount of gyno. I have stretch marks all over my arms and on the back of my legs. I'm not rich so I doubt I'll ever get a woman like Bikinimom. I'm also so ashamed that I hate gays, I can't help it. When I was a boy my daddy told me the worst thing in the world is to be gay. Thank you for listening to my rant. I hope you enjoy this post.”

OK, I am no mental health professional, but if somebody were TRULY experiencing the pain and turmoil of SERIOUSLY contemplating suicide then would they change their minds not 24 hours later after being GOADED TO DO IT by MANY, MANY people (I WAS NOT ONE OF THEM.) because they “had a good workout and got their bodyfat tested”?!

I have NEVER had any interaction w/Plifter BEFORE and I have not had any since….NOR WILL I AFTER THIS – enjoy it, Plifter. I am done talking to you. I have NO IDEA what is going through your head when you VOLUNTARILY post the pics of yourself that you do along with the comments that you do, but you can NOT sit there and scratch your head and wonder why it is that NO ONE takes you seriously.

I REFUSE to allow you to turn this thread into a personal little back and forth, insignificant bullshit FLAME FEST. You have freedom of speech so post away, brotha. But I WILL NOT REPLY and I ask that others do the same. If you have a problem with me that is legitimate (meaning that you have issue with something that I SAID HERE…..please do not hesitate to bring it to my attention.) then we can address it as adults. But if all you want to do is make inaccurate statements for the sole purpose of “trying to hurt my feelings” (which you should realize by now that you are wholely incapable of ….my feelings can only be hurt by those that I love – sorry, you do not fit the bill) please do so on another thread……

 

[buksoon]

'Shaming' doesn't usually work, primetime

(as in, grow up!!!)

Well though, I suppose it might in some cases...but often it just adds to the guilt, ya know...to tell someone who thinks they are shit, now they are also shit for thinking their problems are so huge...

*sigh*

the 'feel better' part was nice, anyhow

love
helen

I know, why do people do that? It's just the automatic thing to say to someone in pain: "There are starving kids in Armenia...."

Helen, you are so great. So wonderful. I always say that: "If someone said to me what *I* sometimes say to me, I'd kick their ass!" That's a universal. Being vicious to one's self.

Let me finish reading this thread.

Just a few days ago, Smalls had a similar thread though. She was deeply unhappy that night, considering suicide. And if you read lots of other people's threads, you detect a real insecurity underneath all the bluster. Hmm. Something to think about.

Anyway, b-Mom, let me finish reading.

 

[plifter]

Bikini, if you can't see how out of line your comments were about me then you're messed up in the head. It's true that we had no interaction before that. HOWEVER, you decided to instigate an attack on me. My comments on that post were a joke so start with and they had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with you. On top of that there were comments before mine that were much more harsh than anything I said. But still, YOU decided to attack me!

Good luck selling your porno pictures!

 

[buksoon]

B-Mom, just remember: "This too shall pass...."

Some practical things for feeling better:

Let something completely frivolous swallow you whole! I know this isn't exactly the advice Socrates would give. I'm sorry--I have no grand thoughts right now...!

But ... choose a sports team, for instance, and "lose" yourself in them. People wonder why I love my Yankees so much... it's because all other thinking stops and nothing matters except how to advance the runner! NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.

It's so silly, but it's like a furlough from the jail that THINKING can sometimes be. Any activity where you don't have to think. Watch Will & Grace, for instance! Tape it if you're not home! Then come home and FORCE yourself to forget everything else (you're allowed!!) and just laugh!

I'm really gonna try and think of serious ideas for you. One thing to remember: What you're feeling... you're not alone, ya know? The only people who don't feel overwhelmed, inadequate, and terribly alone from time to time are ... kids, maybe? And then only the lucky ones.

 

[buksoon]

One more thing: just let the schmucks amuse themselves! They're fools, lonelier at heart than you could ever be! I used to read their posts, but then I just felt too much PITY!