what do you do? dear God, help me!

[jfn2]

what would you do? you come across the love of your life, your Angel, you just KNOW it was meant to be. they know it, too. it's the ONE. but either they, or you, are already TAKEN. then what? do you do the honorable thing, and walk away? or do you fight for what you know is right, no matter the outcome?

 

[puddlemonkey]

Clearly the answer is make to a thread about it and take advice from complete strangers over the internet most of whom probably have never seen genitalia of the opposite sex.

 

[pdaddyII]

He's cheating on you bro

 

[jfn2]

hmmmm.... i like the advice so far....

 

[jfn2]

Clearly the answer is make to a thread about it and take advice from complete strangers over the internet most of whom probably have never seen genitalia of the opposite sex.

prolly the thread-makers have never seen this so-called genetalia either, so it's all good....

 

[bigtravis]

Clearly the answer is make to a thread about it and take advice from complete strangers over the internet most of whom probably have never seen genitalia of the opposite sex.

Or only monkey genitalia

 

[chris302001]

Jon is not going to be pleased....

 

[jfn2]

Jon is not going to be pleased....

if only i knew what you meant....

 

[puddlemonkey]

Or only monkey genitalia

It's all the same (no aids)

 

[EnderJE]

Are you serious? Like it's fate or something? Like your destiny?

I think that you should sleep with her sister....better yet...her father.

 

[pdaddyII]

He's cheating on you bro

fixed

 

[nangiggles]

Sometimes love and infatuation can get confussed since there is a thin line dividing them, if I'm the "taken" one and all is well with significant other I would NOT venture off...

 

[musclemom]

I will answer this question honestly and would appreciate no flaming, I've taken it enough on this board for being honest:

We became buddies, then best friends, then fell deeply, madly in love then, after months, cheated on our respective spouses (out of stupidity and fear and doubt if it was the "real thing") eventually left our spouses in unpleasant (emotionally and financially) divorces and have been blissfully happily together a total of 15 years.

However, we are the exception, not the norm. Most relationships borne of adultery crash and burn.

However, I will state that, IMHO, it is not possible to "lure" someone out of a good (happy, healthy) relationship. If you're truly in love with your s/o, you generally don't go looking for (or rather, will not see) love elsewhere (500 mg test. e/w not withstanding).

 

[UA_Iron]

I will answer this question honestly and would appreciate no flaming, I've taken it enough on this board for being honest:

We became buddies, then best friends, then fell deeply, madly in love then, after months, cheated on our respective spouses (out of stupidity and fear and doubt if it was the "real thing") eventually left our spouses in unpleasant (emotionally and financially) divorces and have been blissfully happily together a total of 15 years.

However, we are the exception, not the norm. Most relationships borne of adultery crash and burn.

However, I will state that, IMHO, it is not possible to "lure" someone out of a good (happy, healthy) relationship. If you're truly in love with your s/o, you generally don't go looking for (or rather, will not see) love elsewhere (500 mg test. e/w not withstanding).

Do I get the ok to lure some chick out of a distance relationship that will never amount to anything?

 

[shrimp poboy]

jon,myway,jfn2 i cant keep up with all of them

 

[stilleto]

keep this in mind... you are seeing the best he can possibly be- not the ugly, every day side of him that you see in your current spouse.

the grass is not always greener on the other side...

 

[Metasomatized Ijolite]

It's all the same (no aids)

PuddleMonkey, would you fuck a female chimp? If you like big butts you can't get any bigger on a primate. Talk about ghetto booty. Oh wait, what was this thread about?

 

[musclemom]

Do I get the ok to lure some chick out of a distance relationship that will never amount to anything?

As I said, I don't think you could "lure" her if she was completely happy, distance not withstanding. Spouses of military people stay faithful for months or even longer.