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What do you dig about yourself? Things you would never change?

-Ariel-

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What are some things that you know in the every fiber of your being that you rock out at? This is one thing that brings you and possibly others pleasure in life, it may not define you, but it is an integral part of why you wake up every morning. Performing this activity nourishes your psyche and it is a huge part of your self expression. What are some qualities, gifts, abilities, that if one took away from you, you would no longer want to be you? What are some things that you are proud you embody?
 
The ability to let go. The ability to be truly indifferent about some things. However, I'm not sure if it's a strength or a weakness.
 
Smurfy said:
sense of humor
I would agree, true...I think your sense of humor has more than just one purpose, like your sense of humor that allows you to see things in a different light, I mean the thing that makes it funny, it also allows you to understand certain social, psychological situations from a perspective that allows you the freedom to recognize what is off in the situation because you are examining it in a nonlinear fashion. It is this type of discernment, of keeping things light, that give you a better view on the big picture. I'm not really expressing what I want here, the words are eluding me a little also your humor is like you pointed out, not the kind that has to have an object in order to be funny, and I think this puts people at ease and kinda in a weird way puts out some pacifying vibes... imo,
That and I dig couch love.
 
how loving I am
sense of humor
being a great mother
work ethic
ability to forgive
 
-Ariel- said:
I would agree, true...I think your sense of humor has more than just one purpose, like your sense of humor that allows you to see things in a different light, I mean the thing that makes it funny, it also allows you to understand certain social, psychological situations from a perspective that allows you the freedom to recognize what is off in the situation because you are examining it in a nonlinear fashion. It is this type of discernment, of keeping things light, that give you a better view on the big picture. I'm not really expressing what I want here, the words are eluding me a little also your humor is like you pointed out, not the kind that has to have an object in order to be funny, and I think this puts people at ease and kinda in a weird way puts out some pacifying vibes... imo,
That and I dig couch love.
lol thanks Ariel!
 
EnderJE said:
The ability to let go. The ability to be truly indifferent about some things. However, I'm not sure if it's a strength or a weakness.
I think what you mean is that you are indifferent to what others think about you? Well we all want to be appreciated, but I think you no longer value this as much as you once did... and you notice this perhaps, like I know you are not totally indifferent, that would suck. You are not indifferent to your family, career, making progress in both... you may be more indifferent to what you once considered the ideal life... I dunno, but I think I get what you are saying... a reality check type knowledge that you have acquired...

You no longer have your head in the clouds type shit...
definitely a strength... one can never grow if they are delusional.
 
Razorguns said:
The ability to plan out the eventual murder of people I do not like.

Hi guys!!

r
Okay after saying everything that was on my mind in the phone thread, you drop the murder post on me...
well I hope we are allright. :)
 
chris302001 said:
work ethic, things that are important to me, core fundamentals
Dude you gotta have work ethic, but Chris, I also think you have a ton of fucking smarts... like you study hard, but not as hard as other med students, I think you pick up concepts and connections extremely quick... that must be nice, takes my shit forever, if I can't see the overall relationships... like it takes me forever to see the those embedded pictures that are hidden, if I don't see relationships after awhile I lose interest pretty quickly... gotta work on that.
 
nimbus said:
how unbelievably smart and modest i am
Don't forget openminded...
I can put you down for funny too.
It would be nice if I were smarter and more modest..
I think the latter would demonstrate the former,
working on that.
 
hardrock said:
How well I interact with people. Can make friends anywhere.

Sense of humor.
Probably cause you are yourself around others, nothing beats just being genuine, as long as you are not a genuine hater or douche, but in reality no one really is a genuine hater..
or maybe they are
I dunno.
 
PICK3 said:
I was gonna say funny as shit... engaging, much more knowledgeable than you let on, and just good natured.
Loyal too...
I empirically agree.
Hideo NO MO.
 
silverstar1025 said:
how loving I am
sense of humor
being a great mother
work ethic
ability to forgive
Dude I think overall, I can't really classify how you rock, you have been nothing but warm, funny as shit, one can already tell by your persona that you rock as a mom... SS, I think the best thing about you is not one single thing but its like the combination... You are fun, openminded, got smarts, practical, and a ton of common sense, people don't realize that common sense is the foundation for genius... in a sense it is genius. Like sometimes I have the commonsense, of not at all. I agree forgive and move on, too much work to hate... to consuming. Plus I love your avi... alot.
 
-Ariel- said:
I think what you mean is that you are indifferent to what others think about you? Well we all want to be appreciated, but I think you no longer value this as much as you once did... and you notice this perhaps, like I know you are not totally indifferent, that would suck. You are not indifferent to your family, career, making progress in both... you may be more indifferent to what you once considered the ideal life... I dunno, but I think I get what you are saying... a reality check type knowledge that you have acquired...

You no longer have your head in the clouds type shit...
definitely a strength... one can never grow if they are delusional.
I find myself indifferent. It's like the saying "showing off is a fool's idea of glory". I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.
 
My smarts. The fact that I refuse to take life too seriously. The side of me that's just a little bit wild. My genuine compassion and how well I take care of the people I love. My hair.
 
-Ariel- said:
Dude I think overall, I can't really classify how you rock, you have been nothing but warm, funny as shit, one can already tell by your persona that you rock as a mom... SS, I think the best thing about you is not one single thing but its like the combination... You are fun, openminded, got smarts, practical, and a ton of common sense, people don't realize that common sense is the foundation for genius... in a sense it is genius. Like sometimes I have the commonsense, of not at all. I agree forgive and move on, too much work to hate... to consuming. Plus I love your avi... alot.
It's dudette. I'm surprised that you don't travel more to meet these EF people.
 
PuddleMonkey said:
When do I get to see this side of you?

lol!! I treat others how they treat me. Perhaps if you are more loving to me then I will be more loving back. :chomp:


Thanks Ariel! I forgot to add that I a open minded. That is definitely a good one for me.
 
Beachboy6294 said:
A little, why?

Hmm maybe because you love your shins. Who the hell loves their shins? lol Do you plan soccer with those shins? ;)
 
silverstar1025 said:
Hmm maybe because you love your shins. Who the hell loves their shins? lol Do you plan soccer with those shins? ;)
What I have sexy shins!! Girls stair at them all the time!
 
Beachboy6294 said:
What I have sexy shins!! Girls stair at them all the time!

I don't pay attention to a man shins. Tell me what makes them sexy.
 
silverstar1025 said:
I don't pay attention to a man shins. Tell me what makes them sexy.
They are tan and smooth and I have a beautiful scar that looks like a diamond on one of them and they are as smooth as a babies butt!!
 
nefertiti said:
My smarts. The fact that I refuse to take life too seriously. The side of me that's just a little bit wild. My genuine compassion and how well I take care of the people I love. My hair.
See... I'm on the same page with you and your discerning smarts... that you got... plus you got a unique combo about you thats well... unique, I mean you have a very regal presence about you, emanating class, a certain aura of refinement, and yet you balance it out with a sense of humor, and then on the mental side you are great with numbers, a problem solver, and a strong foundation of common sense and a pragmatic train of thought. You dig on adventure, and moreover I find your hobbies really fascinating, like I don't dive and don' wanna... surfing 4 to 5 footers is good enough for me, digressing, other than you living a life with an abundance of experiences, which is your nature, I also dig on the fact that you are great with money... I mean most people don't really know the importance of saving and you do... most of us are atleast at the bare minimum 8000 in debt with fucking credit cards, however you got your shit put away... very nice... but overall I would have to say that I dig on your ambitious drive to get what you want out of life... most people don't have the combination of foresight and will to stick with the overall plan... other than being a hawtie, who does have great hair... I have to give it up to your overall plan man.
 
My character. I also like to have fun at the expense of other things that could be more important to some people. some people look down on that but i'd never change it. I only have one life and I intend on living it.

I also did not think too much about this question, so I'm sure that there are more things that I dig about myself but these two things popped in my head first.
 
Beachboy6294 said:
My shins are sexy
Nothing turns asian girls on more than sexy shins...
oh that and money... they really dig on money.
j/k... we all dig on money.
 
My days travelling around the states............. my long distant friends whom I met travelling............ and some girl from Toronto whom I met at Alpine Valley. HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH two tears in a bucket, fuck it.
 
-Ariel- said:
Nothing turns asian girls on more than sexy shins...
oh that and money... they really dig on money.
j/k... we all dig on money.
I hear that Asian girls are all sluts. I wouldn't know. I'm not a big fan of the Asian girl.
 
my looks
 
cindylou said:
My character. I also like to have fun at the expense of other things that could be more important to some people. some people look down on that but i'd never change it. I only have one life and I intend on living it.

I also did not think too much about this question, so I'm sure that there are more things that I dig about myself but these two things popped in my head first.
I agree, both you and I are playful at heart, i mean people who go to a job they hate, or live with people they hate, or just live in hate, I think would really suck, I got a little too, but not very much for now anyway... hope it stays that way. I don't hate my lousy pay job, but this is only a temporary thing... and the for the most part the people are all pretty easy to get along with and only a few tight assess, digressing, but I think what is really important is being who you are, knowing who you are, and finally digging on who you are, then you can begin to dig on others as well... Plus that fun loving, young at heart attitude you got goin on also has a spiritual dimension that rocks, I mean you have a strong sense of empathy, and when I first got here were you super kind... and you offered some awesome advice in a K message that I won't soon forget. Moreover, you are really honest with what you think and feel, but you won't say hurtful things, cause while you dig on entertaining shit talking like I do, you don't dig on cutting into other peeps.
Finally, You dig on Jabberwocky... and pointed out something that I kinda thought too. Its always nice to have someone appreciate something so obscure.
 
silverstar1025 said:
Yep! One of the first songs back in the day to get me into the electronica music. Good shit!
Do you hear that?

It's my respect in both of you going down the drain for listening to that shitty music.

Now, where did I put that Jonas Brother CD? They're prophets, I tell you!
 
EnderJE said:
Do you hear that?

It's my respect in both of you going down the drain for listening to that shitty music.

Now, where did I put that Jonas Brother CD? They're prophet, I tell you!

Jonas Bros? WTF? Are you 15? Garbage!
 
walliwalibus said:
My days travelling around the states............. my long distant friends whom I met travelling............ and some girl from Toronto whom I met at Alpine Valley. HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH two tears in a bucket, fuck it.
I wish I traveled around more states and was able to collect stories... and such... and I'm getting older and don't have time to play Jack Kerouac anymore... that blows... but its real. Even Kerouac got sick of being Kerouac, so yeah gotta embrace this transition from nomadic nature to something more lucrative.
 
my genuineness
charm and social presence
my overall intelligence and natural business sense

where's the list about things you can change? that'd be a long one :(
 
Things I would say is being a risk taker, being able to show care for others, having a big heart, my sense of humor, and ability to push myself above and beyound my own physical capabilities.
 
calveless wonder said:
my genuineness
charm and social presence
my overall intelligence and natural business sense

where's the list about things you can change? that'd be a long one :(

Oh stop it. Hey when are you gonna get your butt into that new mma gym? Jump on that.
 
AztecWarrior said:
Things I would say is being a risk taker, being able to show care for others, having a big heart, my sense of humor, and ability to push myself above and beyound my own physical capabilities.


nice. all of those sound like great qualities!
 
I had a hard time coming up with an answer, but I'll say my morals, character. I hope those never change.

I'm also a 'thinker', but that may or may not be a good thing.


Is this some sort of a test? Because if it is, I want to change my answers.
 
The Dark with in me is my Greatest strength but I suppress it
 
sense of humor
trustworthy friend
My intelligence in certain areas
ability to turn feelings into poetry ( Now I really look gay lol)
 
My analytical nature. (why else would I be a geologist)
My indomitable will.
My bright green eyes and especially that they change color along with my mood.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
GoldenDelicious said:
my tendency to ignore what i "should be doing" and instead, working out what actually matters (to me)
I'm in the same boat GD, i agree... however, I can do this since I'm not married, and have no kids, and am only responsible for me. This is a freedom that intrinsically I may have some problems in the future letting go of.
But yeah, while I'm not a typical alpha male, I'm not a typical beta either.
Just a dude in transit I guess.
 
1.) My sense of humor and overall tendency towards being a wise-ass
2.) Writing ability
3.) Geighness
 
jerseyrugger76 said:
1.) My sense of humor and overall tendency towards being a wise-ass
2.) Writing ability
3.) Geighness
Also got to give you props on your abilitly be so fluent in how many languages? You play the violin, which is amazing to me, I was never oriented towards music as a child, wish now I was, cause its so good for the brain, psyche, and just awesome that one can express themselves that way, you also are multi lingual, and out of that, I think an understanding develops in which you can see the world from more than one perspective. Those are two things I wish I could have learned as a child, another language or two, and an instrument... I'm sure I would have bitched about both as a kid, but through learning both, I would have just been smarter, less stuck in my perspectives, and plus one has so much more game and sex appeal if you are multilingual and are musically oriented...
 
gonelifting said:
I had a hard time coming up with an answer, but I'll say my morals, character. I hope those never change.

I'm also a 'thinker', but that may or may not be a good thing.


Is this some sort of a test? Because if it is, I want to change my answers.
lol good answers, character doesn't come easy... I'm a thinker too... good thing for the most part.
 
Scotsman said:
My analytical nature. (why else would I be a geologist)
My indomitable will.
My bright green eyes and especially that they change color along with my mood.

Cheers,
Scotsman
Thats awesome Scots... I have an analytical nature as well, but yeah, sometimes it gets a little tiring, good combo to have of being a thinker, and have a prodigious amount of will, that combo is pretty much as solid as it gets. Geologist and Strongman competitor... One revolves around observation, attention to detail, and patience, while the other requires superhuman strength, an intense demeanor and surfeit of will, and finally tolerance to pain... you got a yin and yang thing goin on there the tao of scotsman...lol
 
that I am nurturing and kind and funny

well, that and I'm freaking awesome in bed...lol...(sleeping)
 
I would say determination and discipline are my strongest suits. I see through what I put myself into until the very end/completion. Also, I am a man of my word, if I say I'm going to do something, I do it.

It would seem I'm more right side of the brain oriented, like art/drawing, visualizition and day dreaming, which gets me in trouble...
 
-Ariel- said:
I'm in the same boat GD, i agree... however, I can do this since I'm not married, and have no kids, and am only responsible for me. This is a freedom that intrinsically I may have some problems in the future letting go of.
But yeah, while I'm not a typical alpha male, I'm not a typical beta either.
Just a dude in transit I guess.
alpha males only really exist where people live in small insulated groups. in cities of thousands or millions of people, the term becomes less useful because you have systems of living within systems of living (classes basically) as well as overlap between other pervading systems (economic, legal etc). within one system youre an alpha, yet within another, at the same time, youre firmly a beta.

the problems that youll likely face will be because of the need for your partner/child to live within systems that you currently have the autonomy to reject (or ignore).

that in itself is one of the reasons that i am reluctant to have kids. i like being autonomous.

plus i think that the world is pure shit and sometimes think that bringing a child into it is cruel
 
shogun7 said:
I would say determination and discipline are my strongest suits. I see through what I put myself into until the very end/completion. Also, I am a man of my word, if I say I'm going to do something, I do it.

It would seem I'm more right side of the brain oriented, like art/drawing, visualizition and day dreaming, which gets me in trouble...
Being dependable in an age of where alot of things feel so uncertain, yet somethings remain repetitive and quite certain, keeping one's word appears to dissipating... I wish I were more reliable and managed my time better. I daydream too... I've got a job where I can do that, but still not really good to wander so much.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
alpha males only really exist where people live in small insulated groups. in cities of thousands or millions of people, the term becomes less useful because you have systems of living within systems of living (classes basically) as well as overlap between other pervading systems (economic, legal etc). within one system youre an alpha, yet within another, at the same time, youre firmly a beta.

the problems that youll likely face will be because of the need for your partner/child to live within systems that you currently have the autonomy to reject (or ignore).

that in itself is one of the reasons that i am reluctant to have kids. i like being autonomous.

plus i think that the world is pure shit and sometimes think that bringing a child into it is cruel

Good insight into the changing of environments that dictate social structures with those that live within it (alpha males-beta's). The latter I even agree with about children being born into the world at a time like this where it could cause more of a problem than a solution. However, you certainly paint your own reality, the choices/actions and how you want to carry yourself are all of your own accord.
 
jerseyrugger76 said:
1.) My sense of humor and overall tendency towards being a wise-ass
2.) Writing ability
3.) Geighness


lmao

your my favorite Metro evr

I mean how can a guy not LIKE you :rainbow: :heart: :rainbow:
 
-Ariel- said:
Being dependable in an age of where alot of things feel so uncertain, yet somethings remain repetitive and quite certain, keeping one's word appears to dissipating... I wish I were more reliable and managed my time better. I daydream too... I've got a job where I can do that, but still not really good to wander so much.


You certainly have a talent to empathize and to get people to open up on a lot of subjects. That's not an easy thing to do, but you pull it off with ease. Your threads only reinforce this. Hell, that's why I flock to them! Props to you!
 
lartinos said:
sense of humor
trustworthy friend
My intelligence in certain areas
ability to turn feelings into poetry ( Now I really look gay lol)
Dude trust is everything...
and I too am not bad in some areas, but a complete dumbass in others...
I could not write a poem to save my life... the ability to write poetry or songs is amazes me, cause its kind of mysterious that I can understand it well, however the creative process itself eludes me.
 
heatherrae said:
that I am nurturing and kind and funny

well, that and I'm freaking awesome in bed...lol...(sleeping)
Not only are you kind, affable, and have an awesome sense of humor, but I'm pretty sure you rock out at what you do... it just seems like you take pride in doing good work... totally random assumption, but I'm kinda a random assumption...
gotta go with one's nature, I guess.
 
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