What Are You Guys

[heavy_duty]

Tell us what your KIDS did for you today, after all you are still their mother regardless of where they live or who they live with.

My husband made we a wonderful brunch consisting of fresh kiwi, blackberries, goat cheese, hard boiled eggwhites filled w/grape tomatoes, and garlic filled olives, fwhole wheat craclers, fresh coffee and mimosas.. LOL

We went out for a ride on the harley, but since a thunder storm snuck up on us we had to cut it short.

So now he is in the kitchen making us some wonderful soup... When it stops raining, we will have a few drinks in the hottub and smoke some quality cigars.

Not exactly the way that I thought I would spend the day but I am not complaining either as my husband is my world so I consider myself very fortunate.

To all of you who are lucky enough to have your mothers/children with you, appreciate their company. And for those of you who had less than stellar mothers, appreciate YOUR GIFT of life...

Be well and happy all of you.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Tell us what your KIDS did for you today, after all you are still their mother regardless of where they live or who they live with.

My kids didnt do a damned thing because they weren't allowed.

 

[heavy_duty]

that explains a lot.

My kids didnt do a damned thing because they weren't allowed.

 

[Bikini Mod]

that explains a lot.

How so?

They have to wait until midnight after their spermdonor is asleep, then sneak the cordless to cry to me how much they miss me and want to be with me. If they are left home alone then they call and we talk for hours, but he is now videotaping (he's been voice recording calls for over a year) their every move. They get shit CONSTANTLY, I mean punished DAILY if they want to have ANYTHING to do with me or my family.

They aren't allowed to even talk about me. They have no pictures of me. And are forced to endure hours of beratement.

They have been threatened, "I will KILL YOU before I give you back to your mother."

"I will put you in the psych ward before I give you back to your mother."

"You will go to juvi before I let you live with your mother."

I haven't been able to see them for over 6 months.

My younger three are 10 1/2, just turned 12 and 13 1/2.

My oldest will be dead and or pregnant soon. She is 14.

So please.... enlighten me.

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[gjohnson5]

workout

 

[Jimsbbc]

Sorry E, that sucks. That happened to a friend of mine who doesn't get to see his daughter and is lucky if he is allowed a phone call on father's day. He's just happy if he gets to spend any time with her at all. The courts have really fucked him around as well so I can relate as it has been similar for my good friend.

My Mom just wanted my son and I to come up to Vancouvr,WA this weekend and we did since the wife and my daughter were in Seattle. We hung out my Mom and Dad, went shopping, had some good talks, enjoyed lots of coffee, and blew our diets pretty hard. I got the wife a small, but elegant diamond necklace to give her from the kids and I. We just spent family time together and ordered a pizza when she got back from out of town with our daughter.

 

[radarstoy]

My oldest will be dead and or pregnant soon. She is 14.

This really bothers me when you make statements like this. I've been reading your posts on your situation for sometime now and it breaks my heart that you have given up on her. Just saying..

 

[Bikini Mod]

This really bothers me when you make statements like this. I've been reading your posts on your situation for sometime now and it breaks my heart that you have given up on her. Just saying..

How do you think I feel?

You have NO IDEA what this situation with my asshole ex has done to my children, my sister, her marriage, HER children and me... consequently my current husband.

Until you have been in such a situation it boggles the mind... Defies all logic.

Do you all understand that I have ZERO parental rights?... and that I haven't had them for over a year and that I have ZERO chance of getting them back?!?!... even though I haven't done a motherfucking thing to harm myself or anyone else?

I die a little more each day. I have been fighting SEVERE depression for over a year. If it weren't for my husband giving my life purpose again, I would have killed myself from the sorrow....

Truth is THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO TO HELP ANY OF THEM... LEAST OF ALL HER AS SHE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME. She is happy smoking pot, failing out of school and being passed around by random boys... The child is only 14 years old... Where do you think she learned that behavior? When she was with me she was happy, straight A's and normal. Once her father began grooming her to be his replacement wife, it all went downhill and once I was stripped of my legal rights - I became COMPLETELY impotent.

I have a wonderful husband who loves me and that is enough for me. The only chance is for the kids to actually run away from their abuser. He is so crazy that he has hidden cameras on them (the way he was watching me)... Until the time that they can come to me, there is NOTHING I can do.

Yea, I had to emotionally bury my children yesterday. Happy Mother's Day to me...

I said it on another thread. I don't have any children. I only have stretchmarks... but it's ok. I was given the honor and privilige of mothering for 15 years and that is more than most are given.

 

[ksharp01]

Well, I had a very good day.
Friday I went fishing offshore in Venice, LA...caught lots of fish and a sunburn. Then Sunday went to friends house to clean the fish and boil crawfish and have some beers...very relaxing.
Just was very upset that my 14 year old didn't even bother to call me! I would of blamed his dad for not telling him to call me but he is old enough and knows the drill...It's not like he could of forgot since he was running the roads doing this with his stepmom and grandmaw for mothers day. Lil shit!But over all it was a good day!

 

[Ilk]

Doing for mother's day today?

My Mother's day was in March... London celebrates it then...

I still felt like I had to say happy mother's day even though we already celebrated it!