WAS THIS TOO BRUTAL???

[OMEGA]

toO a nice person from another board who sends notes every day.
the person is nice, but listen to what I wrote back....was it too mean.......cus I was not trying to be.

sorry to bore you guys by making a thread out of this, but it is burning in my mind, I feel both wrong, and right at the same time.

heres what I wrote...................
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do you just send these happy notes to every body, or just me?



I just feel watered down by general greetings, it's nice but essentially, in-sincere.

I appreciate it in the way you intend it to be,

but I rather give and recieve with more heart and a deeper sincerity.

do not take it the wrong way, it's just some of us require deeper sincerity, and fewer people to whom we associate with.

if you offer something differnent and sincere, than I am there for you, if not....than please don't waste our time.

life is seriuos, and bonds with others are special and should not be trivialized.

 

[Sushi X]

here's a hint. your and you're have different meanings. hence your my hero means you belong to my hero, i think. so you're my hero would mean you my hero. i'll let your mispellin go this time. =)

 

[theoak01]

i imagine they are a pain in the ass but no reason to say that,just ignore it

 

[Crazier]

I wouldn't say brutal Omega. You could tell you were trying to be both polite and sincere in your message. I'm dealing with the same thing right now. I talked to this chic on the phone like 2 times about a year ago, sent messages for about a month... again, about a year ago. She still has me in her To list for group, so I receive her prayers, chain letters, personal updates... It's annoying at times, but overall it is really no big deal.

So, brutal you ask? No. But, what you were trying to explain to her is like trying to explain to your girlfriend that she has gotten fat. There really is no nice way of going about it. Either way you are going to look like an asshole. But, at least you were trying to be polite while doing so.

I doubt you have to worry about receiving many more messages from her.
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[dballer]

I would have told them that you wanted to bounce their tits all over the place... but that is just me.. I voted that you are my hero anyhow.

 

[MasterMind]

Doesn't seem brutal to me...just seems like you were laying it down on the line for them...anyways.....personally I wouldn't have wasted my time with a long ass reply like that, but to each his own......anyways....hope everyone had a good christmas

 

[Raina]

It's good that you wrote this and will get rid of such a pain in the ass. They sound really shallow to send you meaningless drivel to read. A simple "I have better things to do rather than read your mindless babbling" would have worked but you did manage to say it in a more polite way. Kudos on that one. Hope this post clears your mind as the general opinion seems to be that you've simplified your life.

Kate

 

[Frackal]

Where is the option for

"You spelled "you're" incorrectly four times?"

 

[OMEGA]

Thanks for your replies guys

D-baller the tit bouncing method did come to mind, but it is a craft that comes with age,

and I am very young

Crazier thanks for the great reply.

Master Mind she rights very intelligently so longer replies are demanded

and Raina I hope that she does not take it the wrong way, I like her very much she has good energy and intentions which are nice, and refreshing to hear, and see

I would like to still talk to her, especially if something is troubeling her, I just wanted to let her know that I consisder associations with others very important and meanigful,
when I speak with others that I have an affinity for I devote all my energies to try to help them...from within, mind and heart.

last time I checked life is seriuos, and allies are fewand far between,
and while we can all have fun and games,

advice, and talking about seriuos issues takes the time and energies of both participants.

So I hope she realizes that I would like to continue are realtions as long as she understands how I feel.
I think she is very pretty, intelligent, and way too un-loved,

and she deserves better.

is'nt explaining my intentions and feelings.....


fair?

 

[OMEGA]

Where is the option for

"You spelled "you're" incorrectly four times?"

the option switch is located in your ass einstien

 

[daised]

your right on, but a little harsh.

 

[Frackal]

the option switch is located in your ass einstien

Well I checked in there but all I found was a used condom and a salad fork...

 

[OMEGA]

Well I checked in there but all I found was a used condom and a salad fork...

damn that was creative.

have no fear, I found it in my bootay,
the only prob is my ass is so gelatenous and whale like, that I am having a hard time with the reach around.

 

[Frackal]

LOL

 

[MasterMind]

If you really want to get rid of the person and they write really long and intellingent messages act like such a dumbass that they will not wanna talk to you anymore....shouldn't be to hard for you bro ...JK..