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Was I wrong in doing this?

Bobber

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One of my ex's let me know that she was going to be at game 7 in San Antonio so I decided to invite her to hang out with me for a night. When she arrived she had the biggest suitcase I have ever seen in my life. I mean the thing was so fucking heavy I had problems lugging it around. I asked her what the hell she was thinking and her reply was that since school was out and she didn't have a job she had no intentions of leaving anytime soon. Immediatly I was like "fuck, this is great." We go to dinner, small talk, blah blah, and night time rolls around. One of my best friends was also down so we had a full house and night time finally came. We predrank here and headed out to the bars. We get drunk as hell and everyone wants to leave to another bar so I tell them to go ahead with out me and I would meet up. When they leave this girl I have been talking to for a while texts me and says she is in the same bar so I put leaving on hold to take some shots of patron and shoot the shit with her.

Not 5 minutes later the ex comes walking up, stands right in between me and the girl and is like your friends sent me to find you, which of course is utter bullshit cause my friends all know when we go out they will probably never see me again, and I tell her that I am busy and I will meet up with them in a second so she walks away all pissy. Bars close and my room mate that she hung out with tells me she was on the phone with her ex the whole time so I did not feel bad for hanging out with the other chick. In the car on the way home the douche bag constantly calls her freaking out that she is with me so I told him if he had a problem to come on up and I would be more than happy to settle it with him. He gets irate and starts calling her every name in the book so I freak out and loose it. This douche bag had beat the ever living shit out of her, constantly tells her if she does not stay in his life that he will kill himslef, and she is sitting there taking his side the entire time.

We get back to the house and she just will not get off the phone and the girl from the bar called so I decided to just walk over there and hang out. I stayed over at her place for like an hour and a half, played around a little, and walked back home. When I got back it was close about 2:30 in the morning and I guess my roomy decided to have the after party at our place. They all let me know that she was in my room waiting for me so I go up there and see she is still on the fucking phone. I told her I would be downstairs with everyone else and that I am not ready to end the night yet so she should come down whenever. It's like 4 o'clock now and still no her so I called another girl I am talking to right now and had her come pick me up. She came and got me and I spent the night at her house and did not go to bed till the sun came up.

Woke up at like 2 and she took me home. I get back to my friends sitting on the couching teling me she is pissed and how she has been hounding them all day about where I was. I avoid contact with her and we all go out to the pool where she could not pull me aside and ask where I was. At the pool I did not talk to her at all because I felt awkward and when we got back in she pulled me upstairs and asked me where I was. I told her the truth and she asked me if we fucked and I lied and said no. She looked at me for a second and said she was leaving to which I answered cool. She had told all my friends the night before that she was here to get what she wanted and that she wasn't leaving untill it happened and that she does not need there help to get me. Am I wrong in any way for doing what I did? My boys still give me shit about doing what I did.
 
i can't believe you took the time to type that

1) The Spurs are a bunch of faggots, with tim duncan the lead flamer
2) Dude aren't you like 25? wtf is with all this immature bar drama?
3) i don't really understand what you are asking
4) Lay off the sauce (booze)
 
Nah, she's an ex, you can do that I guess.

After reading that, I gotta score a point to us married folks though. Sorry bro, too much drama... and I'm glad I'm out of that scene.
 
Bino - Thats the most I have typed since spring semester got out! I don't like the Spurs either, but I was just trying to put the story in context. What do you mean by immature bar drama? I didn't do anything there. What I am asking is...was i wrong for spending the night at another girls hose while she was here and on the fucking phone like my friends say I am. Lay of the booze? Easier said than done my friend.

GL - Thank you for seeing it my way. I am not too fond of all this bullshit either man. This town is so fucked up.
 
Starngebrew - Sorry, I guesss I should have warned yall it is long.

Patsfan - How was I immature? First she intends on staying for what seemed like an eternity when I invited her for 1 night. Then she talks to her piece of shit ex the whole night. How am I in the wrong for not wasting my night and having fun?
 
Bobber said:
Bino - Thats the most I have typed since spring semester got out! I don't like the Spurs either, but I was just trying to put the story in context. What do you mean by immature bar drama? I didn't do anything there. What I am asking is...was i wrong for spending the night at another girls hose while she was here and on the fucking phone like my friends say I am. Lay of the booze? Easier said than done my friend.

GL - Thank you for seeing it my way. I am not too fond of all this bullshit either man. This town is so fucked up.


I'm a bitter Pistons fan, nothing personal. By immature bar drama i meant the whole situation you described...from an outside perspective it just really seems like petty drunken drama, very annoying to witness/be a part of. Never the less, if i was in your shoes i would have gone with whatever was the better late-night option. I would have felt no guilt cause of the "ex" factor. My loyality stops as soon as i lose the bf title.

fuck tim duncan btw
 
what
the
fuck
was
that
I
just
read
:confused:

Were you wrong for doing what? Posting this? yup
 
Bobber said:
Starngebrew - Sorry, I guesss I should have warned yall it is long.

Patsfan - How was I immature? First she intends on staying for what seemed like an eternity when I invited her for 1 night. Then she talks to her piece of shit ex the whole night. How am I in the wrong for not wasting my night and having fun?

Bro - he's not saying you were wrong in that particular situation.

By grow up he's referring to the copious amount of drama/bullshit threads you post - very similar to this one. Either you love drama or you do nothing to avoid it.
 
Bobber were you the dude who punched that guy on the Austin Real World down on 6th St and broke his eye socket?

You ever run into them down there? That chick Melinda is smoking hot.
 
i think going boozin with bobber would be an interesting night...def. could be a fun time
 
supersizeme said:
Bobber were you the dude who punched that guy on the Austin Real World down on 6th St and broke his eye socket?

You ever run into them down there? That chick Melinda is smoking hot.

lol - I immediately thought of Bobber when I saw that episode.
 
supersizeme said:
Bobber were you the dude who punched that guy on the Austin Real World down on 6th St and broke his eye socket?

You ever run into them down there? That chick Melinda is smoking hot.


Nah that wasn't me but in an upcomming episode one of my boys fucks up that tall pale guy. We hung out with them a few times...for the most part they are douches and Melinda does not look half as hot in real life.


BTW I do not like drama but I do agree that is all that seems to be in my life these days. I am hoping it will change once I get in the "real world."
 
I'm kind of confused. But it's not like you totally ditched her since she was with people you both knew. And you're single so she gets NO say in who you do or don't have sex with. She lost her right to get an opinion when you broke up.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
You get laid everynight?


I do not have a steady girlfriend bro, I can't just go out and smash randoms everynight of the week. Maybe in my dreams i do
 
Bobber said:
I do not have a steady girlfriend bro
I know
Bobber said:
I can't just go out and smash randoms everynight of the week. Maybe in my dreams i do
Yeah, but from your story its like, 'this girl I'm talking to, this other one from the bar, this girl I'm also talking to, but don't mention till the end of the story till I fuck her.' Got your ex in the mix...Sound like a black belt, poontang jugler
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
I know

Yeah, but from your story its like, 'this girl I'm talking to, this other one from the bar, this girl I'm also talking to, but don't mention till the end of the story till I fuck her.' Got your ex in the mix...Sound like a black belt, poontang jugler


I am very good at what I do. With me it seems that girls come and go in bunches. One week I will have a few and the next it's time to start all over again whether they fizzle out or just decide to move on. The ex in the mix...I am close to ALL my ex's. Even if we had shitty relationships after some time apart we always tend to gravitate towards each other and every now and again when we catch each other slipping things happen.
 
Bobber said:
Melinda does not look half as hot in real life.

I don't care. Hit me up with her phone number in a karma message. I need to call her up and warn her that she's going to cheat on her bf in later episodes with that busted eye socket dude because I saw the previews for the rest of the season. Also I wanna see what's up with the two of us.

What did your boyz do to the pale white dude? Tell me a story bro.
 
supersizeme said:
What did your boyz do to the pale white dude? Tell me a story bro.

He is more of an aquaintance of mine...he is my room mates friend. He works security on 6th, that guy mouthed off, so he fucked him up from what I am told. And I do not have Melindas # bro...lol...sorry.
 
BB, this proves what my dad always told me.........."son, feminine logic is a contradiction of terms."
 
1) you need to stop hanging out with so many classy chicks
2) you need to be a bit more aggressive, and maybe resort to violence a bit more to solve your problems
3) also, i love the way you put exes in their place with honesty and frankness from the word go, i mean, it beats the hell of having them dramatise your life with bullshit, cockblock you in bars and ask you awkward questions that you have to lie about in the morning

cliff notes:
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1) youre a drama queen
2) youre a drama queen
3) youre a drama queen
 
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