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flexygrl

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Hi All,

Well, I'm still alive. Incase any of you were wondering. I don't want to get into everythng that has happened, but just wanted to tell you all that I'm fine. I just wanted to tell all the men on here that joke about or are considering cheating on their spouse, to please think about it. Put your wife first instead of yourself. For one moment think of all the devastation, sorrow, heartbreak that she will go through. Even though most affairs are just for the shear pleasure of sex it is still betrayal. This is the worst pain I have ever experienced in my life. Evertime I close my eyes I see those pictures. When he touches me or looks at me I wonder, did he do that with her. So, please, stop and think. If your marraige isn't 100% find the root of the problem. DO NOT create another one.

We are staying together, btw. No, I'm not weak. I was ready to leave, infact I did leave. He begged me to stay. I love him more than myself. When I said my vows on my wedding day, I meant them. I don't know what's to be in my life. Don't know how much I'll be around either. Just wanted to say hello to everyone and to tell you all how much I love and appreciate you.
 
flexy, you did the right thing, and that was what you felt right for you. watch him like a hawk and make sure he's ended any extramarital infidelity. if you need to ever talk please pm me. i'd be happy to share anything you had questions about
 
It's good to hear you are coping well. I know this is one of the worst things you can go through.
We are here for you, anytime.
 
Make sure he understands what you are doing for him ( and yourself ). He has to make sure that each day you give him, needs to be spent reminding you of why you are staying.

Good luck! I hope things work out for you. :)
 
I completely concur, never cheat its wrong, but if you somehow do slip up, use your brain and get rid of all possible evidence. Its the evidence that hurts the most.
 
tell him to renew his vows to you, and amend them to include a loyalty clause...
 
flexygirl, I think you're making a huge mistake. there's no way in hell that this was his first time cheating on you. not only that, he's an idiot for taking pictures.
 
Polish,


We'll see. I was just there on Tuesday night. I thought of you guys. Maybe i'll just pop in one Sunday.
 
Hopefully it works out for you.

So does this mean your not gonna post the zit-ass pics?
 
The Nature Boy said:
flexygirl, I think you're making a huge mistake. there's no way in hell that this was his first time cheating on you. not only that, he's an idiot for taking pictures.
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I hate to say this, but I agree.

You are going to see those pictures in your mind until the day you die if you decide to stay together. Once a cheater, always a cheater, in my book. You say everytime he looks at you or touches you, you wonder if he did it to her. Those thoughts cannot be in your mind if are to trust this man.

But, if you are serious in staying with your husband, good luck to you. I hope you guys can put it behind you and live a loving life together. Stay strong flexy. Hang in there. I urge you to think about this longer.
 
Hey Flexy,

Its good that you are trying to make the best of a shitty situation. I can't even imagine how much he hurt you. I think it takes more courage to stay and try to work it out than to leave. I for one support you in whatever you decide. And I hope you will be around. I would miss you terribly if you left.
 
You know that you are going to have this in the back of your head for years. It may never heal. That in itself is going to further strain the relationship. One of two things can happen. You can be closer then ever before or the relationship will crumble.

No matter what, when someone cheats there is usually something wrong in the relationship. It may not even be a rational reason. As a guy I know that if you ask me an emotional question I don’t have a clue. Don’t expect to understand his reasons in one sitting. Also don’t misinterpret I am sorry for I am sorry I got caught.

Cheating and taking photos? You have to decide if this was a predictable action to his personality or was he just heading 100MPH into self-destruction. If it is within his personality then you really need to consider what is good for you and not him. Love can be strong and can pull you through a lot; it can also leave you scarred for a long time after the party has ended.
 
If you stay together, then you can always hold this over his head - if he fucks up at all or questions you, just bring this up and twist the kife in his gut just a little bit more.

Also, it seems that after all of this - you should leave your hair curly. You shouldn't have to change - he should. Make him get a perm.
 
I know that tubby f**k is lurking around, reading all this s**t. Post up, mister ball-less wonder chubby chaser camera man!
 
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Once again The Ffactor is in the dark. How did you get a hold of the pictures. Why would he take pictures? Is he retarded or on drugs?
 
unfortunately, IMAGES never go away.....My wife with another man..(boy)... its been 18 months for me...and the scenerio replays itself a hundred times a day in my head....the act of betrayal is a human error and thoughtless judgement....I have found no way out, but am continuing to work on it ....the pain is still so real....."PAIN is the ransom you have gladly paid, not to be free".....
 
pbr, check out this site. if you want to overcome this and be with your wife, this may help. you can check out her books on amazon.com too. i have two of 'em
 
Devastation said:
pbr, check out this site. if you want to overcome this and be with your wife, this may help. you can check out her books on amazon.com too. i have two of 'em
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Dev- I will check it out...thanks...my wife divorced me....she had been seeing this guy for quite some time...dont really know how long...I was with her for 5 1/2 years...we got married after being together for 4....I was told she had been seeing this guy for nearly as long as I was married, which was a little over 1 year.....I think my love for her was one sided....an illusion.....it did teach me something tho....I know what true love is and I know its depths and I know how it feels....maybe I will find someone to do that for and can give it back.....thanks for your thoughts bro....peace
 
Good luck!
 
He isn't worth a shit. Once a cheater always a cheater. If he did it once I'm sure he will do it again. Yea hes sorry. Sorry he got caught. Fuck him. I'd dump his ass like radioactive waste. But its your decision. Just make sure its the right one.
 
The Nature Boy said:
flexygirl, I think you're making a huge mistake. there's no way in hell that this was his first time cheating on you. not only that, he's an idiot for taking pictures.
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No shit...you're being weak flexy...he's a piece of shit...get the hell out of there ...this is pathetic to see you stay. No chance he won't do it again.
 
P.S. He felt bad and he apologized because he got caught, if you never busted him he'd still be at it. You should ditch this dude ASAP, divorce his ass and make him pay through the nose, and get a blood test to make sure he hasn't given you any STD's. this dude is a piece of shit and besides that he makes really stupid decisions.

Sorry to sound harsh, but somebody needs to tell you this shit.
 
Hmm... when Kobe cheated on his wife everyone bounced on the the girl he slept with (rape or no rape) and yet hardly anyone had any suggestions for Kobe wife that had been cheated on.

Hmmmmmmm - Just an observation.


Similiarly though, people have to make their own choices in life (this means you Flexy) and whether they are viewed as right or wrong they are the choices of those faced with them and it's really not up to the masses (the rest of us) to drive someone else's fate.


After some thought though (can't help but to have an opinion) anyone that photographs such an act with their spouse's camera must have wanted to get caught; stupidity aside of course.
 
velvett said:
Hmm... when Kobe cheated on his wife everyone bounced on the the girl he slept with (rape or no rape) and yet hardly anyone had any suggestions for Kobe wife that had been cheated on.
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My suggestion is that she dump him and marry me.

I love her.
LOVE her.

Time to start stalking.

Anyone know where she lives?
 
I doubt he wanted to get caught if he begged you not to leave him. Just carelessness. Now that he sees how bad he hurt you, he should feel so low that he should be crying for the pain that he has caused you. Hopefully he will mature to the point, where he will never do it again. I wish you the best and sorry for that awful pain, I know what it feels like, although we all experience it in different ways.
 
biteme said:
I doubt he wanted to get caught if he begged you not to leave him. Just carelessness.
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I would have to leave a man like that just for his stupidity.


It's bad enough that someone cheats but to be THAT careless to let it be shoved in my face - he would be dead to me.
 
I'm behind your choice Flexy.
Even though those doughy man-teats of his creep me out.
 
velvett said:




I would have to leave a man like that just for his stupidity.


It's bad enough that someone cheats but to be THAT careless to let it be shoved in my face - he would be dead to me.
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Somehow I have this feeling that you're not one that someone wants to piss off. Dangerous and sexy.
 
Recently I found out that my ex thinks I was cheating on her when we were dating. Funny thing is while I shouldn't care what she thinks, it kinda bothers me to be labeled a cheater.

I guess some guy out there is trying to get into her pants and will go that low to try put me down by saying I cheated on her.

Flexy....Good Luck and while it might be hard to decide to stay, it takes a good person to forgive and give someone another chance. I wish you the best.

I couldn't imagine the feeling if that ever happened to me. Picturing someone you love with someone else has to be the worst pain I could imagine.
 
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