Unwritten rule for you juicers or future juicers

[mr.nitro]

beter yet, find a better woman

 

[SMALLSUCKS702]

Georgie i agree with you 100 % , good post....

 

[GUARDIAN]

I am in full agreement with Georgie. For the people that believe you should tell your wife, can anyone explain why we should tell our wives?

What makes this knowledge so imperative?

There are certain things that you wouldn't tell your wife because no good could come out of it, but potentially could hurt things. For instance, having a sexual dream about another woman. I guess that is the only comparrison I can think of.

But it's not a problem that you need her help with. It's not something that endagers her in anyway or puts her at risk.

If she confronts you about it and you lie, I suppose that is another issue itself. However, I would still choose to deny it. But if you lie and get caught, you have given her great reason not to trust you.

Regardless, there is no good that can come from telling her. But there is a lot of potential for it to bite you in the ass.

Well put!

 

[chris69]

Really?

The first boyfriend I had that told me he was using, I changed my mind about steroids.

I even used to stick the needle in his ass

A Lady after my own heart ! LOL..Yeah my wife pins me too...Just can't get her mad before hand, LOL. Funny how i didnt think i had any 18g around ?

 

[searay]

when i first juiced at the age of 24 my parents were helping me move and my mom found my pins. she went to my brother, who knew i juiced and had actually done a couple of cycles himself, and asked him if i was shooting heroin. this was about 20 yrs ago. my brother laughed and told her what i was doing and that it was no big deal and that most weight lifters do it. he really down played it and they have left it alone since. at that point gear wasnt a big deal to anybody like it is now so i figured i better tell people in my life about it so they dont think the worst like my parents did. so when i first met my current wife i told her right up front what i did and she didnt care at all. her response was that she really liked the way it made me look. i stopped using shortly after we got married and didnt use again until about 7 yrs ago and i told her all about it again and why and she just said if it made me happy she was all for it as she would rather have a happy husband than a miserable one. we split up for a couple of years about 2 years after i started using again and the subject of me using gear never came up even when it got ugly. as a matter of fact during our seperation she came out to a camp i was renting to pick up my son and while i was inside taking a piss somebody mentioned to her how good i looked and one of my friends started ranting about the only reason i looked good was because i took steroids and my wife went off on the guy about how much time i spend in the gym and how hard i work at eating the right things and if he would get off his lazy fat ass he wouldnt be so jealous of how somebody else looks. after i found out what had happen it made me realize how lucky i was to have her in my life and we got back together shortly afterwards. if i had never told her about using i would have never known what a special person she is and how i could always count on her to back me up. i know that there is a much different perception of steroids these day than 20 yrs ago and i guess im lucky in how it worked out with my wife. it must really suck hiding something that is as big an issue like steroids from someone you love when you know if he/she finds out you run the risk of losing that person or worse yet, getting the ultimatum. what are you going to do then when the love of your life tells you its her/him or steroids ? because we all know its just a matter of time before they find out.

 

[Tatyana]

I would rather know, I would want to make sure that my partner was safe, and make sure he stays bang on his training and diet while on a cycle.

 

[GUARDIAN]

I would rather know, I would want to make sure that my partner was safe, and make sure he stays bang on his training and diet while on a cycle.

But are you not speaking from the perspective of someone in the fitness/bb industry with a medical background who has seen users 1st hand and done alot of research?

There are quite a few spouses that dont have that background and never care to and will continue to believe the media propaganda.

 

[all the whey]

Im going to be blunt here


DO not tell your girlfriends/wives about your lil steroid usage because it will blow up in your face if shit goes down hill, i for the life of me dont understand why you guys " need " to tell the girls that your using, guilt? scared?emotional trust you need to display? Knock off the shit and keep them lips sealed about it, Most women only know steroids as a BAD drug.

I know most of you wont listen and still pour your hearts out, but for the troops that want to live with less stress and drama just keep truckin and try not to " spill the beans "

lol

I read the thread title and notice you posted it.

Not telling women was the first thing that popped in my head before I opened it.lol

 

[all the whey]

You can't marry someone and lie to them your whole life, thats fucked up and unfair to them. If you can't get to know them well enough and realize they don't care what you did and still wanted to be married to you then you should not have married them in the first place.

Yes, keep yourself in good shape so you don't have to get married at all.

 

[Advisor_x]

Doesn't APPLY TO ME I'm In MEXICO............