BIKINIMOM said:I gave up the cocky goodlooking badboys when the last one gave me a tour of a cement floor - facefirst after a choke-out.
Any woman who chases this type gets what she deserves.
I grew up after that little escapade and realized that when seeking a partner (whether for a few hours or for a lifetime) I look first with my mind, then with my heart and FINALLY with my eyes.
I told every man that I dated post divorce: I dont date good-looking men. I only date those that are stunningly beautiful. A man's exterior is not an accurate measure of stunning beauty.
You sound like my friend when I pointed out my "boy toy" to her. She said he's "too pretty" and that guys that look that good always turn out to be assholes.
Anyhoo there's a difference between the "bad boy" type that just has the look and the toys and the "bad boy" who is actually bad.