To do or not to do

[fyxgel2]

Well,

It has been told to me that I focus way too much on girls, and that I should just stop focusing on girls.

What I am wondering then is what does this advice mean? It sounds like some folks, like velvett think that I shouldnt go around asking out girls, but I should rather just not think about girls, and that something will happen naturally in time maybe.

While other people are telling to saddle up grab a hold of my balls, and finally go out and start asking some girls out, even if they are ugly ones (hey asking ugly girls might build my confidence up enoguh to ask out hot girls eventually)


So should I start asking out girls finally, or should I just back off and stop thinking about the matter entirely?

 

[EnderJE]

I think they're are suggesting that you turn to guys. I hear NJ is nice...

 

[fyxgel2]

I think they're are suggesting that you turn to guys. I hear NJ is nice...

No thanks, I prefer not to take it in the butt.

 

[-SD-]

Do one or the other. Ask a girl out using all the advice given, or focus on other areas of your life. I suggest focusing on other areas of your life since judging from your weekly schedule you dont ahve much of a life to begin with, and that turns girls off.

 

[fyxgel2]

Do one or the other. Ask a girl out using all the advice given, or focus on other areas of your life. I suggest focusing on other areas of your life since judging from your weekly schedule you dont ahve much of a life to begin with, and that turns girls off.

lets get this straight. im not going to purposely improve my life, just so that girls find me more attractive. I'm going to improve my life for me, because I want to, not to impress some woman.

I think for now the plan is to ask out girls, as the desperate loser that I am, and eventually if that continues to fail, then I will give up and focus my energies on some other part of life.

 

[-SD-]

lets get this straight. im not going to purposely improve my life, just so that girls find me more attractive. I'm going to improve my life for me, because I want to, not to impress some woman.

I think for now the plan is to ask out girls, as the desperate loser that I am, and eventually if that continues to fail, then I will give up and focus my energies on some other part of life.

How about you get this straight. Ever since youve been on EF all you post about is your desire to obtain a girl or dates and meaningful relationships with girls. In order for you to do that you have to take certain steps in your life, the most important being improving your life if you have no life, which you currently dont have a life since you posted your pathetic schedule up here.
Lets review:
1. You have a great desire to have a good relationship/gain experience with girls.
2. You make the necessary changes and take the necessary steps in
your life in order put you on the path to achieving the above in #1.

You cant have it both ways by now saying you "wont change just for some girl".

 

[Scotsman]

Do what makes you happy. If you aren't comfortable and happy in your life no one else is going to like it either.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[fyxgel2]

How about you get this straight. Ever since youve been on EF all you post about is your desire to obtain a girl or dates and meaningful relationships with girls. In order for you to do that you have to take certain steps in your life, the most important being improving your life if you have no life, which you currently dont have a life since you posted your pathetic schedule up here.
Lets review:
1. You have a great desire to have a good relationship/gain experience with girls.
2. You make the necessary changes and take the necessary steps in
your life in order put you on the path to achieving the above in #1.

You cant have it both ways by now saying you "wont change just for some girl".

I believe I can find a girl out there who I like and who likes me the way that I am, if I look hard enough.
I will at least give it a good try to find a woman like this before I give up. If I cant find a woman like this, than oh well, I will just be celibate.

Better to be celibate than to be someone you are not, just so that some girl likes you.

 

[-SD-]

I believe I can find a girl out there who I like and who likes me the way that I am, if I look hard enough.
I will at least give it a good try to find a woman like this before I give up. If I cant find a woman like this, than oh well, I will just be celibate.

Better to be celibate than to be someone you are not, just so that some girl likes you.

Why the fuck didnt you figure that out months ago before you got on EF and did a total fucking brain dump on us?

 

[bran987]

he should either be banned or get a free lifetime platship, I can't decide.