To Cheat Or Not To Cheat?

[THeMaCHinE]

***EVERYBODY VOTE!!!!***

If you could cheat on the one you are with (with somebody average to hot), with absolutely no consequences (other than how you may end up feeling about yourself) and nobody ever finding out, would you do it?

Think it through thoroughly (at least a minute... lol) and be totally honest. It's an anonymous poll.

 

[Big Johnson]

THIS ISN'T LOOKING GOOD FOR THE HOME TEAM

 

[Warik]

What about us geeks who aren't with anybody? I feel excluded.

-Warik

 

[THeMaCHinE]

What about us geeks who aren't with anybody? I feel excluded.

-Warik

I was going to put in an option:

SINGLE; right-handed; WOULD use left hand
SINGLE; left-handed; WOULD use right hand

etc...

But alas, the poll only lets you post ten options. Get a girl, then we'll talk

 

[Bootyshaker]

It just goes to show that everyone including woman cheat.

THATS IT!!!!No more honetsy, I am going to wait until I'm impotent until I am faithfull.


Bootyshaker

 

[THeMaCHinE]

bump

 

[TxCollegeguy]

looks like I'm SOL on this one...I'm with you Warik, but only cause I'm playin the field right now

 

[WODIN]

I don't care if she knew or not, that's not relivant for me. I'm the only one who has to look in the mirror every morning.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I don't care if she knew or not, that's not relivant for me. I'm the only one who has to look in the mirror every morning.

I hear you my friend.

 

[vixenbabe]

I'm happy to see that the married males would not cheat!

 

[Fonz]

No at a chance in hell.
The phrase "loyalty above all else except honour"
sums me up.
By cheating on her(albeit unbeknownst to her)
I'd be dishonouring myself.
Its called morals people.

Godspeed

 

[flexed1]

with the person I love would NEVER cheat

 

[Stan O'Zolol]

Do unto others...

 

[scotty2hotty]

It just goes to show that everyone including woman cheat

wrong!!!!!!!!!! i dont cheat but most people do. and from the people i see and know----------most women do cheat. i think more women cheat than men.

no i am not saying men dont cheat, i'm just saying more women do.

i however dont, wont, will not, and have not.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

...

 

[HelmsmaN]

Not just no, but Hell no. (now if I can just convince her of that)

 

[delts2]

Physics.......you summed it up bro. Initially, I think many people go into a relationship with the proverbial thought that they will be faithful. But more often than not, it isn't the sexual needs that have to be satisfied, it's usually something else.

delts2

 

[velvett]

[snip]...most women do cheat. i think more women cheat than men...[snip]

I'll give you that one, but only that women do cheat, I doubt the number is higher though. Women just have an inner ability to be more secretive and devious than men, so they are less likely to get caught. Apparently we "got better game" than the boys or maybe be know boundaries better.

I cheated once, in college when I was nineteen and I would rather live alone and completely celibate for the rest of my life than do it again. I felt pretty bad about it but I would have to say I felt worse about myself than the actual betrayal. Which is most ironic because as it turned out, several years later he admitted cheating on me with his then ex.

Go figure.

 

[TxLonghorn]

I really don't have much to add except that I had the exact same dream as velvett.

Except there was no peach. And no table. But there was a lot of nudity, and lots of indoor sports. lol

 

[velvett]

a funny for ya'll

A husband and wife were having a fine dining experience at their exclusive country club when this stunning young woman comes over to their table, gives the husband a big kiss, says she'll see him later and walks away. His wife glares at him and says, "Who was that?!?"

"Oh," replies the husband, "she's my mistress."

"Well that's the last straw," says the wife. "I've had enough, I want a divorce. I am going to hire the most aggressive, meanest divorce lawyer I can find and make your life miserable."

"I can understand that," replies her husband, "but remember, if we get a divorce it will mean no more wintering in Key West, or the Caribbean, no more summers in Tuscany, no more Cadillac STS in the garage, and no more country club, and we'll have to sell the 26-room house and move to two smaller homes, but the decision is yours."

Just then, a mutual friend enters the restaurant with a gorgeous young woman on his arm.

"Who's that with Jim?" asks the wife.

"That's his mistress," says her husband.

"Ours is prettier," she replies.

 

[Stillhere]

No.

 

[waterboy]

lol

 

[b fold the truth]

Never ever ever cheat...never.

B True

 

[big4life]

Nope I could never cheat.


If there is something that wrong then you need to get out of the situation that you're in.

 

[wardaddy]

no cheating is about the lowest thing any man or woman could do who is in a relationship

 

[manfromyard]

Dont do it...the deception is just not worth it..Dont sell your morals out for some easy pussy/dick. Its funny how most people will say "Those damn swingers and swappers are perverts! I could never fuck someone else in front of my spouse!" But those same people will run around behind their mate's back...At least the swinger are honest about it..I think you'll go to hell(if you believe in it) more for cheating on your spouse than both of you having an understanding sexual arrangement......

 

[dimitrios]

I am married and would never even think to cheat on my wifeand she feels the same way. If you are gonna cheat then hey the hell get married. We have alot of fun together and give each other no reason to look else where.

 

[Warik]

What about us geeks who aren't with anybody? I feel excluded.

-Warik

Wow, shit. This is an ancient thread. I'm very pleased to change my answer from <blank> to "MALE; DATING; COMITTED; WOULD NOT CHEAT." =)

-Warik

 

[Virtual Acid]

Ugh lol cheeting sucks a major dick, specially if married or commited, ew! its gross and horrible etc etc... so i think, if ya think your going to end up cheating just stay out of a relationship Dum dum Dum

 

[polarpixie]

NO CHEATING!!!! Cheating = Lying. Lying = BAD.


What is the point in going behind someone's back??? So you can feel guilty about it? So you have to constantly cover your tracks? So you can hurt somebody who cares about you? That's no way to live...

 

[Austin316]

Cheating makes Dave here

 

[EYEPEEE]

THREADS RIKE THIS MAKE YERROW HORNY TIME!!!!

 

[theoak01]

i know how lucky i am to have what i do so i wouldnt cheat

 

[PHATchik]

What about us geeks who aren't with anybody? I feel excluded.

-Warik

I second this. Even if Warik did change his reply. Lol.

 

[muscle4u]

found out the hard way

i was phoning/talking with a girl i met on the internet behind my wife's back....it wore on me so much......

i told my wife and finally got my stuff together....luckily, it didn't get physical, but it was very, very, very close.....

my wife FINALLY forgave me and we've gotten closer and grown from it....it was two years ago......

we renewed our vows last night and she's (my wife you nuts) is pregnant!!!....

so, now i know how lucky i am....it's not worth it at all to play around!

 

[LiLady11]

Funny story Velvett!!

When I was 18, I was in my first real relationship. The night before my senior prom and a month into our relationship, a girl shows up at my front door. Shes a big girl, like 300 lbs. She tells me that she is my bf's ex and, in these exact words, she says, "I just want you to know that I'm still fucking your boyfriend and I still suck his dick."

I don't think I will ever get over that sting that I felt. I will admit that I kissed another boy behind a bf's back, but fessed up to it immediately. I can say that I will never cheat on someone that I am seriously involved with. Hell, even if its not serious!!

 

[muscle4u]

amen!

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Wow, somebody raised the Titanic... I think I posted this thread over a year ago... Cool to see some of the new answers and see how the numbers change.

Let the poll be something to think about for all in committed relationships... Take care of your mate...

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Oh, and Warik -- congrats -- glad to see you were able to change your answer

 

[enrage]

i would cheat if it was with someone i've been wanting to sleep with. i wouldn't just cheat to cheat.

 

[Night Fly]

No way....I could never do it to my boyfriend. I would never ever be able to live with myself if I did something to screw up our relationship....I will be faithful because I want to. I have no desire to be with anyone else....I barely even look at other guys... I just could never hurt him or myself like that. NOPE.

 

[Raina]

I've never cheated on anyone I've been seriously involved with. I guess I've casually dated people while dating others....but even that felt weird. If I'm with someone, I'm just with them.

 

[casavant]

I wouldn't be able to look her in the eye if I cheated. I wouldn't be able to enjoy our time together knowing that I was deceiving her like that. Every time we kissed, every time we slept together, every time she did something sweet, every time we spent any time together at all, and even when I lay in bed by myself thinking, the guilt would absolutely tear me apart. Fuck that.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

 

[Lifter4Life]

WOULDN'T EVEN THINK ABOUT CHEATING... CHEATERS ARE DIRT..

 

[vinylgroover]

What about us geeks who aren't with anybody? I feel excluded.

-Warik

You can still get involved by seeking out attached women and trying to get them to cheat on their partner with you.

 

[flexed1]

In a relationship where its exclusive thats what it is. Would never cheat on my other half ( who says gay men can't do this) and never have. When you love someone and communicate and are secure with yourself you would never cheat. If I am single and dating with no commiment I can be a whore but have not been single for a very long time in my life. Most was a few months.

 

[Mezzanine]

I dont cheat either but 3 some's are ok with me. I have had girls give me oral while my girlfriend was in the room(with her knowledge of course). Does that make me a freak?

 

[GenetiKing]

The term "cheating" is relative anyway.

Is fucking another girl cheating?

Is getting some skull cheating?

Well, I sucked this girl's tits and ate her pussy but she didn't even touch me. Is that cheating?

Is getting a hand job from another girl cheating? What if I did but I didn't cum?

What if I made out with another ho?

Okay, so I kissed a girl in the club the other night and never told my girl, is that cheating?

What if I flirt with a particular girl all the time but my girl never finds out? Cheating or no?

Alright, say I fantasize all the time about this bitch that comes in the gym that I wanna fuck but I've never even talked her. Is that cheating?

See? What the hell is "cheating" anyway?

 

[flexed1]

anything you do with another person you hide from your other half is cheating. if you kiss another women other than on the cheek to me its cheating. would you want your other half doing what you just did? if not its cheating,

 

[alphaxi]

anything you do with another person you hide from your other half is cheating. if you kiss another women other than on the cheek to me its cheating. would you want your other half doing what you just did? if not its cheating,

I agree...I think cheating is anything that you would not do in front of your significant other.
I am a female who is in a committed relationship who would NEVER cheat...I never even think about or look at other guys because my boyfriend is all I have ever wanted and more... Why would I want to screw that kind of happiness up??

 

[GenetiKing]

anything you do with another person you hide from your other half is cheating. if you kiss another women other than on the cheek to me its cheating. would you want your other half doing what you just did? if not its cheating,

Say my girl fantasizes about screwing another guy and doesn't tell me. Let's also assume she even feels some small guilt about it because she hasn't told me. Has she cheated? Most people would say no, however some would say yes.

Let's take it a step further. My chick goes to a club and is all up on another guy. She is dancing with him, feeling him up, getting turned on, they exchange phone numbers, etc...but they never kiss or do anything beyond that. Has she cheated on me then? Some would say yes, some would say no.

That's my point: The line differentiating between cheating and not cheating is blurry at best and relative according to who's defining it.

So I ask again. What is cheating?

 

[Fonz]

anything you do with another person you hide from your other half is cheating. if you kiss another women other than on the cheek to me its cheating. would you want your other half doing what you just did? if not its cheating,

Huh?

Every time I say hello to a woman I kiss her on both cheeks.
And she does it to me.

Its a spanish thing.....

Thats just normal.

Haven't been doing it in DC because they all turn beet red.
(I guess they aren't used to it)

Fonz

 

[Frackal]

Its your BO fonz...lol