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Kakdiesel
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I guess recently it does seem like a lot of us on this board have been going through problems with ex girlfriends (i assume that the "ex" part of that equation is what sucks) or other problems with life like school or job or money stuff.
Look, maybe its just me, but I sometimes air out my dirty laundry on this board for some good reasons:
1) I've come to get to know some really good people on this board from all walks of life and all types of backgrounds from all parts of the country--and I truly appreciate that
2) Usually you get honest, real answers on here. Even though we may be "friends" its different than the friends you have sometimes around you in everyday life that usually tell you what you want to hear, or in the very least, dont really give you OBJECTIVE opinions or advice.
3) Sometimes it just feels better to write out and vent all your feelings. Just like some "experts" advise, like writing a letter to your ex or whatever but never mailing it jsut to get all your feelings out on paper (here it would be a computer screen)
And I guess I take comfort in knowing other people who are a lot like me in other aspects of my life (health/fitness/partying/having a good time/etc.) are going through the same thing i'm going through at the same time.
And to be honest, i've gotten some of the best words of encouragement and help from some people on this board who take the time out of their day to help a fellow person. Which is a VERY comforting thought--knowing that the world hasnt gone all to hell yet
I guess everybody reading this who is having problems should realize what I realize...OTHER PEOPLE HAVE GONE THROUGH WHAT YOU HAVE. Not to burst any bubbles, but i know its hard to swallow the fact that you're situation isnt so "special" and that others know what you're going through and CAN help you. Maybe its an ego thing, pride thing, or something, but when you're hurting, its not exactly the time to be stubborn.
I'll be the first to admit that I bitch and moan like a lil girl on here sometimes, but whatever you know? I guess even though I get flamed at times, I have to shrug it off just like some of you should--cuz those people flaming are the assholes who try to act like your problems are meaningless and stupid--but only YOU know if they are or are not.
I guess what I'm offering here with this post is that I'm going through some very bad shit these days regarding my parents, a friend that recently died due to a heart attack from too much coke, and my ex girl who i was going to propse to at the end of this summer (actually i planned on doing so this weekend when two months ago I bought us a week vacation for two for her bday) dumped me on the fourth of July. Now I have a unreturnable engagement ring, and a week at the beach that I only got 50% back on when I canceled it...And that ring sitting on my dresser is a constant reminder of what could have been..So dont tell me I dont know what kind of pain or whatever you're going through.
Again, just a post to let ANYBODY regardless if I've flamed you before, or you have flamed me or we dont get along, that if there's shit goin on, Kakky can relate and help a nugga out LOL
peace
Look, maybe its just me, but I sometimes air out my dirty laundry on this board for some good reasons:
1) I've come to get to know some really good people on this board from all walks of life and all types of backgrounds from all parts of the country--and I truly appreciate that
2) Usually you get honest, real answers on here. Even though we may be "friends" its different than the friends you have sometimes around you in everyday life that usually tell you what you want to hear, or in the very least, dont really give you OBJECTIVE opinions or advice.
3) Sometimes it just feels better to write out and vent all your feelings. Just like some "experts" advise, like writing a letter to your ex or whatever but never mailing it jsut to get all your feelings out on paper (here it would be a computer screen)
And I guess I take comfort in knowing other people who are a lot like me in other aspects of my life (health/fitness/partying/having a good time/etc.) are going through the same thing i'm going through at the same time.
And to be honest, i've gotten some of the best words of encouragement and help from some people on this board who take the time out of their day to help a fellow person. Which is a VERY comforting thought--knowing that the world hasnt gone all to hell yet
I guess everybody reading this who is having problems should realize what I realize...OTHER PEOPLE HAVE GONE THROUGH WHAT YOU HAVE. Not to burst any bubbles, but i know its hard to swallow the fact that you're situation isnt so "special" and that others know what you're going through and CAN help you. Maybe its an ego thing, pride thing, or something, but when you're hurting, its not exactly the time to be stubborn.
I'll be the first to admit that I bitch and moan like a lil girl on here sometimes, but whatever you know? I guess even though I get flamed at times, I have to shrug it off just like some of you should--cuz those people flaming are the assholes who try to act like your problems are meaningless and stupid--but only YOU know if they are or are not.
I guess what I'm offering here with this post is that I'm going through some very bad shit these days regarding my parents, a friend that recently died due to a heart attack from too much coke, and my ex girl who i was going to propse to at the end of this summer (actually i planned on doing so this weekend when two months ago I bought us a week vacation for two for her bday) dumped me on the fourth of July. Now I have a unreturnable engagement ring, and a week at the beach that I only got 50% back on when I canceled it...And that ring sitting on my dresser is a constant reminder of what could have been..So dont tell me I dont know what kind of pain or whatever you're going through.
Again, just a post to let ANYBODY regardless if I've flamed you before, or you have flamed me or we dont get along, that if there's shit goin on, Kakky can relate and help a nugga out LOL
peace
I know how it is............just broke up with the love of my life...
