Thinking too much fucking sux!!!

[Austin316]

Right now Im really really confused as to what Im wanting, like yea if I want a relationship I can have one, but Im not sure Im even ready to try and gain another emotional connection, I might just want to date, I don't know what though I can't decide its making me nutty, do I try for a relationship or continue dating around and shit, bah!!

then again I may just be scared of getting hurt, that sucks way toooo much

 

[AAP]

If you love, you risk. And if you risk, then you risk big. And if you get hurt, it is going to be big time hurt.

Just date around and be a horn dog. Because if you love, you lose.

 

[vinylgroover]

I agree. I am a deep thinker too and it kind of takes the spontenaiety out ofr life, but that's the way i am. I am too much of a pragmatist. I guess it kind of protects you in a way as well, because someone that doesn't think before they act can get themselves in alot of trouble, not just when it comes to realtionships but life in general. You see that with alot of people on these boards.

It's not all bad, but it can take a bit of the 'surprise' element out of life.

 

[Austin316]

If you love, you risk. And if you risk, then you risk big. And if you get hurt, it is going to be big time hurt.

Just date around and be a horn dog. Because if you love, you lose.

Seriously that just hit me close to home...Yep, question is if I could possibly deal with that again just yet

 

[HighIntensity]

If you love, you risk. And if you risk, then you risk big. And if you get hurt, it is going to be big time hurt.

Just date around and be a horn dog. Because if you love, you lose.

you sweet talker, had me at love.

 

[§äñît¥ Pôí§ðñ]

Seriously that just hit me close to home...Yep, question is if I could possibly deal with that again just yet

live and learn.....
i've been hurt BAD,...... in my situation i shouldnt even THINK about anyy more relationships., but i do...
in my opinion. u just cant be afraid to be alone, once you conquer that, take your time, and things usually fall in place
you will find someone when you least expect it. so just be happy with yourself and focus on what's going on in YOUR life

 

[Austin316]

well im seeing this girl and she really like s me and all and Im kinda scared she'll get real attached, I really like her too but she wants something whereas Im unsure of what I want

 

[§äñît¥ Pôí§ðñ]

jujust tell her that, youo don't know what you want, as to not get tooo serious too soon
then she has no surprises, whatever happens

 

[The Ranger]

Yup I agree with DL and anal assplorer on this one...date around and see what happens my friend....

Ranger

 

[big4life]

You don't have to build a life long relationship, just go have fun. A good friend of mine told me, that sometimes it is about being adored, mutually and honestly.

 

[Austin316]

thanks guys Im going to make sure I talk about this with her, last thing I want to do is lead her on or hurt her, I really do like her and all, I just am def not ready for a gf, hell maybe after seeing her more I will be, I don't know gotta figure that out

 

[Puc]

what was that satanic goatslayer quote??

love is life's salad dressing.

you don't need it.

it makes you fat.

dread lady and i have something in common... we both went to jail because of misdirected relationships...

 

[WIDELAT]

BRO I AM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING IF YOU WANT TO VENT BACK AND FORTH PM ME AND WE'LL SEE HOW CLOSE OUR SITUATION IS MAYBE WE CAN GIVE EACH OTHER SOME GOOD ADVICE.

 

[Taps]

You're on the right track, dude...just be honest with her.

 

[b fold the truth]

There once was a woman in Florida that I liked a lot. I told her that I could not go the rest of my life wondering if the woman I was supposed to be with was in Florida. I took a huge chance and found that it wasn't meant to be. I was hurt badly for a while.

There once was a woman in Tennessee that I liked a lot. I told her that I could not go the rest of my life wondering if the woman I was supposed to be with was in Tennessee. I took a huge chance and found that she IS the one for me.

I had to hurt, be hurt, etc...before I could find this one.

B True

 

[Austin316]

basically as of late I have not been myself, whereas I never dated before really, Ive out with 4 giurls in the last 2 weeks, first one was a setup, that sucked, second and third were fun although nothing there romantically even though I kinda as not myself and did things I prob wouldn't thinking clearly lol, and this new girl i like a lot, Im not all that attracted to her physically but I really get along with her and really like who she is...however Im jsut not ready to be with anyone exclusive now, she wants to be..*shrugs* I just think i want to date more and not have any pressure, Im worn out emotionally and need to be carefree with no complex situations

 

[Lestat]

sounds like its time to get some stank on tha hang low

 

[OMEGA]

Right now Im really really confused as to what Im wanting, like yea if I want a relationship I can have one, but Im not sure Im even ready to try and gain another emotional connection, I might just want to date, I don't know what though I can't decide its making me nutty, do I try for a relationship or continue dating around and shit, bah!!

then again I may just be scared of getting hurt, that sucks way toooo much

just spank your monkey all day

works for HI

 

[Frackal]

Austin I am just going to date / fuck around until I find a girlfriend...I'm not really interested in having one right now and I think that's a good thing...both of us are probably better off playing the field alot to really discover what we want in a woman....I cant wait for fulltime daytime college, I havent been around a sizeable group of girls in almost 2 years

 

[Austin316]

yea Frack I think that we may be better off doing that but who knows, things are never exactly easy...and yea college, lot easier to meet girls when the school year is in progress, specially with my fraternity stuff..I don't think i wanna be attached when I go back, finding out what I want exactly is prolly important to do