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giantdouche
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I wasn't sure at first, my parents are against that sort of thing..But then I've never really shared their views on much.
Wish me luck.
Wish me luck.
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alien amp pharm
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I think it's a terrific idea, unless the spouse has more than you.
Seriously though, it may have been frowned upon years back, but nowadays the way people act, behave, cheat and divorce so easily I would def. get one.
Seriously though, it may have been frowned upon years back, but nowadays the way people act, behave, cheat and divorce so easily I would def. get one.
Razorguns
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check the laws of your state. In many places, all the bitching from women's rights groups have forced lawmakers to kiss their ass and make pre-nups almost worthless.
imho: Pre-nups should be made to PROTECT certain assets that clearly belong to one party before it enters a marraige. Eg: investment in house, car, company, etc. It's beyond lunacy to give someone 50% of a house you've been paying for 10 years just cuz they married you for 8 months. Pre-nup should at least protect what you bring into a marraige.
imho: Pre-nups should be made to PROTECT certain assets that clearly belong to one party before it enters a marraige. Eg: investment in house, car, company, etc. It's beyond lunacy to give someone 50% of a house you've been paying for 10 years just cuz they married you for 8 months. Pre-nup should at least protect what you bring into a marraige.
string_bean00
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I'd get one. She's probably cheating on you.
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giantdouche
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Razorguns said:
I totally agree.
The Red Dragon
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Never get married without one. Plus the fiancée rejects, could that possibly mean they had malicious intentions going into the marriage? I wish you the best of luck man.
Your parents and older people may hate it but back then, divorce wasn't really prevalent. It just takes 1 divorce to ruin your life as it seems.
Your parents and older people may hate it but back then, divorce wasn't really prevalent. It just takes 1 divorce to ruin your life as it seems.
theoak01
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it would take alot for me not to have one made up.
1-my career will give me comfortable living,but it will be doing the job I love,and if a women left me and took me for everything I had I probably wouldnt make it.
2- I have huge trust issues cuz people enjoy screwing me over and I seem to let them
1-my career will give me comfortable living,but it will be doing the job I love,and if a women left me and took me for everything I had I probably wouldnt make it.
2- I have huge trust issues cuz people enjoy screwing me over and I seem to let them
Buddy_Christ
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i think the pre-nup is the only reason the stupid whore i call a mother is still married to the cumstain i guess is technically my stepfather.
if we ever get married, i don't think we'll need a pre-nup. we don't have anything now, and we probably won't have much if we ever get married, so there's really nothing to try to protect.
if we ever get married, i don't think we'll need a pre-nup. we don't have anything now, and we probably won't have much if we ever get married, so there's really nothing to try to protect.
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alien amp pharm
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From Zero Bro has spoken
awittyusername
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How old are you and your girl?
How long have you been together?
Why even get married? (Now I know how you got your name)
How long have you been together?
Why even get married? (Now I know how you got your name)
Forge
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If I ever get married again, I definately will. My ex could have screwed me something fierce had she been so inclined, I won't count on luck and goodwill the next time around. Plus, I own a house now and make good money, I have more to protect than I did before.
And Crak, just because you have nothing now doesn't mean you won't ever have something. Get the prenup anyway, it can't hurt but can only help.
And Crak, just because you have nothing now doesn't mean you won't ever have something. Get the prenup anyway, it can't hurt but can only help.
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giantdouche
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awittyusername said:
I'm 21 (22 in a month), she's 28. We've been together for almost 3 years now.
We're getting married because we want to.
Now...give me a reason why you think a prenup is a bad idea, thanks.
awittyusername
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Pre nump is not a bad Idea. But, getting married at 21 is!. Especially, if you have been w/her since a teenager! Bro, you need to live. I just went to a class reuinion and everyone who was married in there early 20's is dovorced. I asked them all why. They said they never got a chance to live. Now they are doing it. But, they also have kids now.giantdouche said:
I'm not hating on you bro. In my early 20's I graduated college w/honors, owned my own business, and was very level headed. I thought I knew everything. 10yrs later I realize how little I knew. I am a totally different person in my thirties. (everyone changes but most couples do not change the same way)
Bro, just chill out. There is now rush!
Has she been married or has any kids?
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shawnerk
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who has more dough? Then you'll know what to do...
giantdouche said:I wasn't sure at first, my parents are against that sort of thing..But then I've never really shared their views on much.
Wish me luck.
Good luck, holmes.
If she's cheating on you already, and you don't have any idea, then you're fucked anyway......
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giantdouche
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awittyusername said:
Unlike some people, I don't let my SO keep me from living my life. It will always be that way, and she knows it. I do what I do, that's the way I do it and thats the way I'll always do it.
Even if we did end up getting divorced, I would not regret getting married. It really irritates me how people look back at things and say, "man I really wish I hadn't done that." Just move the fuck on. Life's too short to always be worrying about what you did or didn't do.
Btw - she has not been married and has no kids.
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giantdouche
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DIVISION said:^^^Now that's real, GD. I wish more bros had your mindset going in, they would be alot happier. Marriage doesn't mean your life ends, if anything it should enhance your life, not restrict it.
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Agreed. One of my friends got married recently and he's practically tied up in the basement with a racket ball shoved in his mouth. Sadly, I'll probably never see him again.
Buddy_Christ
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Forge said:
yeah, but we have nothing now, and anything we were to do (buy house, cars, etc) would end up being done jointly anyway.
besides, if i got married and divorced and she tried to take me to the cleaners in the divorce, they'd never find the body and i'd have an airtight alibi.
Buddy_Christ
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Razorguns said:
let's not discuss that on an open board, ok?
concordsize
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I have found that most women who come from some "money" tend to not take agression to the prenup they have an understanding of the impact of money. They dont give the whole "thats what you think of me".... If you make the prenup some what reasonable that it. It cant be like everything for me nothing for you.
If it were me I would put it in sighning that if we were to seperate then i will make sure she is where she left or better. Like maybe she left with a car she owned or a house she sold to live with you ect.
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If it were me I would put it in sighning that if we were to seperate then i will make sure she is where she left or better. Like maybe she left with a car she owned or a house she sold to live with you ect.
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GoldenDelicious
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it would be great to do away with the bullshit laws that leave you open to molestation, rather than have everyone signing pre nups and putting stress on their marriage about it
divorce is like death; sure it might happen, but you really dont want to be thinking about the details while theres life to be lived and fun to be had
divorce is like death; sure it might happen, but you really dont want to be thinking about the details while theres life to be lived and fun to be had
Sigmund Roid
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good for you
can you also put in something about future kids that you can see them after a divorce and to protect yourself about a rediculously high alimoney?
can you also put in something about future kids that you can see them after a divorce and to protect yourself about a rediculously high alimoney?
GoldenDelicious said:
^^^depends on how much cash we are talkin' 'bout here, nugga...
If it's a few G's.......there's no real need, but he's stackin G's in a major way and she's clingin' on hopin' 2 get paid today........THERE'S NEED!
Common sense, people.
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napolean22
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3 words "offshore bank account"
protect yourself...the odds are against successful marriages today. And if by some fucking act of god that it does workout, congrats. Now you have a pretty penny to spend your retirement life nicely.
protect yourself...the odds are against successful marriages today. And if by some fucking act of god that it does workout, congrats. Now you have a pretty penny to spend your retirement life nicely.
wutangnomo
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awittyusername said:
Always can count on you Witty for this reply.
Testosterone boy
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What is the point in getting married if a pre nup is desired?
Just a thought?
Just a thought?
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giantdouche
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Testosterone boy said:
Good point.
I'm gonna call the whole thing off now.
Forge
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Testosterone boy said:
Because you just never can tell. It may seem perfect today, the love may be so strong that you could never think of leaving her, but things can change over time. No one can tell what the future holds, you can do everything right and still end up divorced due to no fault of your own. Why open yourself up to possibly getting raked over the coals because she may someday change her mind?
It's just a good idea in today's world of independant women and greedy lawyers, especially when the divorce rate is so incredibly high.
With the divorce rate as high as it is and the great majority being initiated by women any man thinking about getting married shoud get a pre nup drawn out by a good lawyer. Women are not mentally stable in the long term, in time she'll grow "unhappy" and by God it will be hell trying to figure out why. I've seen women turn like night and day seemingly in an instant. So good luck in today's world. American women are really bad in this regard, power (which is really what independence is) corrupts them in a flash. It's damn hard to find a good partner these days.
Forge
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GREGORY said:
True words, I witnessed it before my very eyes after 5 years of extremely happy marraige. If you had asked me a year ago if I'd ever divorce my wife I would have laughed out loud, I thought I was married for life. And yet here I am divorced, for the most stupid reasons in the world, and it truly is because of her not me. Shit can turn on a fucking dime, never take forever for granted.
