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68GT350
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So, I went away for the day with my girl very upset. I came back refreshed with a strong sense of conviction to make this work. I knew I loved her from the first day I met her and I still wanted to spend the rest of my life with her...
The next day, I called her and we met up and had a serious talk. She informed me that she was having feelings for jailbird. She needed time away from me to see if she wanted to pursue her feelings. I told her I would do that but I would not accept any infidelity. She said she was considering this. Hurt I told her to go fuck herself and if she wanted to throw away an almost 4 yr. relationship, go ahead. We seperated and 3 days later, I called her to apologize. Distant sounding, she informed me that she cheated already and wanted to continue being alone.
Again, I fell into a pit of despair, depression, and utter misery. However the REAL truth didn't come till I hung out with our mutual friend, the girl who had gotten me that job so long ago. Since my girl confided in her, she felt she owed me the real truth. My girl had actually cheated that very same day I left for the outing.
Angered, I soon confronted my ex to make sure she knew I knew what was up and make her feel like the garbage she was...
(more soon, getting sick of me yet?)
The next day, I called her and we met up and had a serious talk. She informed me that she was having feelings for jailbird. She needed time away from me to see if she wanted to pursue her feelings. I told her I would do that but I would not accept any infidelity. She said she was considering this. Hurt I told her to go fuck herself and if she wanted to throw away an almost 4 yr. relationship, go ahead. We seperated and 3 days later, I called her to apologize. Distant sounding, she informed me that she cheated already and wanted to continue being alone.
Again, I fell into a pit of despair, depression, and utter misery. However the REAL truth didn't come till I hung out with our mutual friend, the girl who had gotten me that job so long ago. Since my girl confided in her, she felt she owed me the real truth. My girl had actually cheated that very same day I left for the outing.
Angered, I soon confronted my ex to make sure she knew I knew what was up and make her feel like the garbage she was...
(more soon, getting sick of me yet?)
68GT350
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Knowing that the truth was exposed, my ex spent many days alone, going into a deep depression. She had lost 20 lbs., tried to commit suicide, had a domestic crisis with her family (remember she slept with her sister's boy, and basically had to live with the fact that she threw away our relationship for an infatuation.
She became very determined to try and get me back...She called constantly trying to make me hear her out. Finally, she came up with a plan to try and save me some face. She went up to all our mutual friends and apologized in tears for hurting their friend. She confronted my parents begging for thier acceptance and apolgizing for hurting their son. I thought this to be very impressive so I at least heard her out. I came by her house, late one evening and we spent the night outside discussing our situation. We both looked haggard and spent.
She told me that our relationship was goign sour prior to the cheating and she seriously thought that we were broken up or was about to. She had been thinking this for a while (a month). Being that jailbird was in the same house, she thought she had feelings for him agian but as soon as she cheated...during the act, she wanted to stop but he didn't let her. She regretted it right away. Stricken with guilt, she concocted the story she told me, thinking it would hurt less. She felt she didn't deserve to be with "the best fucking guy in the world, who any girl would be lucky to have as a boyfriend." However, soon after we broke up, she couldnt' stand to be away and informed me of her suicide attempts and her lost weight. Showing me, I indeed saw her body's proof of the ordeal. Breaking down, I still couldn't accept her back. She began wailing madly and clutched at me. She begged and begged...Finally, I let my feelings out and we hugged. I told her I would take her back under one very important condition: That she never ever lie, withhold the truth and basically be completely honest with me in the future.
She burst into a fresh stream of tears and once again, we began our relationship
(still more!!! I suck...i know)
She became very determined to try and get me back...She called constantly trying to make me hear her out. Finally, she came up with a plan to try and save me some face. She went up to all our mutual friends and apologized in tears for hurting their friend. She confronted my parents begging for thier acceptance and apolgizing for hurting their son. I thought this to be very impressive so I at least heard her out. I came by her house, late one evening and we spent the night outside discussing our situation. We both looked haggard and spent.
She told me that our relationship was goign sour prior to the cheating and she seriously thought that we were broken up or was about to. She had been thinking this for a while (a month). Being that jailbird was in the same house, she thought she had feelings for him agian but as soon as she cheated...during the act, she wanted to stop but he didn't let her. She regretted it right away. Stricken with guilt, she concocted the story she told me, thinking it would hurt less. She felt she didn't deserve to be with "the best fucking guy in the world, who any girl would be lucky to have as a boyfriend." However, soon after we broke up, she couldnt' stand to be away and informed me of her suicide attempts and her lost weight. Showing me, I indeed saw her body's proof of the ordeal. Breaking down, I still couldn't accept her back. She began wailing madly and clutched at me. She begged and begged...Finally, I let my feelings out and we hugged. I told her I would take her back under one very important condition: That she never ever lie, withhold the truth and basically be completely honest with me in the future.
She burst into a fresh stream of tears and once again, we began our relationship
(still more!!! I suck...i know)
68GT350
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She told me that she would spend the rest of her life trying to earn my trust back and making up for being such a bad girlfriend. She was too. I lost my job and she took care of me. She bought me playstation 2 and games even though I ordered her to stop that nonsense. Our relationship was the best it ever was and the sex was phenominal (it doesn't hurt that I'm mid-cycle)
There's one big complication...I broke up with her again, cuz I found out from grilling her one night about the cheating nights events. I found out that the week prior, he had been stealing kisses. She never told me this and I was enraged once again. She had been kissing this guy before our cheating so it wasn't a spontaneous act, as I had been lead to believe. Now I'm alone once again, upset...but ready to tackle life by myself and move on. Do you think it's silly for leaving her for this?
She told me she didn't want to hurt me with the gory details.
There's one big complication...I broke up with her again, cuz I found out from grilling her one night about the cheating nights events. I found out that the week prior, he had been stealing kisses. She never told me this and I was enraged once again. She had been kissing this guy before our cheating so it wasn't a spontaneous act, as I had been lead to believe. Now I'm alone once again, upset...but ready to tackle life by myself and move on. Do you think it's silly for leaving her for this?
She told me she didn't want to hurt me with the gory details.
spongebob
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toga22 said:
Yes Sponge Man---
Come with me~~
It will be OK~ I promise.....and you can ALWAYS trust us Wisconsin girls!!
This way *toga holds out her hand* Come On!!
toga your the only one i would trust, but i dont want to leave, its too cruel out there.
your hand is as soft as roses.
yeah yeah yeah, u sure didn't ake it too long last night lol, finally going to bed on aconsistannt basis?toga22 said:
I like the Cheese Austin!!!
LOL....I new you couldn't resist the charm of PHATchik......
Cmon guys, I bet we can make this 1000 posts too lol
toga22 said:
That is not true...There have been a lot of people that have stopped in your thread .....they just haven't "pitched a tent" here!!
U r evil, your gonna give poor Sponge here a heart attack
BTW, you havn't had to deal with a lot more of those lessons have you? I hate to see people put up with that crap
spongebob
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toga22 said:
Does that mean you will come out of your "shell" when the night shift is on?
I hope so....even though I will be at work!!
all i can say is i'll try.
i think my puter is seriously messed up. ive tried to leave this thread all day to no avail. i had conversations with myself, i was bored.
hmph
spongebob
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toga22 said:I hate to tell you this Sweetie...
But I got to go to work...If you are still around at 6:30 am ...
I will stop in and say "Hi"...unless you decide to venture out...
Be Good & Have Fun...
You too Austin....Have a great night!!
thats ok babe, have a nice night at work, i go to work in the morning, i'll leave you a message at 6am before i go.
bye,
lol, yeah, it'll be about 25 tommorow I think, maybe a little more or less
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spongebob
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(AP) WASHINGTON, Nov. 30, 2001
Negotiations intended to reach compromise on an economic stimulus package are stalled in Congress because the House and Senate can't agree on how the talks should proceed.
is anybody else fed up with these damn politicians? they sure do take thier sweet time with shit. i guess it doesnt affect them so much, so why bother.
Negotiations intended to reach compromise on an economic stimulus package are stalled in Congress because the House and Senate can't agree on how the talks should proceed.
is anybody else fed up with these damn politicians? they sure do take thier sweet time with shit. i guess it doesnt affect them so much, so why bother.
spongebob
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Bush's Social Security Plan Coming
By CONNIE CASS
.c The Associated Press
WASHINGTON (AP) - President Bush's Social Security commission is finalizing proposals to shrink benefits for most future retirees while allowing them to invest part of their payroll taxes in the stock market.
The commission also planned Thursday to include a less controversial option in their report - allowing personal investment accounts without altering traditional benefits. But they warned that wouldn't fix Social Security's financial shortfall, as their other two proposals are designed to do.
``There's no painless way to do it and there's no quick way to do it,'' co-chairman Richard Parsons said.
Opponents of private savings accounts were quick to reject all the ideas. ``To pay for privatization, the commission is now proposing serious benefit cuts,'' complained Rep. Robert Matsui, D-Calif.
im not so sure g-dubya's plan will work. i hope we have retirement when its our time.
By CONNIE CASS
.c The Associated Press
WASHINGTON (AP) - President Bush's Social Security commission is finalizing proposals to shrink benefits for most future retirees while allowing them to invest part of their payroll taxes in the stock market.
The commission also planned Thursday to include a less controversial option in their report - allowing personal investment accounts without altering traditional benefits. But they warned that wouldn't fix Social Security's financial shortfall, as their other two proposals are designed to do.
``There's no painless way to do it and there's no quick way to do it,'' co-chairman Richard Parsons said.
Opponents of private savings accounts were quick to reject all the ideas. ``To pay for privatization, the commission is now proposing serious benefit cuts,'' complained Rep. Robert Matsui, D-Calif.
im not so sure g-dubya's plan will work. i hope we have retirement when its our time.
68GT350
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spongebob said:
Sorry man...just went to take a shower. That was a damn short marriage. All my friends think that since I devoted so much time and I've always been so faithful, it would be a waste to not try hard with my girl.
Your girl...did she cheat with friends or a friend. What were the circumstances. Often, people let pride get in the way.
68GT350
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"What rolls downstairs,
and over in pairs--
and over the neighbor's dog?
What's great for a snack,
and fits on your back--
It's LOG LOG LOG!
It's LOOOG it's LOOOG,
It's big it's heavy it's wood.
It's LOOOOG it's LOOOG,
it's better than bad--it's good!
Everyone wants a log,
Your' gonna love the log.
Everyone wants a log, log, log.
and over in pairs--
and over the neighbor's dog?
What's great for a snack,
and fits on your back--
It's LOG LOG LOG!
It's LOOOG it's LOOOG,
It's big it's heavy it's wood.
It's LOOOOG it's LOOOG,
it's better than bad--it's good!
Everyone wants a log,
Your' gonna love the log.
Everyone wants a log, log, log.
spongebob
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well i went into the navy, boy was i shocked. all alone for the first time. away from mommy.
well i thought it would be good if i married her, it would help our problems.
i wanted her to come live with me in cali.
well we got married. i think she was screwing around at that time.
anyways, she came to visit one time and things just werent the same, i could tell something was wrong, well she left.
i talked to her mom and she hinted at things but i didnt snap.
well a mutual friends mother told me my wife was staying with another guy.
well i immediately flew there and told her it was over for ever.
ive never looked back.
later i found out she had screwed alot of people while i was gone. even a friend of mine. oh well.
im not a cold person, but to block the pain out i had to remove her from my life completely, there's no way i was ever gonna take her back, cause she wanted me too bad, tried real hard to get me back, i said noooo!!!
i screwed a few of her friends after that!!! he-he
well i thought it would be good if i married her, it would help our problems.
i wanted her to come live with me in cali.
well we got married. i think she was screwing around at that time.
anyways, she came to visit one time and things just werent the same, i could tell something was wrong, well she left.
i talked to her mom and she hinted at things but i didnt snap.
well a mutual friends mother told me my wife was staying with another guy.
well i immediately flew there and told her it was over for ever.
ive never looked back.
later i found out she had screwed alot of people while i was gone. even a friend of mine. oh well.
im not a cold person, but to block the pain out i had to remove her from my life completely, there's no way i was ever gonna take her back, cause she wanted me too bad, tried real hard to get me back, i said noooo!!!
i screwed a few of her friends after that!!! he-he
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