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So, I went away for the day with my girl very upset. I came back refreshed with a strong sense of conviction to make this work. I knew I loved her from the first day I met her and I still wanted to spend the rest of my life with her...
The next day, I called her and we met up and had a serious talk. She informed me that she was having feelings for jailbird. She needed time away from me to see if she wanted to pursue her feelings. I told her I would do that but I would not accept any infidelity. She said she was considering this. Hurt I told her to go fuck herself and if she wanted to throw away an almost 4 yr. relationship, go ahead. We seperated and 3 days later, I called her to apologize. Distant sounding, she informed me that she cheated already and wanted to continue being alone.
Again, I fell into a pit of despair, depression, and utter misery. However the REAL truth didn't come till I hung out with our mutual friend, the girl who had gotten me that job so long ago. Since my girl confided in her, she felt she owed me the real truth. My girl had actually cheated that very same day I left for the outing.
Angered, I soon confronted my ex to make sure she knew I knew what was up and make her feel like the garbage she was...
(more soon, getting sick of me yet?)
The next day, I called her and we met up and had a serious talk. She informed me that she was having feelings for jailbird. She needed time away from me to see if she wanted to pursue her feelings. I told her I would do that but I would not accept any infidelity. She said she was considering this. Hurt I told her to go fuck herself and if she wanted to throw away an almost 4 yr. relationship, go ahead. We seperated and 3 days later, I called her to apologize. Distant sounding, she informed me that she cheated already and wanted to continue being alone.
Again, I fell into a pit of despair, depression, and utter misery. However the REAL truth didn't come till I hung out with our mutual friend, the girl who had gotten me that job so long ago. Since my girl confided in her, she felt she owed me the real truth. My girl had actually cheated that very same day I left for the outing.
Angered, I soon confronted my ex to make sure she knew I knew what was up and make her feel like the garbage she was...
(more soon, getting sick of me yet?)
68GT350
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Knowing that the truth was exposed, my ex spent many days alone, going into a deep depression. She had lost 20 lbs., tried to commit suicide, had a domestic crisis with her family (remember she slept with her sister's boy, and basically had to live with the fact that she threw away our relationship for an infatuation.
She became very determined to try and get me back...She called constantly trying to make me hear her out. Finally, she came up with a plan to try and save me some face. She went up to all our mutual friends and apologized in tears for hurting their friend. She confronted my parents begging for thier acceptance and apolgizing for hurting their son. I thought this to be very impressive so I at least heard her out. I came by her house, late one evening and we spent the night outside discussing our situation. We both looked haggard and spent.
She told me that our relationship was goign sour prior to the cheating and she seriously thought that we were broken up or was about to. She had been thinking this for a while (a month). Being that jailbird was in the same house, she thought she had feelings for him agian but as soon as she cheated...during the act, she wanted to stop but he didn't let her. She regretted it right away. Stricken with guilt, she concocted the story she told me, thinking it would hurt less. She felt she didn't deserve to be with "the best fucking guy in the world, who any girl would be lucky to have as a boyfriend." However, soon after we broke up, she couldnt' stand to be away and informed me of her suicide attempts and her lost weight. Showing me, I indeed saw her body's proof of the ordeal. Breaking down, I still couldn't accept her back. She began wailing madly and clutched at me. She begged and begged...Finally, I let my feelings out and we hugged. I told her I would take her back under one very important condition: That she never ever lie, withhold the truth and basically be completely honest with me in the future.
She burst into a fresh stream of tears and once again, we began our relationship
(still more!!! I suck...i know)
She became very determined to try and get me back...She called constantly trying to make me hear her out. Finally, she came up with a plan to try and save me some face. She went up to all our mutual friends and apologized in tears for hurting their friend. She confronted my parents begging for thier acceptance and apolgizing for hurting their son. I thought this to be very impressive so I at least heard her out. I came by her house, late one evening and we spent the night outside discussing our situation. We both looked haggard and spent.
She told me that our relationship was goign sour prior to the cheating and she seriously thought that we were broken up or was about to. She had been thinking this for a while (a month). Being that jailbird was in the same house, she thought she had feelings for him agian but as soon as she cheated...during the act, she wanted to stop but he didn't let her. She regretted it right away. Stricken with guilt, she concocted the story she told me, thinking it would hurt less. She felt she didn't deserve to be with "the best fucking guy in the world, who any girl would be lucky to have as a boyfriend." However, soon after we broke up, she couldnt' stand to be away and informed me of her suicide attempts and her lost weight. Showing me, I indeed saw her body's proof of the ordeal. Breaking down, I still couldn't accept her back. She began wailing madly and clutched at me. She begged and begged...Finally, I let my feelings out and we hugged. I told her I would take her back under one very important condition: That she never ever lie, withhold the truth and basically be completely honest with me in the future.
She burst into a fresh stream of tears and once again, we began our relationship
(still more!!! I suck...i know)
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