there's something wrong with my computer....

[PHATchik]

phatchik, i missed you. we didnt finish our talk, i dont think. but your tired. get some rest babe. i wish i could have stayed up with you last night. we could have really got to know each other, i hope you come back tonight.
sweet dreams

I'll be back. I'm about to drop as it is. Talk to you later.

 

[spongebob]

Although we had been dating for only 3 months, it felt longer since we had been spending all of our time together for 6 months before that.

My grandparents live upstate NY 3 hours away, and I was called over to help with construction work on their house. I was away from her for a week. When I came back, the welcome from my girl was distant and very non-affectionate. She ceased having sex, she wasn't loving. It was strange how a week created a total 180. 3 weeks of this lead to heated arguements. Finally, from that same friend that got me the theatre job (our mutual friend), she told me that my girl had cheated on me with "guy A" whom she had a bad break-up with.

I confronted my girl about this and she admitted to it, saying that she thought she still had feelings for this guy and she also felt guilty for cheating on me. Of course I was devastated, going into a deep depression and becoming a recluse. I was a total basket case.

(to be continued)

wow man let it out dude.

 

[spongebob]

Make sure you get one with the scratch-N-sniff keyboard.....

i just want something that works.

 

[spongebob]

I'll be back. I'm about to drop as it is. Talk to you later.

<sigh><heart flutters>

 

[68GT350]

Being the spineless jelly-fish that I was, I called her to yell at her, one fateful day. I just wanted to vent my frustrations and in tears, she admitted to wanting to get back together. She said Guy A wanted her back but her true feelings were for me. She regretted the stupid act and only did it cuz she was confused. He had dumped her without explanation and obviously this hurt her. After much pleading, I told her that I didn't want to be 2nd place prize...that she had to choose me over him. I made sure that he didn't reject her and she was after me as a last resort by doing some "research." After confirming this, we got back together slowly. She worked hard at regaining my trust and our relationship was very strong once again.

A year later, on New Years Eve, I proposed by putting "Will You Marry Me?" on the Marquee of the movie theatre. We walked out of our movie and the entire crowd around us applauded as I knelt and offered the ring.

(more to come)

 

[68GT350]

wow man let it out dude.

LOL, you said you were bored so I figured if I posted my unfortunate shit, you'd feel a lot better about yours while at the smae time, giving you somthing to read, while others post. Plus I get to vent.

 

[spongebob]

A year later, on New Years Eve, I proposed by putting "Will You Marry Me?" on the Marquee of the movie theatre. We walked out of our movie and the entire crowd around us applauded as I knelt and offered the ring.

(more to come)

wow things really turned around for you guys, thats great!

 

[spongebob]

LOL, you said you were bored so I figured if I posted my unfortunate shit, you'd feel a lot better about yours while at the smae time, giving you somthing to read, while others post. Plus I get to vent.

well in my case me and her were married and she screwed my friends.

 

[68GT350]

*fast foward to present time*

Now, it's 3.5 years into our relationship and things are good but we bickered a lot. We both realized that we had spent WAY too much time together and we began to argue. One particular arguement left us both saying many things that we both regretted.

Mind you, Jail bird (guy B) has now gotten out of jail and now is living in the same house as my girl. He is currently dating my girl's adopted sister!!! They all live in my girl's parents house. Fucked up eh?

Well, anyways...I try to get my girl to go on another family outing for the day, but she and I are still pissed at the arguement so I let her stay home to cool off. The shti we said to each other was very hurtful and I told her I wanted us to be over. I didn't mean it though....I still loved her with all my heart.

Little did I know that jail bird was taking advantage of our arguements and being my girls confidant. He would be her shoulder to cry on and comfort her when I fucked up. He had also begun to flirt. I knew nothing of this at this point.

(more soon)

 

[68GT350]

well in my case me and her were married and she screwed my friends.

That does hurt, man....I'm sorry to hear that.