The most spiteful thing I ever encountered.

[riverrock]

She knows alright. I thiink the fact that I have thrown out a load of stuff, sold most out mine (not "ours" as she bought Jack S for the house anyhow), and have vowed never to rent an unfurnished house ever again should be the give away!

Actually, quite a few people are concerned about me in general and its obvious that something is on my mind. Last week she got so angry in the car that she grabbed the wheel and tried to force me into the metal barrier. Luckily, I elbowed her away and was able to pull in. Trust me, she went for it - It wasn't meant as a warning.....

 

[Gymgurl]

I would get rid of her now...Your not married....she is only going to get worse if she can get away with that

 

[Cutiebaby]

I agree with gymgurl.
The closer it gets to january the more she is going to be a risk.
She (no offense) sounds like a whack job. IMO, you should up and leave now.
Are both your names on the lease? If so you can easily tell the landlord that you are moving and want your name off the lease. I think as long as one of your names is still on the lease all should be fine.

 

[riverrock]

I wish it were that easy gym gurl. But, she's basically squatting in the house and won't go. I can't go either as stuck with the lease and can't afford to pay twice (there and a rented place for a while). Don't worry, she's on borrowed time anyhow. I can take it as its only a few months and knowing there's an exit date makes it all a lot easier.

 

[Lao Tzu]

Yeah, the part where she tried to drive the car off the road was a very bad sign. Compared to that, the picture thing is minor, although still a sign of what she is like deep down inside. I'd find a different woman pronto.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I would get rid of her now...Your not married....she is only going to get worse if she can get away with that

Exactly.

She may end up causing you more $$ than it'd cost to get out of your lease.

I couldn't sleep at night knowing she is there aware that I am moving out.

 

[riverrock]

Funny thing is Alien AP, she seems to believe deep down that I'll change my mind at the end. That is why I'm leaving it until literally the day before when the "man with a white van" comes along and takes everything out. Then I'm away too. Anything else and your right about bad nights sleep.

 

[patsfan1379]

jeez man. good luck.

 

[Frisky]

wow. that's fucked up. she fucked up bigtime.

tis curb time... If my beau destroyed my old pics, which some did include my X husband with me and my kids I'd be pissed. I don't hold on to them for me, I have tons of albums... I keep them for my two kids. Something for them to look back at years to come. I don't have random photo's of X boyfriends etc... those all went when I got married, I got rid of them.

 

[Spanky11]

Last week she got so angry in the car that she grabbed the wheel and tried to force me into the metal barrier. Luckily, I elbowed her away and was able to pull in. Trust me, she went for it - It wasn't meant as a warning.....

holy crazy bitch.

get out of there


now