The "I've had a great date in the last 2 week's thread

[Taps]

PHATchik, that's a rough situation to be in. I've been there before, and belive me...no matter what happens, you're gonna be stressed out for a while. The only advice I can offer is to just go with the flow. Don't force things, just be cool and see what happens.

Oddly enough, I've found out recently that a lot of my female freinds are interested in me. Some on a purely sexual level, some in a more serious way. It's odd as hell, as I've known most of 'em for years, and I always assumed I repulsed them. lol.

I tried dating a good freind once, and it went very, very badly. I swore off doing it from then on....but damn it if I'm not a horny bastard. Ah well, these are the days of our lives...hehe.

 

[PHATchik]

Thanks NB and Taps. I appreciate the advice. I'm not used to broadcasting my problems on here, but sometimes it helps.

And NB, I know you're right. I would always wonder what if. But maybe that's better than the alternative.

 

[the nature boy]

Taps is correct. Either way is fucked up. So you might as well go with the option that has the best possible outcome, and that would be to go for it. Good luck.

 

[PHATchik]

Taps is correct. Either way is fucked up. So you might as well go with the option that has the best possible outcome, and that would be to go for it. Good luck.

You'll understand if I decline that option. But thank you anyway. Who knows? Things might work out for us anyway.

 

[the nature boy]

You'll understand if I decline that option. But thank you anyway. Who knows? Things might work out for us anyway.

of course I'll understand, but I'll bug you about it in a good natured way.

generally things work themselves out in the long run. heck, you might meet prince charming tomorrow on the street. in life, you never know.

 

[Austin316]

Hey you all could be like me and never once made it through one, Hell I havn't even been on one since late high school, Im more focused on myself right now

 

[Hannibal]

No I don't know for sure. One of our mutual best friends says to go for it. But I can't. I know, I know. I'm a wuss. I've just been hurt one too many times.

hurt one to many times huh? get back with me in about 4 or 5 years and then tell me about one to many times....go for it kid....you got lotsa life to bounce back from it if it doesnt work. CARPE DIEM!

 

[buksoon]

CARPE DIEM!

fish of the day ????

 

[Austin316]

Getting hurt sux, Ive been hurt by friends and don't ever wanna get hurt like someone you love can, so Im scared of it, but when I do start dwelling on the past, I just look at my quote below and that resets my mind.

 

[the nature boy]

fish of the day ????

and a bad fish at that!