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the nature boy
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PHATchik said:
I was waiting for that one from someone. And yes, the guys at Tennessee do have problems. On and off the field.
Think of it as a blessing in disguise. You don't need to be tied down to some man while you're in college. This is when you're supposed to be having fun. Now go have some fun!!
Hell I'm 28 and sometimes I display a college mentality. I haven't had a SERIOUS relationship in 4 years, and I don't miss it too much at all. Sure I get lonely sometimes, who doesn't? But I can do whatever I want, date who I want and I have nobody to answer to.
Watch, like next week I'll end up meeting my soul mate and I won't be talking any of this shit anymore. ha.
PHATchik
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The Nature Boy said:
Think of it as a blessing in disguise. You don't need to be tied down to some man while you're in college. This is when you're supposed to be having fun. Now go have some fun!!
Hell I'm 28 and sometimes I display a college mentality. I haven't had a SERIOUS relationship in 4 years, and I don't miss it too much at all. Sure I get lonely sometimes, who doesn't? But I can do whatever I want, date who I want and I have nobody to answer to.
Watch, like next week I'll end up meeting my soul mate and I won't be talking any of this shit anymore. ha.
Believe me, if I could just avoid all this romance and relationship stuff I would, seems like I am always falling for the wrong guy. I'm doing the same thing now. No matter how much I try to fight it.
the nature boy
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PHATchik said:
Believe me, if I could just avoid all this romance and relationship stuff I would, seems like I am always falling for the wrong guy. I'm doing the same thing now. No matter how much I try to fight it.
Ok I'm playing shrink here.
Why do you fall for the wrong guys? Is it bad luck? Or are you attracted to the wrong guys? Or is it something else?
PHATchik
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The Nature Boy said:
Well, the one I have sort of fallen for now isn't a bad guy. He's nice, sweet, funny, cute, and all that. It's just he's one of my best friends. We've had problems in the past. I don't want to take a chance at risking what we have found again by telling him how I feel. Thus, he is the one of the wrong guys because it can't work out for us.
the nature boy
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PHATchik said:
wait. do you like him? or does he like you?
the nature boy
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PHATchik said:
I like him. He has no clue. Good lord, I have worse problems than I did when I was in high school. And I sound even younger.
hahaha. no you don't. ok. so you like him, but you don't want to ruin your friendship? if you were to confront him, what do think he'd say? are you 100% certain that it wouldn't work out?
the nature boy
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PHATchik said:
No I don't know for sure. One of our mutual best friends says to go for it. But I can't. I know, I know. I'm a wuss. I've just been hurt one too many times.
yeah, but it's better to be hurt now than to look back years from now and kick yourself for not going for it. sure rejection sucks. but it happens to all of us. you need to be honest with yourself and with him too. live a little. besides, eventually he's gonna catch on. trust me, you will show signs even if you don't want to.
you say you've been hurt one too many times. you know you're going to get hurt again sometime, right? you can't just hide from the world because you don't want to get hurt. that will make you miserable. and being miserable is worse than being hurt.
lets say he's not interested and just wants to remain friends. sure that would blow. but you at least know where you stand. but you know what? maybe he feels the same way, and is squeamish about going for it with you. so you must find out. there is no other choice.
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