the issue of WEIGHT.. with a chick.. how do you address it? do you?

[Bikini Mod]

Bikini, chill out ho.

First off, you don't know me well enough to call me "ho".

Couldn't you tell I was joking?[/B]

Secondly, No.....it was FAIRLY OBVIOUS by my post that I COULD NOT.

I don't have a bad physique either. [/B]

Please do NOT EVEN tell me that you juice.....

Plifter.... I don't mean to go off on you, but coming from a guy who has posted the kind of pics that you have......whatever, if you think you are all that, then THAT is what counts. HOWEVER, if you are juicing - IMHO you should look waaaaaaaaay better.

 

[mdd]

get her to go to the gym with you...

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

so, i decided i really think the girl should lose a little weight... not much... but i'd love to see her go from average body to GOOD body... she has the face... its flawless... with a TINY bit of work she'd be dangerous.

Devil's advocate:

If she gets too hot she may leave you.

 

[plifter]

Please do NOT EVEN tell me that you juice.....

Plifter.... I don't mean to go off on you, but coming from a guy who has posted the kind of pics that you have......whatever, if you think you are all that, then THAT is what counts. HOWEVER, if you are juicing - IMHO you should look waaaaaaaaay better.

All I did was make a joke that had nothing to do with you and now you have to go off and hurt my feelings.

 

[McBainXVII]

im agreeing with the whole take her to the gym with you thing, say you want to spend more time with her or something, everyones a winner.

plifter you are a goose

 

[Bikini Mod]

All I did was make a joke that had nothing to do with you and now you have to go off and hurt my feelings.

Dude - that joke had EVERYTHING to do with me....not personally, but as a female and former fat chick......yes, you read it correctly - FAT CHICK.

Forgive me if I take offense when I hear men down women. I'll be THE FIRST to admit that there are MANY, MANY females out there that make me ashamed to also be a girl. But as a woman who USED to down herself at every turn just to try and please others I feel that there are times when I need to step up to the plate and defend those that do not or WILL NOT defend themselves.

The joke you made WAS NOT FUNNY.

When was the last time ANY OF YOU read me ripping ANYONE a new asshole UNLESS THEY ASKED FOR IT?

I know that you are kidding when you say I hurt your feelings. If I did, I apologize - that WAS NOT my intent. I only thought that you needed a reality check, that is all.....again ONLY MY OPINION -which means ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. But because it is mine, I am allowed to express it.

I have read MANY OF YOUR POSTS Plifter and I think you are an odd sort of fellow. I mean, you have posted MANY pics of yourself that do NOT portray you in a flattering light. Then when people who are ballsy enough to express what the general consensus is thinking but are TOO POLITE to say OUT LOUD you get into a flame fest with some of the more, shall we say fearlessly witty board members. Finally, you go and PM the mods with some RIDICULOUS POPPYCOCK about somebody calling and threatening you. Come on, dude......what is up with that?

HELLO!!! Don't you think with all the BS going on in the world that we have greater concerns than to worry about your silly stories and what WE are going to do about the shit that you bring on yourself?

Guy - GET A LIFE.....

PS - Do all that are within eyeshot of you A FAVOR and DO NOT EVEN ENTERTAIN THE IDEA of dressing as a Chippendale's for Halloween......unless, of course, that is your idea of humor. Which is cool. I mean, I am still nearly pee-ing myself looking at the little dancing pics of Chris Farley! Somehow, though you do NOT strike me as the HUMOROUS TYPE.

I have to go get a pedicure now......Ciao Bella.

 

[plifter]

plifter you are a goose

Nobody calls me a goose damn it! I'm a duck for god's sake!

 

[plifter]

Man, what the fuck...I'm sick of this treading lightly around the fat issue bullshit. Just say, "Bitch, you're fucking fat, lose it or hit the fuckin' door."

If she just needs to tone up a bit, just say, "Honey, look, I know you enjoy my body and my being in shape, well, it is very important to me to have the same..."

Hey bikini bitch why didn't you have any complaints about this?

 

[polarpixie]

Why is it that the guys who have THE CRAPPIEST PHYSIQUES are the ones to down a chick?!

MadB - You know I love you baby and I understand your question. The truth of the matter is that no matter WHAT YOU WANT for your girl - if SHE DOES NOT WANT IT......IT AIN'T HAPPENING!!!! On top of that, if you have a "problem" (not calling you a schmuck - I think that you were just being honest) with the way she looks now.....what will you do in time when the color starts to leave her cheeks, fine lines start to show and her breasts head south?

GO BIKINIMOM!!!!!

Plifter -- I could tell you wer just joshing -- but you obviously just hit a really bad nerve with BikiniMom -- completely immature of you to call her names -- just suck it up and move on duckie!!!

 

[djane]

maybe if she does get in shape like you want her to, she'll find better self-esteem and realise that she doens't need to be with someone who can't accept her for who she is. you'd better watch out for that.