The I don't know what to do thread

[MasterMind]

OK......some of you may remember a while back I posted a thread about a girl I've been friends with for quite some time telling me she loved me.....well I told her whatsup...as nicely as I could and she just broke down and started crying on me....almost made me cry.....now she won't accept my calls or anything....I can't just let her be there and be sad.....I just want to know if anyone has any advice about what to say when she finally does accept my call or if I go over there and force her to talk to me about it

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Has the Canadian Oak taught you nothing?

Kill her.

 

[MasterMind]

LOL.....well I expected SG to come with something but that was quick.......anyways...anyone have some real advice for me...no offense of course SG ......thanks for the laugh

 

[PHATchik]

Has the Canadian Oak taught you nothing?

Kill her.

SG, you always say just the right thing to brighten my day.

 

[JohnnyO]

Did you do anything to lead her on???

 

[satanic goatslayer]

When you realize that your life is empty, having not followed the advice put before you, then - and only then - will I be content.

 

[PHATchik]

MM, I can kind of understand where she is coming from. I fell for a very good friend of mine last year. I had a lot of stuff to deal with where he was concerned. One of the things that helped me was just taking time away from him. I needed time to deal with my feelings and what would happen to us. Maybe that's what she needs too. Now he and I are back to normal. We kind of had a few problems last year. Give her time. She'll come back when she is ready.

 

[MasterMind]

Did you do anything to lead her on???

Nope...never.....no touching no little glances at certain areas.....when she came at me with the we should be together speech it took me totally by surprise......kinda stunned me.....I really don't think I handled that right....I just kinda stood there and stared at her...I had no idea what to say

 

[Virtual Acid]

I'm sorry....

This is all my fault

 

[OMEGA]

you might want to go over there, and talk to her.

put your arm around her, and explain the way you feel, if she is that imporatant to you.

you never have to apologize for explaining your feelings with clarity.

I went through the same experience last year with a girl at my University, I was not very clear in explaining to her the way I felt.(that i did not love her).....and she was not sure how to handle it. so the suffering and she went through was a prolonged experience of not knowing how I felt about her

I should have nipped it in the bud so to speak.



you never have to apologize for being clear about your feelings.

in the short run she might resent you, but as she ages she will probably appreciate that you were honest with her.

 

[MasterMind]

Re: I'm sorry....

This is all my fault

Bah don't say that.....why would it be your fault...even if I never met you I would still have turned her down....she is not my type...it would never work out...while as you...are perfectly my type

 

[Virtual Acid]

Re: Re: I'm sorry....

Bah don't say that.....why would it be your fault...even if I never met you I would still have turned her down....she is not my type...it would never work out...while as you...are perfectly my type

Yeah but.....but... I still feel so shitty.. i mean you never know... So far cuz of me your friend cant love you.. and you fought with that guy... Face it i just cause trouble Yeah as u can prolly see, im in bit ova sad mood..

 

[MasterMind]

Hey the guy deserved it......he called you a bitch for no reason.....of course I really wanted to kick his ass anyways...it was the perfect excuse...and if anyone causes trouble its me

 

[Virtual Acid]

....

Sighs, If you say so...

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Jesus Christ.

Kill the fucking bitch already.

 

[the People's Champ]

Jesus Christ.

Kill the fucking bitch already.

ain't dead yet? wtf?!

 

[Austin316]

OK......some of you may remember a while back I posted a thread about a girl I've been friends with for quite some time telling me she loved me.....well I told her whatsup...as nicely as I could and she just broke down and started crying on me....almost made me cry.....now she won't accept my calls or anything....I can't just let her be there and be sad.....I just want to know if anyone has any advice about what to say when she finally does accept my call or if I go over there and force her to talk to me about it

falling for friends absolutley sux, especially when taken, its happened to me but I said nothing cause for one Id never break anyone up, I just distanced myself and time cures it. SHe'll be fine, your not at fault