what is it that is so wrong with that. I think thats part of whats wrong with the world today. Couples dont know how to be courteous to each other anymore. We all work, we're all tired, but that doesnt release you from being kind to the person you love. And your a fool to think a household is 50/50. Its more like 51/49. There always has to be a leader. If your wife is the leader so be it, its still 51/49. I think a lot of whats in that is common fucking courtesy. Who wants to come home to someone whos loud, bitchy, whiney, complainy, dirty home, dirty kids, etc etc. The key thing her is, it goes both ways. If you happen to be off one day, and your wife is at work... then you should do the same for her. Nothing wrong with that.