duritz - when you meet womens you got to come out and make your postion clear. When I meet womens I say it to them straight: ITS EITHER BJ OR THE HIGHWAY.
Thats they way, when you say that to them either they will tell you to get lost if they are virgin-next-door types or agree to BJ. Also I dont except any of this no-cum-in-mouth BS. Man if a girl want to give me BJ she better be grateful for my jungle-juice thats the way I look at it for sure.