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The ex reappears

slat1

slat1

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My ex that I broke up with over month ago after a fight just signed on IM. Its the first time I have seen her online since then.
My stomach it tossing and turning. Why this girl has this effect on me I will never know.
The irony is that this morning I was thinking it was time to delete her contact info.
I have no idea what is going on. If she contacts me I will be all screwed up...
Women!!!
 
delete it then. what difference if youve seen her or not? you made your choice then, and another is in the air now - do you want to talk to her, or not?

oh and the guys just PMed me asking me to ask you to post pics. you know how it is ;)
 
GoldenDelicious said:
delete it then. what difference if youve seen her or not? you made your choice then, and another is in the air now - do you want to talk to her, or not?

oh and the guys just PMed me asking me to ask you to post pics. you know how it is ;)
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I would love to. The only ones I have are her modeling pictures which are copyrighted. She would sue the shit out of me if I put them up.
 
nycgirl said:
If you can't do that, then you are not ready to move on to someone new.
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It will take years of therapy for me to explain my relationship with her. Talk about highs and lows.
Maybe I will IM her a picture of me flipping her off and then block her...
 
slat1 said:
It will take years of therapy for me to explain my relationship with her. Talk about highs and lows.
Maybe I will IM her a picture of me flipping her off and then block her...
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Don't do that.

The best thing to do if you can handle it....Is to act like you don't give a fuck. If she contacts you say "Oh hi. I've been very busy. Gotta go" (or something like that) That will piss her off more if she thinks you don't give a fuck, than cussing or blocking.

But, if you can't handle it...just block her.
 
slat1 said:
It will take years of therapy for me to explain my relationship with her. Talk about highs and lows.
Maybe I will IM her a picture of me flipping her off and then block her...
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Oh, I definitely understand. I've been there.

No, don't do that. Just block her.
 
Okay... she signed off.
Her game used to be signing on and not saying anything.. waiting for me to do it. I know she saw I was signed on. I am by far the greatest thing that has ever happened to her. She told me she only new what being happy was after meeting me.
She can play her games. What ever. She fucked up. She knows it.. will never admit it.
No more mister nice guy. I'm not listening to any more shit from her. Lies, lies, lies, lies, lies.
I will stick with what I have...
Then again... there may be an issue there. Thats a story for another day...
 
she just wants to mess with you
Dotn fall for it and IM her because thats what she wants
obviously shes had you blocked for ages....and just now unblocked you to see what you would do
 
SoKlueles said:
she just wants to mess with you
Dotn fall for it and IM her because thats what she wants
obviously shes had you blocked for ages....and just now unblocked you to see what you would do
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jus like yo got that ass blocked for Hammy...
 
SoKlueles said:
she just wants to mess with you
Dotn fall for it and IM her because thats what she wants
obviously shes had you blocked for ages....and just now unblocked you to see what you would do
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I bet your right. I have no idea how the whole block thing works though.
The whole scenario is taking a familiar shape...
 
I am just going to sit back and do my thing.
I think Klu is right. She probably blocked me after the fight.
What that means is she had to unblock me for me to see her online. So she made a conscious decision to unblock me. So she spent time thinking about me.
I will handle it like an adult if she does contact me. I am not going to handle her with kid gloves anymore though.
I am going about my life as normal...
 
dude. slat i sware i was going to make a similar post.

a few weeks ago my ex's name vanished from my buddy list. she was ALWAYS online even if she wasnt there.

then bam. gone.

i sign onto my other account and i see her name online. im like wtf? she blocked me? i was kinda pissy as to why but i moved on.

then last night i get an email saying that she has been thinking of me lately and that she wants to know why i am blocking her on aol b/c when she signed onto a different name of hers she seen me online but not on her main one.

this email from last night totally fucked my head up. i hate this shit. i feel you dude.

i dont know where i wanna go with this.
 
If you care about someone they can totally take advantage of you.
I feel you there.
I never gave a shit about anyone before this girl. I was happy banging the shit out of every stripper/model/porn actress that came along. All it was about was getting ass and having fun.
Then I meet this girl and I start to rethink my purpose in life... LOL.
WHAT EVER...
I'm letting her go. Its going to be a long process but a needed one!
 
slat1 said:
I am just going to sit back and do my thing.
I think Klu is right. She probably blocked me after the fight.
What that means is she had to unblock me for me to see her online. So she made a conscious decision to unblock me. So she spent time thinking about me.
I will handle it like an adult if she does contact me. I am not going to handle her with kid gloves anymore though.
I am going about my life as normal...
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dont think about it as she spent time thinking about you. She probably did, but shes moved on but shes trying to mess with your head
what you SHOULD do, and im not saying I would do it cuz its easier said than done...
You SHOULD block her on IM and let her see that you have signed out
Its kinda like having the last word
 
I can't believe you all let these women do this to you! Either stop being so sensetive or check your ego. Your "best thing ever to happen to her" statement has brused ego written all over it. Block her and show her you don't give a shit. If she's a model she's probably had her ass kissed her whole life, so don't be another ass kisser.
 
Raina said:
Is it THE ex? Ironic timing.
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Those people always now when to pop back into your life when things start going good with another EX's always come back knocking. Slat sugar delete her from your contact list you got a better thing with this new girl going.
 
slat1 said:
I would love to. The only ones I have are her modeling pictures which are copyrighted. She would sue the shit out of me if I put them up.
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As a model wouldn't she have her own website....?If so post it up :)
 
Mr. Black said:
As a model wouldn't she have her own website....?If so post it up :)
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She doesn't. She is very private. She has stalkers. She was attacked by one in April. Another was arrested a few months before that. The guy that broke into her house thinks he is a vampire slayer. He has been killing people he thinks are vampires. It was on the news.

I'm moving on. Now I am dealing with another issue with my new one.

Watch out for my new thread.. LOL
 
slat1 said:
Okay... she signed off.
Her game used to be signing on and not saying anything.. waiting for me to do it. I know she saw I was signed on. I am by far the greatest thing that has ever happened to her. She told me she only new what being happy was after meeting me.
She can play her games. What ever. She fucked up. She knows it.. will never admit it.
No more mister nice guy. I'm not listening to any more shit from her. Lies, lies, lies, lies, lies.
I will stick with what I have...
Then again... there may be an issue there. Thats a story for another day...
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You dating my ex? Or her evil twin sister?
 
nycgirl said:
Already? How long have you been dating her?
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A week. She wants to come see me at the shithole I work at.
I told her I can't talk to her because I work in the hot zones (where the fights are all the time).
She said she will just dance. I told her not to be surprised if she got felt up. She said she didn't care.
She also said not to get mad if she danced with guys.
Here is my issue. This place has no class nor do the people that go there.
I don't want to see a girl I am dating grinding with some low life... discusting.
I also want a girl I date to be irate if anyone other than me touches her...
I have a feeling if she shows up I will equate her with no class and it will be over.
I am going to have a talk with her before I go to work.
I already said I would never date a person I saw in that club!
 
slat1 said:
A week. She wants to come see me at the shithole I work at.
I told her I can't talk to her because I work in the hot zones (where the fights are all the time).
She said she will just dance. I told her not to be surprised if she got felt up. She said she didn't care.
She also said not to get mad if she danced with guys.
Here is my issue. This place has no class nor do the people that go there.
I don't want to see a girl I am dating grinding with some low life... discusting.
I also want a girl I date to be irate if anyone other than me touches her...
I have a feeling if she shows up I will equate her with no class and it will be over.
I am going to have a talk with her before I go to work.
I already said I would never date a person I saw in that club!
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I understand. When I'm with someone, if another man touches me in a sexual/flirting kind of a way, I get upset, uncomfortable and nauseous.

Is she younger than you?
 
nycgirl said:
I understand. When I'm with someone, if another man touches me in a sexual/flirting kind of a way, I get upset, uncomfortable and nauseous.

Is she younger than you?
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27
 
slat1 said:
A week. She wants to come see me at the shithole I work at.
I told her I can't talk to her because I work in the hot zones (where the fights are all the time).
She said she will just dance. I told her not to be surprised if she got felt up. She said she didn't care.
She also said not to get mad if she danced with guys.
Here is my issue. This place has no class nor do the people that go there.
I don't want to see a girl I am dating grinding with some low life... discusting.
I also want a girl I date to be irate if anyone other than me touches her...
I have a feeling if she shows up I will equate her with no class and it will be over.
I am going to have a talk with her before I go to work.
I already said I would never date a person I saw in that club!
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Just got thru with one and now moved on to another. Are you a glutton for punishment? Step back and get a little air. Don't worry "dating". Just do the casual sex thing for a long while.
 
rudeboyja said:
Just got thru with one and now moved on to another. Are you a glutton for punishment? Step back and get a little air. Don't worry "dating". Just do the casual sex thing for a long while.
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I did the casual sex thing for the last 17 years.. LOL.
 
slat1 said:
I did the casual sex thing for the last 17 years.. LOL.
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I'm 32 and have been going for about that long. & isn't it better than having a girlfriend? shoot for another 17 years... You won't have to worry about the drama..LOL
 
nycgirl said:
If you can't do that, then you are not ready to move on to someone new.
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I'll second that, dude. The little pain and discomfort that you go through by deleting her info now, will save you more pain later.

Zig
 
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