Anyone who forgets or does NOT believe for ONE SECOND that these boards are "watched" by DEA or exhusbands... WHATEVER is either A) deulusional B) mentally deficient.
If I tell you that when I went to court (just one of a string of times that my ex and I have been and I am sure will NOT be the last, sadly) his lawyer submitted a BINDER as thick as The Bible on 8 1/2 x 11" sheets I am NOT exaggerating! I am sure that he printed out EVERY single post of mine with ANY adult language, content, whatever... but I AM SURE he negated ANYTHING that had ANY redeeming NON ADULT, NON CONTROVERSIAL verbage. So I printed out my own little book of posts.
In the end the judge got EXTREMELY annoyed with my ex's lawyer. He asked her point blank, "Is there ANYTHING in here that will change my ruling.... AT ALL?!" AT first she tried to interject, "But it is evidence supporting..." The judge cut her off, "IS THERE ANYTHING IN HERE AT ALL THAT WILL CHANGE THE WAY I RULE?!" Of course, her answer was FLAT OUT, "no."
Conversely, it wasn't too long ago that DYFUS actually showed up at the home of one of the mods because some stupid pimply-faced internet ASSHOLE with too much time on his hands MADE A RIDICULOUS ALLEGATION that she sexually molested her son...
So, guess what? Though this is cyberspace and there is some sense of anonymity. Anyone with even A LITTLE BIT of internet savvy CAN FIND YOU.
If you do NOT want REAL TROUBLE then USE YOUR HEAD BEFORE YOU USE YOUR FINGERS!
If I had A DIME for everytime one of my ex's friends tried to bate me with THE MOST RIDICULOUS BULLSHIT I would have been able to thumb my nose at him a long time ago.....
If I had A DIME for everytime some pimply faced internet ASSHOLE with too much time on his hands thought that it was funny to try and "fuck" with me, I would have been able to thumb my nose at my ex a long time ago.....
Will I thumb my nose at my ex EVENTUALLY?!... JUST WATCH ME.
Bottom line people, try and THINK BEFORE YOU TYPE and though this is "only the internet" it has been said that the pen is mightier than the sword....