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stilleto

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do you have a bad one?
most of you know, i joke around a lot. and i'm usually in a pretty good mood- even my bad moods are somewhat controlled. i try to stay even toned, but i obviously get serious when i'm annoyed or mad. It takes a lot to get me FURIOUS, and when i am, take cover, cause it means i've been personally pushed, threatened, or someone dear to me has been hurt and i've totally lost it.
 
stilleto is lying his ass off, that bor is borderline irrational and will flip out if someone even moves his chair while he is up.
 
I'm super cool 99% of time but the one time you break me, I'll break you.
Short lift of things I've done when I couldn't take it anymore:

-punched through a solid wood door
-punched a dude till he was unconcious. he had to get 40 stiches to his face at the hospital. I was arrested for aggravated assault and battery.
-wresling a guy at practice 20lbs heavier than me. kept on picking on my freshman ass and I couldn't take it so double legged him, picked him up and slammed him so hard he had the wind knocked out of him, then I pinned him.
-told a customer at work I would kill him if her ever talked to me like that again. then I beat him up outside. Wasn't a serious fight but I got fired and the cops were called. No charged pressed because I was 16 and he was in his 40s. I think he was too embassed to admit he got beat up by a high school kid.

Only times I can think of that I just snapped.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
stilleto is lying his ass off, that bor is borderline irrational and will flip out if someone even moves his chair while he is up.

i only flip out if they move it while i'm about to sit down in it. :(
 
well lets see

Don't get in my face, don't mess with my family, I don't care to sit there and argue over and over again for the same ol shit. Don't whine, then do nothing about it.

the list goes on.

Pretty much I try hard to keep my cool, but I admit I am a hot head and jump quick when it comes to confrontations. I'm ALOT better now that I have a family and responsibilities but I still lose my cool
 
A while ago I met the father of my mates girlfriend, a wisened old Thai man from the poor north east. He didn't have two pennys to rub together nor did he speak any English but through his daughter I was told that he was a palm reader and that he read plams in the villages for food. Never having had my palm read before I asked him if he would read mine. After a few minutes of looking at my hand he told me that I had a violent temper and that it had gotten me into trouble in the past and that it would get me into trouble again soon. I thanked him and forgot about it. A week later I had to leave town for a few days after I ended up thumping a guy who threatened me with a hammer (broke a bone in my hand in the process), turns out this guy has worked for the army general for 20 years, worker ends up in hospital, general does his nut, demands money or he'll put me away, cost me $1000 for a get out of jail card. Wooooooosaaaaaaaahhhhhh.
 
stilleto said:
do you have a bad one?
most of you know, i joke around a lot. and i'm usually in a pretty good mood- even my bad moods are somewhat controlled. i try to stay even toned, but i obviously get serious when i'm annoyed or mad. It takes a lot to get me FURIOUS, and when i am, take cover, cause it means i've been personally pushed, threatened, or someone dear to me has been hurt and i've totally lost it.


Long fuse, but explosive temper when pushed.



Usually when someone mistakes my kindness for weakness
 
The Shadow said:
Long fuse, but explosive temper when pushed.



Usually when someone mistakes my kindness for weakness


shut up, tubby.








i'm sorry.





i'm the same- long fuse. sometimes too long, but when i explode, i do it well. i'm pretty good at calming down quickly though cause i hate being mad.
 
Extremely bad temper, thanks to Pops. Typical Italian temper. It is probably the biggest characteristic I have worked on in the last 10 years or so. It was tough to handle when I was a little younger cause hell, we are all a little effed in the head as young adults. My main issue with it was that I always acted on my anger in very childish ways (punching inanimate objects for the most part). My entire senior year at college I had busted knuckles cause every damn weekend I would end up punching things - lots of holes in my bedroom walls. I grew up around that type of behavior, watching pops break objects every day, slam doors, smash mirrors, punch holes in walls, and throw endless amounts of objects at me.

I still get that urge now, almost daily, but have learned to control it for the most part. I worry about how it would affect my work and my reputation at work. I have this quote printed out and hanging on my desk wall:

"Power's crucial foundation is the ability to master your emotions. An emotional response to a situation is the single greatest barrier to power, a mistake that will cost you a lot more than any temporary satisfaction you might gain by expressing your feelings. Emotions cloud reason, and if you cannot see the situation clearly, you cannot respond to it with an degree of self control"
 
The Shadow said:
Long fuse, but explosive temper when pushed.



Usually when someone mistakes my kindness for weakness

Well, If I ever really piss you off I'll just throw some oreo's and a snickers bar your way ;)
 
I don't like when people slight me to try and build themselves up. I also don't like when guys manhandle women.
I am good at controlling my temper. I know what I am doing the whole time. That may be the scariest part of the whole thing.
 
stilleto said:
do you have a bad one?
most of you know, i joke around a lot. and i'm usually in a pretty good mood- even my bad moods are somewhat controlled. i try to stay even toned, but i obviously get serious when i'm annoyed or mad. It takes a lot to get me FURIOUS, and when i am, take cover, cause it means i've been personally pushed, threatened, or someone dear to me has been hurt and i've totally lost it.


sounds like me bro.... lol
 
I think it used to be worse than it is now but I have to restain myself because my first thought is to break things. I have a hell of a time not getting right up in people's faces too. That is a BAD combo when you're with another person with the same kind of temper. It's why I can take some responsibility for some of the times in my life I've been hit.

I'm really working on this though. Trying to take the high road instead of just throwing a remote through the wall.
 
I am very confrontational, but rarely tempermental. If I have a problem with someone I instantly step to them and tell them about it. It's the way I'm wired and I have a very hard time changing that tendancy. Doesnt matter if its cops, or huge guys, or bosses at work.
 
RottenWillow said:
I am very confrontational, but rarely tempermental. If I have a problem with someone I instantly step to them and tell them about it. It's the way I'm wired and I have a very hard time changing that tendancy. Doesnt matter if its cops, or huge guys, or bosses at work.
same. if anything, when im in a bad mood, i withdraw from the people around me until i level out. taking your temper out on people isnt a nice thing to do, and can wreck relationships

my responses are graded, and proportional to whats going on. they can be severe, though, which can be a problem when you get guys thinking that youre decision not to do something (flatten them) is a sign of weakness, and keep pushing, and pushing, and pushing...until they commit a boppable offense, and, well...get bopped
 
The only place I am extremely hostile is while driving.

I will not hesitate to look you in the face and tell you that you are a failure at driving and that I will kill you.

Other than that I am mellow. People from southern california generally are...I even sound like I'm stoned 80% of the time.
 
I used to have a terrible temper. Especially early in the mornings........all of my co workers know not to ask me any stupid questions when i first get to work. I'm sure most of them think i'm an asshole. They won't say much but i don't think its respect, just fear that they will have a confrontation with the asshole..

Mt temper is alot better since i got on the Wellbutrin,and i also feel alot better.

P.S Fuck you
 
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