And I've been there girlfriend ... 

LMAO at robocop 
 
ANYTIME T-Cake ... You kinda have to experience it for yourself, go thru the self realization process, hear what others have to say, and it's not that you don't appreciate what those people are telling you (the ones right in front of you with a big heart & never the one to say "I told ya so" in a rude fashion, just let you learn for yourself after showing you the way, offering you guidance ... you know the type 

 ) SO, YES, outside clarification is often needed & necessary ... ya know? I hope that makes sense 
 
Happy Hump Day... 
Take it easy on the guy will ya?! No more handcuffs  He dang near ripper his arm off
 He dang near ripper his arm off   
I'm so dead....