Swinging...

[EnderJE]

...are you open to the idea or completely against it. Why?

 

[Cutiebaby]

AGAINST.....my man is mine damn it...if i wanted to share i would not have made him mine......

 

[awittyusername]

Maybe you should join a church that allows swinging?

 

[mrplunkey]

Her with another guy... definately against.

Me with her with another woman... sure! But we'd both have to be bought-into the deal. Simple rules, like a *completely* clear understanding where our love and loyalties are, would have to be in effect. No one-on-one time either -- for either of us.

 

[EnderJE]

AGAINST.....my man is mine damn it...if i wanted to share i would not have made him mine......

But there's a difference between sex and love.

 

[EnderJE]

Maybe you should join a church that allows swinging?

I'm with Our Lady with her knickers down.

 

[EnderJE]

Her with another guy... definately against.

Me with her with another woman... sure! But we'd both have to be bought-into the deal. Simple rules, like a *completely* clear understanding where our love and loyalties are, would have to be in effect. No one-on-one time either -- for either of us.

If you get a double, then shouldn't she?

 

[deco]

no

 

[mrplunkey]

If you get a double, then shouldn't she?

Nope

 

[Gymgurl]

I say against...wrecks marriages I think

 

[Cutiebaby]

But there's a difference between sex and love.

same thing....sex in my marriage is not all about a 1 night stand or just screwing to get off.........sex is the expression of love, the binding of TWO people prefferably husband and wife........

 

[Gymgurl]

Maybe you should join a church that allows swinging?

Are you saying you swing?

 

[EnderJE]

Nope

A double standard, don't you think?

 

[EnderJE]

Are you saying you swing?

Me or witty?

 

[EnderJE]

same thing....sex in my marriage is not all about a 1 night stand or just screwing to get off.........sex is the expression of love, the binding of TWO people prefferably husband and wife........

different...activity vs feeling...

 

[foreigngirl]

AGAINST.....my man is mine damn it...if i wanted to share i would not have made him mine......

aye. Exactly how I feel

 

[Cutiebaby]

different...activity vs feeling...

IMO u cannot have sex with out having some sort of emotion..there for the only person that i want to share my emotion with is my husband

 

[Gymgurl]

Witty

 

[EnderJE]

IMO u cannot have sex with out having some sort of emotion..there for the only person that i want to share my emotion with is my husband

When what about hookers? Or porn stars?

 

[foreigngirl]

to end this nonsense - it depends on the person. Some people can, some cant have sex without love

 

[the-short-one]

i'm a little fuzzy on the whole swinger thing...

is that when you swap partners, or do you get together with another couple and all do it together?

 

[EnderJE]

to end this nonsense - it depends on the person. Some people can, some cant have sex without love

Yeah, but I still don't get the choice. Then again, I don't understand why people drink tea either.

 

[EnderJE]

i'm a little fuzzy on the whole swinger thing...

is that when you swap partners, or do you get together with another couple and all do it together?

Either or.

Think of it this way...you'd get laid more often. Maybe even 4 and 1/3!

 

[Cutiebaby]

When what about hookers? Or porn stars?

what about them???? how about they get paid money for sex, obviously they will do it.....some people do swing...i for one will never do it.it is the one thing that me and my husband share together....obviously we share money,home,car,kids,food,etc! but i could share all that with my sister,friend,roomate, whom ever....being in a close intimate relationship is IMO one on one......the one thing that we do share with our hearts involved.

 

[foxxie]

Swingers are basically people who have problem with their insecurity so they feel the need to other people wanting them and giving them attention beside their partner. Much more like Cheating.

Swingers is like the definiton of cheating, friends with benefit, threesome+,one night stand etc.


I am NOT into cheating, one night stand, friends with benefit, threesome+ and foremost swingers. Never done it and never would have. Again Dont be in a relationship if your just going to cheat with your partner at the first place.

 

[deco]

fuck double standard. It's there, I ain't no hippy to pretend the world is perfect. Theres no way to achieve equality even if you number people and make them look all the same.

 

[mrplunkey]

If a woman enjoys playing with another woman, but wants to commit herself to a man, then a F-M-F think makes complete sense. It also teases the guy's "spread your seed" instinct, so it kinda all works out.

I personally would never have any interest in watching/hearing/finding-out that my SO had sex with another man. Nor would I be interested in playing with a guy.

I wouldn't, however, try to force a F-M-F encounter. Unless my SO was all over wanting to do it, I wouldn't bother bringing it up.

 

[EnderJE]

Swingers are basically people who have problem with their insecurity so they feel the need to other people wanting them and giving them attention beside their partner.

Great generalizations...

 

[Devastation]

i don't see anything wrong with it if both partners feel comfortable

 

[shoestring]

what about them???? how about they get paid money for sex, obviously they will do it.....some people do swing...i for one will never do it.it is the one thing that me and my husband share together....obviously we share money,home,car,kids,food,etc! but i could share all that with my sister,friend,roomate, whom ever....being in a close intimate relationship is IMO one on one......the one thing that we do share with our hearts involved.

Good wife!

 

[Eye34]

Try it, you might like it!

 

[delete]

Try it, you might like it!

been there/done that/loved it/want to do it again!