Suicide has now become a viable option...

[Citruscide]

Ok, I went back and read alot of the other comments up there... they are the level headed and encouraging options... to help a person... to be supportive...

I wanted it to be known, that my above statement isn't a flame, but tough love. Telling someone it can't get any worse will get the respone "yes it can"... but when you give a story or two of situations that are 1000xs worse than theirs... it acts as a slap in the face..

I stand by my statement.

C

 

[grlpwrd]

Please see a dr. especially if you're taking something that is affecting you emotionally. You may also need to get a prescription to get you emotionally/physiologically balanced. Just think... this is a chance you need to take to make your life better. Think ahead - not what you feel like now.

I'm the happiest person now, but I wasn't always that way. I was miserable when I was a teenager - I was a wallflower plus dealing with bad skin and low esteem and I was taking accutane which made me feel suicidal. Suicide is never an option. It really does get better. You first need to see a dr. I am not qualified to deal with suicidal tendencies, but I do know the first step is to seek professional help. It's a sign of strength!


One last thing..suicidal is the most selfish thing you can do. Even if you're not a religious person you're leaving behind all your loved ones - family and friends. They will suffer more than you will ever know. Suicide is not the answer.. for if you are successful you will give them eternal pain.

You posted here which to me is a sign that you are seeking help. That's a step in the right direction.. I am so tired right now because it's almost 2am here, but I had to respond to your post. Now you owe me! Just kidding! Please..go get some professional help.

Prayers and hugs from me to you...

 

[Advaik]

I think I will go see a phsychiatrist. This has been an ongoing thing, nothing in my life seems to be going right, but it's only recently that I have been considering suicide. It seems like the people I love are the ones I want revenge against, and the best revenge is to kill myself.

And maybe a phsyciatrist can give me some Xanax or something so I wont be so shy in public, that would be nice

 

[grlpwrd]

I think I will go see a phsychiatrist. This has been an ongoing thing, nothing in my life seems to be going right, but it's only recently that I have been considering suicide. It seems like the people I love are the ones I want revenge against, and the best revenge is to kill myself.

And maybe a phsyciatrist can give me some Xanax or something so I wont be so shy in public, that would be nice

I'm glad to hear you're going to take that step of getting help. I can talk to you until I'm blue in the face about how suicide is not a successful way to get revenge..it really isn't. Happiness is always the best revenge.

After you get hooked up with the psychiatrist and get what you need I expect a full report on how you're doing, okay? You take care!

 

[Puc]

Are you on gear? Or taking clomids? If you honestly feel *that* bad, then go to the docs... just don't let them prescribe you some SSRI or something... Talking helps.

darkdumbass... i stopped flaming you awhile back because i realized it is your right to be stupid. this statement, however, is ludicrous, and liable to get adv killed.

if he is clinically depressed, or just naturally suicidal, there is NOTHING wrong with medication. would you rather have him on "some ssri" or in a coffin?

retard.

 

[sereneman]

I hope I can help. I don't know how old you are. I'm 37 and there have been many times in my life when i just wished that I could get it over with. I think for me, fear is a big part of it. Like what you said, fear that things are only going to get worse. I've seen a lot of bad shit in my life. Others have had it far worse. We all have a different sensitivity level. I have laid down at night and prayed to God that if he exists to just take me home, I'm tired of this place. I've seen all the misery I care to see. Then there are days when I'm so thankful to be alive. The cloud lifts and the sun comes shining through. A good friend of the family committed suicide a few years ago. He was only 29. The pain that he caused for those left behind was enormous. Myself, I don't hold it against him. But there had to be a better way. Just get help. You may get so low that you think nothing will help. But that is not true. Let others shoulder your burden with you. People really do care.

 

[paradox]

People who are suicidal are lacking seratoin uptake in the brain. Go to your doctor or even a emergency room & go get on the right medications.
*God didn't give you life & put you here so you could kill yourself.


If you need someone to vent to, feel free to PM me anytime.

 

[aurelius]

I have reached a new low in my life, I no longer fear death and suicide has become a reality to me. That is all

Read some great literature or poetry. Seriously...

 

[Lao Tzu]

I have reached a new low in my life, I no longer fear death and suicide has become a reality to me. That is all

You wont do it though, trust me. I've had an odd life, and in that life i've met some of the most suicidal people you can imagine (we made memorials and honoriums to our friends who managed to create the will to do themselves in), and talking about it is a far cry from doing it.

Seriously, you need to solve your problems. It isn't so much that suicide 'isn't' an option, it just isn't a realistic option. You'll never get the nerve to go through with it, you will always back down at the last minute. If you fix your problems, that will offer better solutions than pipe dreams like suicide.

Thinking suicide will solve your problems is like thinking winning the lottery will solve your money problems. It probably will, but it will never happen. You'd be a million times better off fixing what is wrong than going for a long shot.

 

[buddy28]

I think I will go see a phsychiatrist. This has been an ongoing thing, nothing in my life seems to be going right, but it's only recently that I have been considering suicide. It seems like the people I love are the ones I want revenge against, and the best revenge is to kill myself.

And maybe a phsyciatrist can give me some Xanax or something so I wont be so shy in public, that would be nice

ADviak,

Sounds like depression. The overwhelming majority of cases of depression are caused primarly by ones enviroment......meaning, if you adopt the correct 'cognitive tools', learn how to treat yourself well, and make use of healthy support group, its highly likely youll improve.

Takes time and persistence. Buy a self help book called "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy" by Dr David Burns. Itll be available at any medium sized book store.

The book outlines the cognitive strategies you can start working on today, which will help stablize and slowly improve ur overall mood and selfesteem.

And by all means, see a mental health professional. Psychatrist or psychologist. U need to take a multifaceted approach to overcoming ur depression.....assuming ur official diagnosis is clinical depression. Exercise, talk to friends, begin a medication treatment regimin under the guidance of a trained psychologist or psychatrist, start working on changing your predominately negative thoughts using cognitive stratigies outlined in the book noted above, find distractions to keep urself from dwelling on negative thoughts.

Good luck and keep us informed.