After reviewing the past threads as someone suggested, I can see how this went wrong.
Advice to aas contemplaters, do months of research on your own. 20 hours per week. use the search function. Know what you're getting into. Then when you ask questions you'll understand the reasoning behind people's responses and advice. No offense to the op, he is stopping for his own reasons, but I've cringed at some of the threads leading up to this. Typical "you don't know what you don't know" scenario.
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