Still see her after she gets back with ex?

[twinturbo]

Need some advice- met this new chick at work about 6 weeks ago, totally hit it off and all through this she was in a bad relationship.....he broke it off with her about 4 weeks ago, and we have been seeing each other ever since every night.....I know I started out as a rebound but I believe it's become more, she doenst see any of her guy friends now but me...so last week her BF comes back crying to her and missing her...she tells me shes confused and thinks she will get back with him on their date next Sat.

the whole thing is, she still wants to see me if she does get back, still wants to fuck me, and says nothing will really change between us.....I'll admit I'm a little jealous....she tells me I'm the only reason she is not back with him....I'm not sure if she really will get back with him, she says she doesnt want to lose me, and turned him down this weekend to be with me.....

should I still see her if she does get back? or should I tell her to fuck off like I am telling her right now what will happen.....Thanks anyone!

 

[Kahn]

toss the truth out and she can make the choice accordingly. If she stays, there is something there for you to build on. If she goes back to crybaby. fuck her, that was her opportunity and it only knocked once. Live hard, play fair.

 

[Taps]

Sounds like a bad situation to me, man. Are you content being #2 in her life? I wouldn't be.

She sounds a little messed up. I'm not sure that's something I'd want to deal with.

Do you really like her, or do you just like fucking her?

 

[KAYNE]

THIS IS A NO BRAINER MAN........CONTINUE TO FUCK HER SINCE SHE WAS THE ONE WHO SUGGESTED IT IN THE FIRST PLACE AND GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. SEE OTHER CHICKS AS WELL JUST KEEP THE OTHER RELATIONSHIP ON THE D.L.

KAYNE

 

[pauly]

Listen to Kayne, he's a genius.

 

[Thaibox]

I would agree with Kayne, but it sounds like you dig her more than that, so you would just end up getting all jacked up sooner or later. Too much damn drama, kick her to the curb.

 

[PinK233]

Umm you know the answer...sounds like she was using you to combat her loneliness after the break up...if you stick around be prepared to get your heart broken...

 

[twinturbo]

I'll admit I dig her a little more than I ever wanted to- I've found alot of things I like about her over the period of time..I wouldnt be happy being 2nd in her life....but then again, I dont want to give up the sex with her...especially when she's totally willing....kinda hard not getting the "feelings" when we get along so well....

 

[Frackal]

Honestly, dude, I think you should call her ex and tell him...fuck that skeazy bitch!

 

[Warik]

Step 1) Agree.
Step 2) Videotape the deed and deposit the tape in ex-boyfriend's (who will then be current-boyfriend's) mailbox labeled "From a friend."
Step 3) Stay away from trashy whore slut bitch unless you want an STD.

Girls like that are worth less than the shit I just took.

-Warik

 

[Milhouse]

Just dump her right now, I am serious.

Then this way you dont get hurt if she starts jerking around and then she breaks it with you.

Plus if you do this you throw her off gaurd, you make her realize you are not going to sit around waiting for her and she will make her goddam decision right there.Trust me you will probably become very attractive to her right away, 50/50 chance at least.
She is playing devils advocate, meaning she thinks she can play both sides of the fence then choose the one after. Either you or her ex is gonna get hurt in this, so go for the throat now.

If you dont trust me you become a pushover.

Made this mistake myself before.

 

[twinturbo]

your right Milhouse- I'm sure alot of the attraction came from being different from all her other guys including her BF, she ALWAYS got her way whatever she wanted...
.and when I came around she finds herself seeing one guy and being happy with it...she says she has more respect for me for sticking up for what I want- not saying "ok baby, sure baby, etc..." well see.....

 

[sysopt]

depends what you're looking for:

1. if you simply wannna fuck, then go ahead and fuck her

2. if you want a more serious relationship, then make her make a choice.

 

[HighIntensity]

BRO im the other guy...so 2 speak


my ex and I broke up after 3 years. We had a bad breakup in the sense that we never really broke up. We were so close, but right now it's long distance...and she needs to find herself.

Any way as a posted, I broke down and called her. I know she's with a knew guy, and we even talked about...weird. She told me that he is the complete oppisite of me, has no idea what he's doing in a relationship. So I told her baby we were majic, we should have tried.

My point is she got into a relationship with this knew dude not out of love or even lust, but to mask the pain of our breakup. I can't imagine how this guy dates her knowing that she still looks at my pictures and letters. I told her to throw it all away, move on if we don't have a future. Women can get very confused a.ka. selfish bro...they want their cake and eat it 2. They miss the old shoe, and want the knew one. Which ever shoes fits best for the time they will wear. Look out for yourself in this one, im on the other side, but both sides can be painful.

 

[casavant]

Sounds like you're too emotionally involved too be satisfied as just having her as a fuck buddy. Also, the fact that she wants to keep seeing you behind her ex's back doesn't say much for her. Also, wouldn't it give you a weird feeling to know she was letting some other dude stick his dick in her?

Fuck this bitch (figuratively) and the horse she rode in on.

Fuck her and feed her fish heads.

 

[Binky]

Fuck her and feed her fish heads.

Pure Genius.

 

[casavant]

Thank you, kind sir. I do try.

 

[MoneyBags]

THIS IS A NO BRAINER MAN........CONTINUE TO FUCK HER SINCE SHE WAS THE ONE WHO SUGGESTED IT IN THE FIRST PLACE AND GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. SEE OTHER CHICKS AS WELL JUST KEEP THE OTHER RELATIONSHIP ON THE D.L.

KAYNE

thats what i would say. go ahead and fuck her but feel free to get with other chicks also.

 

[i2brew]

stick with kayne's suggestion. keep ona boinking her and keep your radar up.

 

[FarBeyondDriven]

Pop a Viagra, grudge fuck the hell outta her for 5 hours, then kick that ho to the curb

 

[twinturbo]

I'll most likely continue fucking her- BUT the only problem I'm having or I know I wont want to deal with- is doing her knowing she was with some other guy just before me......

 

[casavant]

Man, screw that. There's too many fine women out there to play second fiddle to some other dude's schlong. Plus, I'm telling you right now that that situation will not last long. She'll start feeling weird, or you will, or he'll find out.

I'm not trying to flame you, but too many guys think they're some kind of knight in shining armor that will treat a girl so much better than her ex, or her current boyfriend. You didn't specify what made her relationship a bad one. Just remember that no relationship is perfect, and every chick vents to someone about all the faults of their recent ex. That doesn't mean jack. A lot of girls will stick with a guy that treats them like shit anyway.

Also, are you ready to deal with the ramifications when he finds out (which he inevitably will)? You want to catch an ass whipping or a nice fat bullet? Personally, if I find out someone is fucking my girlfriend behind my back, I'm going to beat that motherfucker so bad his momma won't recognize him. That's after I spit a high viscosity wad of throat-hack in her face.

Since you say you are just wanting a fuck buddy, find one with less baggage. Have some respect for yourself. Just my opinion. You're your own dog.

 

[casavant]

bump cause I made a long post and someone has to read it.

 

[twinturbo]

I think you are right- I kind of want my cake & eat it too- I know she is someone that I cant really trust, since she is willing to see me if she gets back with him, would probably do the same to me- but I still want to see her and bone her, but dont want her with anyone else, or any of the drama that comes from a realtionship, especially one with her...

she acutually got dumped by her Ex- she walked all over him, took adavantage of him and did whatever she wanted whenever she wanted, he was too much of a pussy to say anything- she got attracted to me because I never gave in to her and let her get "her way"- and surprisingly she has given in to me for now...

 

[casavant]

I hear ya, man. Sounds like you're a little conflicted. It sucks when the "smart" thing to do is exactly the opposite of what you'd like to do. It's your call. Good luck.

 

[Lord_Suston]

Pop a Viagra, grudge fuck the hell outta her for 5 hours, then kick that ho to the curb

Inspirational genius here in that quote. There is no place for second, but there is a pace to fuck her so hard she can't walk then dfile her by ramming your shit into her ass untill she can even shit wtith a laxative cause of the swelling.

Revenge is the best and ONLY WAY.....

 

[casavant]

Lord_Suston has some good advice too.

 

[cladshirt]

Re

Keep nailing her!

 

[Stillhere]

Just come up to her and tell her "look here ho, I will provide protection and in return, I would appreciate a little cunt fucking here and there with a few acquaintances of mine, we got a deal?"

 

[bigguns7]

You could fuck her for sure, that sounds like an awesome arrangement. But it sounds like you're already emotionally involved, so I would run while you still can.

 

[velvett]

I know I started out as a rebound but I believe it's become more, she doenst see any of her guy friends now but me...so last week her BF comes back crying to her and missing her...she tells me shes confused and thinks she will get back with him on their date next Sat.

Run like hell.

Either way you lose.
She confused?

You mean she can't decide who will do more for her.
Comfort (the ex) vs. someone new and exciting (you)

People tend to go with comfort because it is familiar.


It's either you or him simple as that and if you have faith in a future together with this girl let her work out things with the ex and don't see her or talk to her until she's no longer confused.

It's not fair to you and it's not fair to the ex.

You met 6 weeks ago and they broke up 4 weeks ago - I think your answer is right there.


nuff said.