Robert Jan
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Do you think most people think a muscular man is less smart, more ill mannered, more agressive, less sophisticated than the same man more slim?
Is it because of their actual size, or because the way their clothes fit, or because they seem less careful and controlled(elephant in the porcelain closet effect) or because they may waddle, or stick their arms out?
Do you find when you go to a party or diner people think your security or something and not a guest and dont take you serious?
I`m talking about the 2 exact same people, except one with 50 lbs extra muscle.
If so, how hard or easy do you find this stereotype to break? For the big guys out there who take not only their body but also their mind serious, do you find you can connect to people as well as when you were small, or are you stuck in the teddy bear/protector/berserker box?
Is it because of their actual size, or because the way their clothes fit, or because they seem less careful and controlled(elephant in the porcelain closet effect) or because they may waddle, or stick their arms out?
Do you find when you go to a party or diner people think your security or something and not a guest and dont take you serious?
I`m talking about the 2 exact same people, except one with 50 lbs extra muscle.
If so, how hard or easy do you find this stereotype to break? For the big guys out there who take not only their body but also their mind serious, do you find you can connect to people as well as when you were small, or are you stuck in the teddy bear/protector/berserker box?

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