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Soul Mate?

Y_lifter

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Soulmates are only for the movies IMO...
I have come close with mine, but there are still times when I
wonder if there is someone MORE PREFECT out there...
 
Mine is probably way higher than average. I don't believe in the soulmate thing either. I have been on probably 200 or more dates, but have only fallen for 2. There are a few others I might have fallen for if they had fallen for me.
 
Y Lifter,

Me too! It's so strange. I don't think we ever appreciate what we have until it's gone. I know it's a cliche, but I have to remind myself of that everytime my husband and I have some ridiculous fight. :)
 
flexygrl said:
Y Lifter,

Me too! It's so strange. I don't think we ever appreciate what we have until it's gone. I know it's a cliche, but I have to remind myself of that everytime my husband and I have some ridiculous fight. :)

Or I think the words "Man, what a Bitch she's being today"...
 
Your probability coefficient: 8.28373007858926E-08.

You have to meet 12,071,856 American single females who are between 18 and 26 years old who are living in your state or willing to move there.
 
Or I think the words "Man, what a Bitch she's being today"...

I hear you buddy. The sad part of it all, is that I start most of our fights. I just can't help myself. I get so bored with the everyday routine of life that I need to stir the pot up a little.

Any married man who treats his wife like gold, like my husband does, is an angel. Sometimes I wonder how in the hell he puts up with me.
 
Your probability coefficient: 2.42442333984375E-14.

You have to meet 41,246,921,837,687 American single females who are between 28 and 34 years old.


You might have to move.


lmao...thats encouraging.



Guess I am lucky




about soulmates.....thry can be friends of the opposite sex or same sex and they are not precluded to a sexual relationship.

When you have that feeling of:

"Do I know you?"


....that is probably the definition of soulmate.
 
flexygrl said:


I hear you buddy. The sad part of it all, is that I start most of our fights. I just can't help myself. I get so bored with the everyday routine of life that I need to stir the pot up a little.

Any married man who treats his wife like gold, like my husband does, is an angel. Sometimes I wonder how in the hell he puts up with me.

Honey?
Is that you ?
 
Your probability coefficient: 0

You have to meet 1 American single females who are between 19 and 21 years old.


Ha. Doubtful.
 
flexygrl said:


I hear you buddy. The sad part of it all, is that I start most of our fights. I just can't help myself. I get so bored with the everyday routine of life that I need to stir the pot up a little.

Any married man who treats his wife like gold, like my husband does, is an angel. Sometimes I wonder how in the hell he puts up with me.

He is a pussy. J/K :D
 
Cornholio said:
Your probability coefficient: 2.42442333984375E-14.

You have to meet 41,246,921,837,687 American single females who are between 28 and 34 years old.


You might have to move.




lmao...thats encouraging.



Guess I am lucky




about soulmates.....thry can be friends of the opposite sex or same sex and they are not precluded to a sexual relationship.

When you have that feeling of:

"Do I know you?"


....that is probably the definition of soulmate.

You may be even more fucked than me. Will we ever find true love?
 
biteme said:


You may be even more fucked than me. Will we ever find true love?

Finding it??

Well.....I have that "Do I know you?" thing goin on....but there is a difference it seems, between knowing the path and walking the path.

Women.....sigh
 
I'm lucky to be married to my soulmate. We met when neither of us were looking for anyone. It can be really freaky because we read each others' minds all the time, and it's been this way ever since we met 10 years ago. We share many interests but not all. We both value our independence, so we give each other space, but we also enjoy doing things together. We each have some quirks that slightly annoy the other, but we've never had a real fight about anything. The only thing we have to be on watch for is communicating, because sometimes we take the reading the mind thing for granted.
 
FitFossil said:
I'm lucky to be married to my soulmate. We met when neither of us were looking for anyone. It can be really freaky because we read each others' minds all the time, and it's been this way ever since we met 10 years ago. We share many interests but not all. We both value our independence, so we give each other space, but we also enjoy doing things together. We each have some quirks that slightly annoy the other, but we've never had a real fight about anything. The only thing we have to be on watch for is communicating, because sometimes we take the reading the mind thing for granted.

Is that your body in the avatar? If so, I wouldn't be doing much talking either.:D
 
That soulmate stuff is obviously bullshit... something that everyone would like to believe because it's comforting to think there's that one person out there that will make your heart pitter-patter. Too bad it makes no sense- simply too many people out there to think you'll find the one perfect person.
 
Lift Chief said:
That soulmate stuff is obviously bullshit... something that everyone would like to believe because it's comforting to think there's that one person out there that will make your heart pitter-patter. Too bad it makes no sense- simply too many people out there to think you'll find the one perfect person.

Thanks for conjuring up that wonderful memory. Your heart will go pitter-patter made me remember "Felix the Cat" and my wonderful childhood. Now, I think I may cry.:bawling:
 
Monagamy, the common idea of "love", marriage are all illusions people have faith in, similar to religion.
 
gettinlarger said:


Huh? I don't follow ...


It's the feeling of familiarity...that you have known this person in some way before...

certain phrases or tendencies that are just too familiar to ignore
 
Your probability coefficient: 0.000318665221875.

You have to meet 3,138 American single females who are between 18 and 30 years old.

You might have to move.

Well...that's not bad..or good.
 
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Cornholio said:


....when you meet her - that will change.
The way I see it, people have that "do I know you?" feeling because someone reminds them of a feeling they had before with someone else --- usually those feelings were preceded, accompanied or followed by pain, which is why they are held so deeply. I say this because the girls that have caused the most feelings I met at times of stress and/or at a transition in my life.

If people took a less serious approach and didn't attribute as much meaning to relationships, this wouldn't happen as much.

Maybe I am alone in believing that there's really not much interesting I can learn from relationships. I find pleasure in too many other things.

I see some men that are old, and the way their wives regard them is not respectful. I see women cheat on their husbands and act as if it never happened. I don't see a soulmate as a way to avoid loneliness in old age, and I don't see it as necessary for most people.
 
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plornive said:
The way I see it, people have that "do I know you?" feeling because someone reminds them of a feeling they had before with someone else --- usually those feelings were preceded, accompanied or followed by pain, which is why they are held so deeply. I say this because the girls that have caused the most feelings I met at times of stress and/or at a transition in my life.


....possibly.

I knew a girl who had this "pet name" for me....very odd...in fact in a zillion years no one would ever guess it.

Had a different girl call me the EXACT same name.

I had to ask if we had met before.
 
Cornholio said:



It's the feeling of familiarity...that you have known this person in some way before...

certain phrases or tendencies that are just too familiar to ignore

Now why couldnt I pick this up before?

I hope one day I feel something this.
 
I believe in Soul Mates. Me and my wife have been together over 21 total with dating and marriage. And I couldn't think of anyone else I would rather spend my time and retirement with on the porch swing when we get to be old farts.
 
I don't know if I believe in soul mates. I use to when I was younger. When hubby and I are having good days all I know is bliss, then when we have bad days I wonder if there is someone out there better for me, and him. I personally don't want to risk losing him to find out.

I think that all you can hope for is that you find someone that you are happy with atleast 80% of the time. If you are happy for more than that, then great. If not, you need to move on.
 
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I believe that soulmates definitely exist, but I also believe that not every person has a soulmate.
 
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