something im beginning to notice about people who cheat in relationships

[Sub-Zero]

Scroll back and read a few of his posts darlin. There are those that would beg to differ with that point of view. The entire board is not populated by 18/19 year old kids who live at home with mom and dad and think that it is *OK* to kick someone and rub salt into the wounds of a mother whose children were stolen from her and who are abused every single day while she must stand by helplessly and wait for the heavens to open up and show her a REAL WAY to save them. He was REVELING in the suffering of my innocent children.

THAT IS LESS THAN HUMAN BY ANYONE'S ACCOUNT.

When my husband was your ages he was in Vietnam, wasn't his choice but he went anyway. You can't (and neither can I) begin to imagine the horrors he witnessed firsthand. He only talks about it when I or others ask and even then he doesnt say much. But every now and again he still has nightmares and his wounds have aged him far ahead of his time. But he never complains... though he should.

Whether he was my husband or not, I can assure you HE doesnt find what is happening to my children something that is funny or something that is to be talked about so flippantly.

But then again, my husband is a man of honor, something that most young boys like yourselves know very little if anything about.

im sorry

 

[Bikini Mod]

Actually, there was never a question directed at you in my post. That's an intersting phenomeon, answering questions that aren't there. Must be some kind of psychological fallout from being ignored by the judge, the same one who took your kids from you. I actually feel sorry for those innocent children, I think all kids deserve to be brought up in a stable home. Unfortuntaely thats not always a reality.

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/7569831-post65.html

Really... WHO THE FUCK were you talking to then?

Can't backpeddle you smug little pissant.

How dare YOU talk about MY CHILDREN THIS WAY??!?!

Do you have a fucking clue how it feels for me to KNOW that my exhusband is doing this to them and KNOW that the judge doesnt give a shit... Do you have a FUCKING CLUE how much red tape my family has to wade through before this situation can BEGIN to be rectified?

Just shut the fuck up.... You've said too much already.

And no, just because I am willing to share my family's tragedy that does NOT give you the right to make light of it.

Karma is a bitch little man.... karma is a bitch.

 

[CrazyRussian]

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/7569831-post65.html

Really... WHO THE FUCK were you talking to then?

Can't backpeddle you smug little pissant.

How dare YOU talk about MY CHILDREN THIS WAY??!?!

Do you have a fucking clue how it feels for me to KNOW that my exhusband is doing this to them and KNOW that the judge doesnt give a shit... Do you have a FUCKING CLUE how much red tape my family has to wade through before this situation can BEGIN to be rectified?

Just shut the fuck up.... You've said too much already.

And no, just because I am willing to share my family's tragedy that does NOT give you the right to make light of it.

Karma is a bitch little man.... karma is a bitch.

let it all out, let it all out. You won't be winning any battles in life any time soon, but I'll always be here for you to take your aggression out online. But cmon tell me the story again about how great your husband is and how he served in Nam, I liked that one.

 

[Bikini Mod]

im sorry

Apology accepted Subby...

It isn't YOUR FAULT that this shit is happening to my family and I am sorry to go on and on about it... I am consumed. How can I not be?

I had NO IDEA my exhusband was capable of such inhumanity. And I had even less of an idea that the system would fail us at every turn.

I obsess about it every minute of every day. I know I shouldn't and I'm sorry. It isn't good for me or anyone else...

Some bad shit happened a few days ago and it's eating me up. My 13 y/o texted me in the middle of the night that one of her friends found the blog and now she was with the police. I had my hopes raised that MAYBE *this time* someone would listen to her.... but same shit happened again. Cops told her to sit down and shut the fuck up and her spermdonor grounded her - so no phone contact with her. And I am dying because I can't speak to her to comfort her. Her younger sisters and I text/IM a bit but I dont want to make them feel that I am pumping them for information...

If I talk to my girls it hurts. If I dont talk to them it hurts. What a lot of people who don't realize is that my children suffer the same - not about ME/ME/ME....

I'm sorry for all this, but maybe if the meanies knew a little more, they would just stop already.... Or not as they are void of character, honor and humanity. But that does NOT define the entire board.

I have to go now. I appreciate your apology and thank you for it. We are cool.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Apology accepted Subby...

It isn't YOUR FAULT that this shit is happening to my family and I am sorry to go on and on about it... I am consumed. How can I not be?

I had NO IDEA my exhusband was capable of such inhumanity. And I had even less of an idea that the system would fail us at every turn.

I obsess about it every minute of every day. I know I shouldn't and I'm sorry. It isn't good for me or anyone else...

Some bad shit happened a few days ago and it's eating me up. My 13 y/o texted me in the middle of the night that one of her friends found the blog and now she was with the police. I had my hopes raised that MAYBE *this time* someone would listen to her.... but same shit happened again. Cops told her to sit down and shut the fuck up and her spermdonor grounded her - so no phone contact with her. And I am dying because I can't speak to her to comfort her. Her younger sisters and I text/IM a bit but I dont want to make them feel that I am pumping them for information...

If I talk to my girls it hurts. If I dont talk to them it hurts. What a lot of people who don't realize is that my children suffer the same - not about ME/ME/ME....

I'm sorry for all this, but maybe if the meanies knew a little more, they would just stop already.... Or not as they are void of character, honor and humanity. But that does NOT define the entire board.

I have to go now. I appreciate your apology and thank you for it. We are cool.

its hard for you, but its a fraction as hard for us to always read it. over time we become victims to it as well, and thats not fair. some people here disagree with your views on things, but EVERYBODY here, wishes the best possible for you and your family.

EF should be a place you come to get away, not to vent. we cant help, and maybe if you learn to quit putting it in every single post it will help you to create a slight sense of detatchment - not from your children or helping them, but from the traumas youv experienced in the past. that could be very healthy for you, and possibly even help you reason it out with the judges and people in charge.

 

[Bikini Mod]

its hard for you, but its a fraction as hard for us to always read it. over time we become victims to it as well, and thats not fair. some people here disagree with your views on things, but EVERYBODY here, wishes the best possible for you and your family.

EF should be a place you come to get away, not to vent. we cant help, and maybe if you learn to quit putting it in every single post it will help you to create a slight sense of detatchment - not from your children or helping them, but from the traumas youv experienced in the past. that could be very healthy for you, and possibly even help you reason it out with the judges and people in charge.

I hear you and thank you for that.

As for reasoning anything out with the judge, the man should be JAILED - not kidding. Wont get into it. Just trust me when I tell you that my husband and I are doing everything we can and will NEVER rest until my girls are safe and those responsible for hurting them are held accountable. It isn't so easy to get rid of a judge, no matter how outrageous his misconduct is. That is one of the reasons why this is taking so long. I dont know of anyone who has been through this and neither has any attorney that we have encountered as of yet... The system doesnt give a shit and you know the rest.

I promise to try to stop obsessing...

 

[CrazyRussian]

its hard for you, but its a fraction as hard for us to always read it. over time we become victims to it as well, and thats not fair. some people here disagree with your views on things, but EVERYBODY here, wishes the best possible for you and your family.

EF should be a place you come to get away, not to vent. we cant help, and maybe if you learn to quit putting it in every single post it will help you to create a slight sense of detatchment - not from your children or helping them, but from the traumas youv experienced in the past. that could be very healthy for you, and possibly even help you reason it out with the judges and people in charge.

Speak for yourself. She doesn't even have enough respect for the whole situation to keep the inner most details of her daughters personal lives off of a bodybuilding forum.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I hear you and thank you for that.

As for reasoning anything out with the judge, the man should be JAILED - not kidding. Wont get into it. Just trust me when I tell you that my husband and I are doing everything we can and will NEVER rest until my girls are safe and those responsible for hurting them are held accountable. It isn't so easy to get rid of a judge, no matter how outrageous his misconduct is. That is one of the reasons why this is taking so long. I dont know of anyone who has been through this and neither has any attorney that we have encountered as of yet... The system doesnt give a shit and you know the rest.

I promise to try to stop obsessing...

thanks i appreciate that, and im sure the other members will as well. i think it will help you in the long run.

 

[puddlemonkey]

So I'm thinking chicken burrito for lunch today, what do you guys think?

 

[KillahBee]

So I'm thinking chicken burrito for lunch today, what do you guys think?

I'm treating myself to sushi and beer tonite