something im beginning to notice about people who cheat in relationships

[Jon79]

Then dont fucking read/comment on them.... simple...shmimple. Do you HONESTLY think that I read most of your threads/posts? I don't. Not because I think you are a bad person but because being high most of the time (and all that goes along with that) simply does not interest me....

You can exercise your right to scroll past every single one of my threads/posts and we will still be cool!

The rest of your post made no sense whatsoever so I will give you *the right* because I am feeling THAT generous today.

ppffftttt

 

[Bikini Mod]

ppffftttt

Did you just say, "FUCK ME?"

"FUCK ME?" "FUCK ME?"

Did he just say, "FUCK ME?!?!?!"

Oh yea?!

WELL FUCK YOU!!!!









*Betty Rubble laugh*

 

[Sub-Zero]

I take you seriously only in the fact that I know at the core of every joke there is, at least, a kernel of truth or what you perceive as the truth. I don't get upset with the "virtual world." Do I take things seriously enough to try to be clear with my POV, certainly, but bear in mind, I work with words, I enjoy a well worded argument, and I enjoy debate. Part of the reason I keep on with this board is the occasional ethical/moral debate that arises. And honestly, if something I've said has been useful/interesting to you or anyone else, then I can actually feel good about that, even if it's just given them pause to consider another perspective.

I wouldn't put you on Ignore, there's a part of your attitude that reminds me of my son. He's a jerk, too, but now he's his wife's jerk

a well worded arguement doesnt include discrediting someone because of age or attacking their personal experiences.

a well worded and mature arguement that you are refering to, does however, include adressing the points of the post, and disagreeing, or agreeing with, and providing examples.

this is something you and bikinimom ( bikinimom way more than you) need to work on

 

[Sub-Zero]

Then dont fucking read/comment on them.... simple...shmimple. Do you HONESTLY think that I read most of your threads/posts? I don't. Not because I think you are a bad person but because being high most of the time (and all that goes along with that) simply does not interest me....

You can exercise your right to scroll past every single one of my threads/posts and we will still be cool!

The rest of your post made no sense whatsoever so I will give you *the right* because I am feeling THAT generous today.

why would you make a post directed at me and then tell me not to read a part of it. you already have a blog. just quit posting random shit like that when your adressing your posts to me. is it really that hard?

 

[Bikini Mod]

a well worded arguement doesnt include discrediting someone because of age or attacking their personal experiences.

a well worded and mature arguement that you are refering to, does however, include adressing the points of the post, and disagreeing, or agreeing with, and providing examples.

this is something you and bikinimom ( bikinimom way more than you) need to work on

Good Lord you lack life experience because you are a young boy that lives at home with his parents but you still *think* you know it all.

That is NOT a personal attack - it is A FACT.

Get over it already.

And as for me *interjecting* my frame of reference on many of my posts, guess what Subby, as a young boy who still lives under his parents roof and has never even had a committed relationship let alone been a parent I will enlighten you to something - my children are part of me and infiltrate nearly every fiber of my being so it is almost IMPOSSIBLE for me to separate myself from that. All of my posts are filtered through MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE - my point of view so surely you can *understand that*.

You get high a lot and I am a mother. So we just naturally talk most about those things that are the biggest part of us.

Is it EVERYTHING?

NO, but for you to ask me to *stop being a mother* because you can't relate to it is like me asking you to *stop being a dopey kid* because as I enter my twilight years (lmfao) I just can't relate. It ain't gonna happen. And I will mention my children and our situation wherever I deem it proper. That does not give you or anyone else *the right* to proliferate lies or speak to me (or anyone else) in an abusive or derogatory hate-filled fashion, especially if I never said anything of that sort to you. <--- and yes, this applies to ME FIRST.

Dont read my posts/threads if you cant relate and it bothers you THAT much. Your posts/threads are only bothersome to me when they are offensive. Other than that - we cool

 

[Sub-Zero]

Good Lord you lack life experience because you are a young boy that lives at home with his parents but you still *think* you know it all.

That is NOT a personal attack - it is A FACT.

Get over it already.

And as for me *interjecting* my frame of reference on many of my posts, guess what Subby, as a young boy who still lives under his parents roof and has never even had a committed relationship let alone been a parent I will enlighten you to something - my children are part of me and infiltrate nearly every fiber of my being so it is almost IMPOSSIBLE for me to separate myself from that. All of my posts are filtered through MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE - my point of view so surely you can *understand that*.

in a post about "highfiving" other members for their insults, what you are going through/went through) with your kids, has absolutely zero application, and gives zero frame of reference. it is just another case of you trying to shove you personal life under the nose of someone who doesnt give a fuck about it

You get high a lot and I am a mother. So we just naturally talk most about those things that are the biggest part of us.

that is good and fair, but i asked you to stop referencing your personal touchy issues in posts directed at me, ESPECIALLY when it has zero relevence. im serious. please stop.

Is it EVERYTHING?

NO, but for you to ask me to *stop being a mother* because you can't relate to it is like me asking you to *stop being a dopey kid* because as I enter my twilight years (lmfao) I just can't relate. It ain't gonna happen. And I will mention my children and our situation wherever I deem it proper. That does not give you or anyone else *the right* to proliferate lies or speak to me (or anyone else) in an abusive or derogatory hate-filled fashion, especially if I never said anything of that sort to you. <--- and yes, this applies to ME FIRST.

Dont read my posts/threads if you cant relate and it bothers you THAT much. Your posts/threads are only bothersome to me when they are offensive. Other than that - we cool

no point in addressing this part since what i wanted to say is already said.

but cliffnotes:
THERE IS A THREAD ABOUT US NOT BEING ALLOWED TO REFERENCE YOUR PERSONAL LIFE, OR MAKE FUN OF IT, OR TALK ABOUT IT, OR BRING IT UP, OR ANYTHING, OR WE WILL GET BANNED. DO NOT TRY AND FORCE YOUR PERSONAL ISSUES INTO MY HEAD. I AM NOT A THERAPIST AND CANNOT HELP YOU OR YOUR FAMILY. PLEASE STOP EXPOSING ME TO YOUR ISSUES, I ASKED YOU NICELY. THANK YOU

 

[Bikini Mod]

Dood where you get your info from? miserable marriages? failed at anything?

What have I failed at? I've done NOTHING that I am ashamed of. Everything that has happened to my children was beyond my ability to stop and 100% the shame of my exhusband and the shame of every single other adult that was supposed to protect them. Nothing you or anyone else can post here that has a SHRED of truth to it could begin to contradict that.

You are a sad little snot-nosed boy that revels in the suffering of innocent children. <--- THAT is something that anyone (who had *this much sense*) would know they should be ashamed of.

But thank you for asking.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Dood where you get your info from? miserable marriages? failed at anything?

What have I failed at? I've done NOTHING that I am ashamed of. Everything that has happened to my children was beyond my ability to stop and 100% the shame of my exhusband and the shame of every single other adult that was supposed to protect them. Nothing you or anyone else can post here that has a SHRED of truth to it could begin to contradict that.

You are a sad little snot-nosed boy that revels in the suffering of innocent children. <--- THAT is something that anyone (who had *this much sense*) would know they should be ashamed of.

But thank you for asking.

in his defense he didnt once say anything that leads a normal person to believe he approves of, let alone enjoys the suffering of children.

 

[CrazyRussian]

Dood where you get your info from? miserable marriages? failed at anything?

What have I failed at? I've done NOTHING that I am ashamed of. Everything that has happened to my children was beyond my ability to stop and 100% the shame of my exhusband and the shame of every single other adult that was supposed to protect them. Nothing you or anyone else can post here that has a SHRED of truth to it could begin to contradict that.

You are a sad little snot-nosed boy that revels in the suffering of innocent children. <--- THAT is something that anyone (who had *this much sense*) would know they should be ashamed of.

But thank you for asking.

Actually, there was never a question directed at you in my post. That's an intersting phenomeon, answering questions that aren't there. Must be some kind of psychological fallout from being ignored by the judge, the same one who took your kids from you. I actually feel sorry for those innocent children, I think all kids deserve to be brought up in a stable home. Unfortuntaely thats not always a reality.

 

[Bikini Mod]

in his defense he didnt once say anything that leads a normal person to believe he approves of, let alone enjoys the suffering of children.

Scroll back and read a few of his posts darlin. There are those that would beg to differ with that point of view. The entire board is not populated by 18/19 year old kids who live at home with mom and dad and think that it is *OK* to kick someone and rub salt into the wounds of a mother whose children were stolen from her and who are abused every single day while she must stand by helplessly and wait for the heavens to open up and show her a REAL WAY to save them. He was REVELING in the suffering of my innocent children.

THAT IS LESS THAN HUMAN BY ANYONE'S ACCOUNT.

When my husband was your ages he was in Vietnam, wasn't his choice but he went anyway. You can't (and neither can I) begin to imagine the horrors he witnessed firsthand. He only talks about it when I or others ask and even then he doesnt say much. But every now and again he still has nightmares and his wounds have aged him far ahead of his time. But he never complains... though he should.

Whether he was my husband or not, I can assure you HE doesnt find what is happening to my children something that is funny or something that is to be talked about so flippantly.

But then again, my husband is a man of honor, something that most young boys like yourselves know very little if anything about.