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the_clockwork
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I didn't answer.. she said she wanted to "talk"..
What should a man do?
What should a man do?
string_bean00
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turn SWV and go back to her and then cry when she dumps you again, I think
the_clockwork said:
Decide if you want to be a man or not. Decide if you want a relationship with her or not.
THEN tell her exactly that and go from there. No fucking around, ESPECIALLY the second time around.
Do absolutely nothing. No contact, no talks, no being friends. The past is just that...the past.
calveless wonder
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lol....
i wouldn't call her. maybe see what she has to say in an e-mail....just maybe for own personal peace of mind, but beyond that..don't let it linger
definetely don't take her back...
I can't be the only rebound dude on this forum
btw, i agree with jack for the most part. past is the past
i wouldn't call her. maybe see what she has to say in an e-mail....just maybe for own personal peace of mind, but beyond that..don't let it linger
definetely don't take her back...
I can't be the only rebound dude on this forum
btw, i agree with jack for the most part. past is the past
string_bean00
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jh1 said:
when it comes to getting back with an ex that's always the first thought in my mind
covergrl80
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Depends on why your guys are no longer together. Please tell.
calveless wonder
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string_bean00 said:
morbid thinking but it's true....and kind of human nature
completely taints the relationship/bond
Hmmmm, I guess I missed the "clockwork's girl is a whore and dumped him" thread. lol sorry.
jh1 said:
You usually get that routine the day after she got corn-holed by the infamous "friend" who is "like a brother" to her.
fistfullofsteel
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WODIN said:
we have a winner, trust wodin. he is really old and he knows alot stuff about life.
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alien amp pharm
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WWJD ?
What would Jh1 do
-Go back to her, have a kid, and live happily ever after.
(ever after = 2 months)
What would Jh1 do
-Go back to her, have a kid, and live happily ever after.
(ever after = 2 months)
Normally I would not say this but in your case I will call her
patsfan1379
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alien amp pharm said:
post o' the week
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Gambino
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serious good words right here.jh1 said:
fuggin happened to me a few yrs back, girl just kept on fucking me over and over...sad to this day she still calls me now and then
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the_clockwork
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She's not a whore, sorry to break it to you guys
I've known her for 18 years and far from the average run of the mill coke slut whore some of you date / screw
I am more leaning towards no contact seeing how she nearly fucked up my last cycle!
I've known her for 18 years and far from the average run of the mill coke slut whore some of you date / screw
I am more leaning towards no contact seeing how she nearly fucked up my last cycle!
calveless wonder
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the_clockwork said:
you knew her since she was 6?
and how did she fuck up your last cycle?
Doesn't matter if you were born in the same hospital at the very same time, and you were in the same hospital crib.
No contact.
No contact.
You're stubbornthe_clockwork said:
weight out the good and the bad if there is more bad then good then don't call otherwise swallow your pride and call.
calveless wonder
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jh1 said:
this is 1000% true
the_clockwork said:
Did it mind fuck you to see her on your caller ID?
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the_clockwork
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calveless wonder said:
ya we grew up together. Only dated for about 4 years total.. off and on
when she broke up our engagement it fucked up my diet right when I was starting my cycle I'm on now but I got it straight!
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the_clockwork
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juiceddreadlocks said:
yes I had to look at it twice to see if it was really her.. Odd
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the_clockwork
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slat1 said:
haha she's not a stripper slat.. is this still acceptable?
jh1 said:
Dude I hope beefcake28 gets on here and posts about how he made my ex ball her eyes out for an hour on saturday night...in front of her friends. I was still a bitch ass SWV by the end of the night, but that's due to some other factors I cant control right now.
Yeah, call her then.the_clockwork said:
avidinternet
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No man don't call her.
You were engaged and went out for a long time and she broke up with you out of the blue cause she wasn't feelin you enough to get married.
It's one thing if a girl breaks up with you cause you don't want to get married and she does. But you were engaged and she dumped you...it will put you in the I'm a sucker bag if you take her back.
Call = I'm lonely and the new dates didn't pan out, tide me over till I find someone new.
No Way.
You were engaged and went out for a long time and she broke up with you out of the blue cause she wasn't feelin you enough to get married.
It's one thing if a girl breaks up with you cause you don't want to get married and she does. But you were engaged and she dumped you...it will put you in the I'm a sucker bag if you take her back.
Call = I'm lonely and the new dates didn't pan out, tide me over till I find someone new.
No Way.
avidinternet
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jh1 said:
If she breaks up with you she has to give the ring back, etiquette.
She got dumped recently, is bored, feels bloated, feels fat, feels bad about herself right now, etc. Could be a myriad of reasons why she called but you can count on not one of them because she sincerely wants you back. But tag it a few more times if you want, its all good.
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the_clockwork
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i love pussy
avidinternet
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the_clockwork said:
Just as long as you don't love 'being' one...
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the_clockwork
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I love being a pussy too
avidinternet
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That's prolly why she broke up w/ you
j/k
j/k
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the_clockwork
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SublimeZM said:
and then I stopped being a pussy and didn't let a woman who was out of my life control my life.. I got my diet back on and I must say, this is turning into a good cycle.. gains are coming strong
ponyfitness
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If you think that you can talk to her and maybe see her and have sex with her without getting emotionally involved and just seeing her as an object then go for the sex.
Whenever I deal with something like that (like right now) I make sure to think of all the fucking annoying things that I hated about that person so that when I speak to them or see them I only feel contempt and/or pity - not affection.
Whenever I deal with something like that (like right now) I make sure to think of all the fucking annoying things that I hated about that person so that when I speak to them or see them I only feel contempt and/or pity - not affection.
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the_clockwork
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can't fuck w/o strings attached.. There would be emotions revisited which is why I may be staying away from this
string_bean00
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the_clockwork said:
steroids give you the ability to separate the physical and emotional aspects. this is another reason why steroids are awesome.
string_bean00
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jh1 said:
heavy androgens do this for me, trenbolone / winstrol / masteron make me think more straightforward without silly thoughts in the way
while on the other hand Deca-Durabolin - nandrolone decanoate - always fucks with my head a little bit
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the_clockwork
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jh1 said:
no.. there is no way I could fuck with a girls emotions like that. If she had been a g/f of a year or something maybe but I've known this girl my whole life. I will not mess with her mind in any way plus I don't want to put myself at risk.. not worth it. Best we just go our seperate ways and find other people to spend our lives w/
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the_clockwork
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jh1 said:
I don't know how to explain it dude.. Money isn't an issue and I've known her for so long it ain't no big thing. I don't wish bad for her, only the best but just not with me.. I guess I didn't really get fucked by her like you did so I don't have that ill of feelings.. If I were in your shoes though she wouldn't get the fucking ring. no way
calveless wonder
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jh1 said:
no fuckin way bro.........so everytime you have to deal with your lawyers or legal proceedings or whatever you have to be reminded of how she fucked you over?
its not worth the emotional and financial stress.
i gave my ex a downpayment for a car, right before i found out she was cheating on me, and she intentionally misled/used me to get the money from me hoping i wouldn't find out about the other dude.....at first i wanted to go after her..threatened her with a letter of intent and all
but it wasn't worth it for a minute. the time i'd be all bent out of shape about 5 grand and the legal costs would just distract from everyday life when i can recoup that 4x that easy if i'm focused and not worried about that shit.
karma comes around. you don't have to play the judge and executioner
avidinternet
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jh1 said:
See he buys his cars instead of leasing them, so the money you throw away on that lease he's got to throw away on a ring...
He's finacially smarter than you dude, it all adds up...
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the_clockwork
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avidinternet said:
jh1
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calveless wonder said:
Depends on your personality.
I can't let shit like that go, because it would eat at me day in and day out with me thinking about how that cunt got over on me. I'd literally go insane.
I'd have to seek vengance. And I'd have it - no matter the cost.
That's me, that's the way I've always been and always will be.
Peeps know it too.... I spent 7800 in legal fees and alot of worrying, etc to get 400 bucks from an ex-g/f once... fuckng bitch opened up accounts in my name and I wasn't having it. No way. No how.
avidinternet
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jh1 said:
Save yourself the time and money. 99% of the time it's not worth the bs you go through to get even.
Let shit go and save yourself the grief, trust me it works.
jh1
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avidinternet said:
No way.
In fact, it's pissing me off beyond all belief right fucking now about what Cave-Less Wonder's ex did to him.
You know that little diabolical bitch is out there right now driving around in her car.. in fact her b/f is probably driving it while she is giving him road head - and she is laughing about how caveless paid the downpayment for her.
She fucking used him like a doormat.
i don't stand for that shit. No fucking way.
GoldenDelicious
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take her back
add her to the rotation of hte other 5 girlfriends you ahve
when she finds out that you use 24 condoms for every 3 times you shag her and tries freaking out at you about "cheating" on her, innocently say "oh...you mean...you wanted to be...EXCLUSIVE? HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAAAA" *slam door in face*
add her to the rotation of hte other 5 girlfriends you ahve
when she finds out that you use 24 condoms for every 3 times you shag her and tries freaking out at you about "cheating" on her, innocently say "oh...you mean...you wanted to be...EXCLUSIVE? HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAAAA" *slam door in face*
beefcake28
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juiceddreadlocks said:
Yeah, it happened... in the middle of her favorite bar with all of her friends around. She loves to stir up the drama... Shit can only go so far, ya know?
the_clockwork said:
Yeah, I like jh1 too, but back to the matter at hand. I'm going to have to go with jack on this one, just leave it alone!
calveless wonder
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jh1 said:
Revenge is not a personality thing...it's a maturity bro. She was a diabolical bitch, no question....but i refuse to burn my energy/suffer any more than i already have for her. letting go is the most powerful thing you can do. At the end of the day, yes someone wronged may have wronged you...but as a person, you allow things to happen or ignore warning signs due to being with a person for a long time or due to being in love. That's no one's fault but my own. I used to be the MASTER of revenge..i'm talking finding the worst things in a specific person's life and completely twisting the knife in there, but it made me just as guilty as the other person.
p.s. did i mention she kidnapped our dog? THAT i was definetely going to go to court for...this is the last and only time we spoke since she did that to me
but the reality is with the amount of hours i work i couldn't take care of the little dude by myself. I didn't want to see him suffer or go through any shit....me pursuing that was just me being emotional about her taking away everything i had
fistfullofsteel
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fuck her and chuck her
again
again
calveless wonder said:
sorry about the dog/ i had a similar issue when I divorced my ex.
i agree with what you said though about being blind or stupid and letting things happen. I mean, how often are we really victims? Not as often as some would presume.
revenge in situations like this is just dumb. look within yourself and do yourself a favor by not making the same mistake again. at least that what works for me.
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heatherrae
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RUN!
She was pretty rotten the first time. PEOPLE RARELY CHANGE! She's probably out of money.
She was pretty rotten the first time. PEOPLE RARELY CHANGE! She's probably out of money.
jh1
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calveless wonder said:
THere is alot of truth there. I always think of 'letting something go' as something that relgious people can do.... "Let god sort it out" - which seems to divest them of taking any real responsibility, thinking that some how this fictional character is going to avenge them someday, somehow.
In fact, in a way I envy those that can do that because they do seem to better off for being able to do so. I guess I just need a more logical explanation as to why I should let go of things like that - you seem to have alot of good logical reasons in there.... I'm not there yet though....
heatherrae said:
TTICR
My cute little lawyer girlfriend does it again
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heatherrae
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come on over baby, and I'll take you into my chambers...jack_schitt said:TTICR
My cute little lawyer girlfriend does it again
navigatorrs
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string_bean00 said:
Well Said bro!!!!!!!!!!!! Perfect Post!!!!!!!!!!!!
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the_clockwork
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jh1 said:THere is alot of truth there. I always think of 'letting something go' as something that relgious people can do.... "Let god sort it out" - which seems to divest them of taking any real responsibility, thinking that some how this fictional character is going to avenge them someday, somehow.
In fact, in a way I envy those that can do that because they do seem to better off for being able to do so. I guess I just need a more logical explanation as to why I should let go of things like that - you seem to have alot of good logical reasons in there.... I'm not there yet though....
I don't think you will ever realize a certain situation that will make you want to let go, but you may just wear yourself out from bitterness (this is pretty much what I did). But I also know our situations are very different and it's like comparing apples and oranges. You have your daughter's safety and emotional state to look after while I have none of that. The past is the past for a reason, to dwell on it seems redundant. We learned and must move on, as is life.
I'm thinking of adopting the JH1 strategy. I'm not joking here either...I let way too much shit go.
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the_clockwork
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haha you pissed away 8 grand for 400 bucks?
you must make a lot of money or you really are a vengeful person
I say keep the ring.. I don't fucking want it
you must make a lot of money or you really are a vengeful person
I say keep the ring.. I don't fucking want it
jnevin said:
This holds a lot of truth...I am miserable when I think about things that I let go of a long time ago.
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the_clockwork
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wow you vengeful fuckers
jh1 said:
Well, stopped thinking about for the most part is what I meant.
jnevin said:
Most things I forget about altogether, but there are a few things I would like revenge for. I'll be honest...I'm human.
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heatherrae
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LOL...keeping the ring is just wrong, no matter what.TC2 said:
I've broken off more than one engagement, sorry to say, and always gave the ring back. However, this last time, I had a restraining order against him. However, if he wants that ring back, he can ask me for it. I would gladly mail it to him, carefully wrapped in bubble wrap...lol.
jh1 said:Do It.
Start a list tonight. PM me, I'll help you work up appropriate vengence plans. I'm skilled.
I'll give you a detailed write up and forward all pertinent material.
TC2
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jh1 said:
1st thought that entered my mind.
I had a friend who's whore of an ex GF tried pulling the same shit, only it was with his families ring,necklace and ear ring set. it was very old and passed down from generation to generation.
Stupid cunt THOUGHT she was going to fuck him over and then keep them. He called me...I went over there with some wire cutters and told her, its the ring(and other stuff) or her finger, ring and other stuff.
She couldn't get that shit off fast enough.
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alien amp pharm
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tc2 talks tough, but I bet he's really a big teddy bear in real life.
