So I'm back talking with my ex

[bigtravis]

and then she "dudes" me. Like in a sentence. She said, "Dude I fell asleep". Does the fact that she said "dude" have some sort of subconcious meaning? Does it mean I'm fucked as far as becoming intimate with her again?

 

[Captain FT]

and then she "dudes" me. Like in a sentence. She said, "Dude I fell asleep". Does the fact that she said "dude" have some sort of subconcious meaning? Does it mean I'm fucked as far as becoming intimate with her again?

Maybe she's been watching Jersey Shore? Call her bro and see how she responds.

 

[nangiggles]

Nope I call my husband dude sometimes, he hates it but it slips....

 

[uamaverick]

Really depends on her personality. I've said dude before to some cool girls via text and it never harmed anything.

 

[bigtravis]

Just wondering. Shes never called me that. It just came across as if shes disassociated herself from me as far as a partner goes. Ah fuckit! I'm just a fuckin needy mutherfucker. I need some test. Feel like im turning into a pussy.

 

[uamaverick]

Why are you talking with your ex anyway? Generally not a good idea.

 

[bigtravis]

Why are you talking with your ex anyway? Generally not a good idea.

Now ya tell me. LOL

 

[PICK3]

dude, she's cheating on you

 

[ceo]

I'm just a fuckin needy mutherfucker. I need some test. Feel like im turning into a pussy.

this. Go watch another romantic comedy and wipe that sopping vagina of yours.

 

[redshirt27se]

tell her you were cheating on her the whole time you dated.

 

[jackangel]

this thread is insane.

 

[-SD-]

dude, wheres my gear

 

[mrplunkey]

and then she "dudes" me. Like in a sentence. She said, "Dude I fell asleep". Does the fact that she said "dude" have some sort of subconcious meaning? Does it mean I'm fucked as far as becoming intimate with her again?

The fact that you're trying to pick-apart anything a woman says is a massive red flag.

Here's my suggested road to redemption:

1) Discontinue contact

2) Get some test

3) Bang her best friend

P.S. She's cheating on you.

 

[bigtravis]

tell her you were cheating on her the whole time you dated.

She already knows it.

 

[bigtravis]

I'm gonna turn the game on her. She wants to take it slow. Right now shes in control. She calls and blocks her number and says we'll go for drink and she'll call on a when and where. She says I have to wait on her. So I'm dropping contact like Plunkey said and tomorrow I'm sending her my new cell number and leaving it at that. No more contact just through Facebook.

 

[nydj66]

I'm gonna turn the game on her. She wants to take it slow. Right now shes in control. She calls and blocks her number and says we'll go for drink and she'll call on a when and where. She says I have to wait on her. So I'm dropping contact like Plunkey said and tomorrow I'm sending her my new cell number and leaving it at that. No more contact just through Facebook.

Dude, you just said you cheated on her. And I'm guessing you got a little stalkerish too since she blocks her number from you.

Just let her have control for a while. She wants to come back but she's trying to make herself comfortable again after the shit that went down. Just go with it; stay in contact but do not push. Don't send up any red flags in her mind. I guarantee that within 6 weeks, she will have a bad day and come running to you.

In the meantime, play it very cool. Chase after some other skirt to keep your mind occupied, just don't let her know that's what you're up to.

 

[BlueBird]

How is her calling you 'dude' more worrisome to you then she saying she 'feel asleep' while talking to you?

 

[bigtravis]

Dude, you just said you cheated on her. And I'm guessing you got a little stalkerish too since she blocks her number from you.

Just let her have control for a while. She wants to come back but she's trying to make herself comfortable again after the shit that went down. Just go with it; stay in contact but do not push. Don't send up any red flags in her mind. I guarantee that within 6 weeks, she will have a bad day and come running to you.

In the meantime, play it very cool. Chase after some other skirt to keep your mind occupied, just don't let her know that's what you're up to.

youre absolutely correct

 

[nangiggles]

nydj66 is absolutely correct, listen to him.

 

[mrplunkey]

Dude, you just said you cheated on her. And I'm guessing you got a little stalkerish too since she blocks her number from you.

Just let her have control for a while. She wants to come back but she's trying to make herself comfortable again after the shit that went down. Just go with it; stay in contact but do not push. Don't send up any red flags in her mind. I guarantee that within 6 weeks, she will have a bad day and come running to you.

In the meantime, play it very cool. Chase after some other skirt to keep your mind occupied, just don't let her know that's what you're up to.

This is perfect advice.

And do chase some skirt on the side. Wimminz can smell it on you if you're not getting at least some play. Remember: The hungry man don't eat.

 

[bigtravis]

Thanks guys but I think shes wrote me off again. I'm back to talkin to myself

 

[nydj66]

Thanks guys but I think shes wrote me off again. I'm back to talkin to myself

Time will tell.

 

[OMEGA]

I think you will find alot has changed about her that you might not like

for example Ive had some ex GF eds get extremely vulgar which is a reflection of "the company they have kept"

Its up to you to see if she is salvageable